Older Women - People Prefer That?

For what it's worth, my current ATF tells me she's 50 (I'm older than that). But, I've always preferred sensuality and elegance to ... athleticism (for lack of a better word), and that ages very, very well.

It might vary by location and club so you should just try it and see what happens. I wouldn't move to another location, though, just because you think it might be easier to become an old stripper there. Here in Indianapolis where I live the >50 strippers are mostly seen in bottom tier clubs which have to hire anyone and can't be selective. I have seen a few in the top clubs. There's always going to be a few guys who like them so a club might hire one or two to cater to that market niche.

The majority of dancers, though, will be younger and prettier than average because most guys will only spend a lot of money in a club to get something they can't get in real life. I can get >50 women to spend time with me or do something sexual with me for free so there is not a strong incentive to go to a strip club and give one twenty dollars or more for a three-minute lap dance. I would actually feel slightly insulted if a woman around the same age as I am thought she was so much better than me that she expects me to hand her money in exchange for her attention.

Post-COVID things have been a little tougher in the clubs. For your situation I'd think it would be more club-to-club than a particular location. A few years back there was a TUSCLer who went by JudyJudy. She was a more mature lady who dabbled in dancing. I could never get my job to send me to Detroit (who knew that a business reason was a requirement for business travel?) but I would've tried to catch up with her. And if not there would've been lots of clubs around to make up for the disappointment.

Yes, I totally get it! I'm a VIP girl. One lap dance and we were back in the VIP room| Myfeeling is the smaller clubs is where I felt more comfortable those days anyways. it wasn't about big cash. It was about fun!

Heidi Klum is 48 and I'd buy a dance from her, maybe even two. Social skills count, and a lot of young dancers don't have them.

Agreed with some above comment about just going in and seeing how it goes. I’ve seen some older dancers who do very well though

Very niche but in the right market and club with a solid look it can go well. I tend to find the older dancers in more extras friendly clubs but it's highly variable.

You look fantastic. Lie about your age if it’s an issue. Most guys won’t care if you otherwise are their type.

To be honest. Since I'm annonymous on the internet. I'm close to 40 and I avoid the older dancers, sometimes even the ones late 30s because they have danced for 10 years and are burned out. I also avoid the extreme ends. If you are picking by area for some reason, then just know what the state laws are. TX and FL allow two way touching and a lot of other things. But TN for example is very strict, limited to no touching. Also do you want full nude club or just topless. Some girls hate when customers are constantly drunk. Some girls want topless only because customers will eventually get inside you somehow someway. I've heard of girls giving lapdances and it was going great, then he whipped it out faster than she could see, and she came down on it perfectly without looking and she got pissed/shocked!

If you're hot, you're hot. Especially if you are experienced.. FL day shift clubs always seem to have one or two ladies near the golf courses and retirement communities that look like they do well

My former ATF was 51 when she finally hung up her heels in the pandemic. She was still probably one of the top three earners in the club and may we'll have been the top earner. She was beautiful, mature and a pleasure to be around.

My current ATF is about to turn 44, and is probably the hottest women I have ever known. I'd say go for it!

I liked older dancers even when I was younger. Maybe it’s just he experience and maturity that makes them better to me. I wouldn’t go as far as 50, but relatively recently pre-Covid, I was with a dancer who told me she was 43 and was one off the best I’ve got dances from in years. There was another in the same club where I know she had to be over 40, late 30s at best, and she had possibly the best breasts I’d ever seen. And breasts are not as big a deal to me as they used to be, but this lady changed my mind! Lol

I’ve seen some do well. Admittedly though my preferences tend to run towards girls on the younger end of the spectrum. Generally the successful older dancers tend to have very good conversational skills and of course take good care of themselves.

If you are fit and skin tone is youth, age really does not matter. However, need to find the right club.

being fit n sexy can interest me...

If I want a fit, sexy, skilled woman over 50 I can stay home for that. In a strip club I consider 30 too old.

You bet they do!

Yes, as long as you're still taking care of yourself and in shape. Hot women past their 50's is a rarity, but since you're category is so rare there will be more demand than the supply. Also, to a 50+ year old, especially some 70 year old, you're still "young". And these older men who can spend money on sex workers tend to be more wealthy unlike a 20 something year old who can only afford $20 lap dances or a $300/hour escort once every other month. There are way more men past 50 looking for hot women their age that they can have a real conversation with compared to actual hot 50 year old women with great conversation skills.

Most women your age aren't at the strip club either because they're out of shape (like obese and hunched over), have health issues, and get too tired, or because they still got it but they're tired of the lifestyle. But that means more men for you. Your competition isn't the 18-35 year olds with tattoos who can twerk and do poletricks, but other older women.

We don't care about your age. Most men don't think "oh,she's my mom's age." We're not wired that way. Looks and attitude are all that 99% of guys need to find a woman attractive.

One of my faves is in her 50s. She's a petite, perfectly proportioned fireball who's very energetic on stage and in private. And she makes way more bank than the bored young GPSes.

I have less than zero interest in dancers over 30 (Ivanna is the exception). If I want a hot woman, over 50, who is awesome sexually, i just stay home with my wife.

I'll choose a 50 year-old with a fun demeanor, over a 21 year-old hottie with a superiority complex, nearly every time. Physical appearance is not always the most important quality. At the clubs that I frequent, there are older dancers that I consider to be top choices over the younger ones which generally have miserable attitudes and entitlement.

A busy of mine once said. Who cares about the strippers age. It'sall about getting pussy.

A dancer loses points for being old, or fat. A 50 year old hottie does not have the market value of a 19 year old hottie. If you don't over-price yourself, provide good value and are easy to deal with you should do fine.

I started dancing when I was 40 and I just turned 46 and I'm a top earner. I'm not burned out, I provide great customer service and Im sexy with a positive attitude. So try out different clubs. If you can make money on a busy night, then do it. Maybe 1 night a week. I'm going to cut back to 2 or 3 shifts a week after May be t year. But I'm making good money for now

As I said in a similar thread posted by Skittles, the market will tell you whether you still have what it takes. While my preferences skew to the under 40 demographic, every guy has his own tastes and preferences. Skittles is definitely proof of that.

I an not cognizant of any dancer over 50 that is on my radar in any of the strip clubs that I visit today. I'm well aware of at least 10 women between the age of 40 and 49 that do in fact still captivate me at various strip clubs. If I were to guess, half of them might still hold it together in their 50's to remain compelling to me in a state of undress. I like women who defy time and the aging process.

Based on your pictures I wouldn’t be able to resist you. If you approached me at the club but I have a thing for milfs and cougars. That being said I probably wouldn’t approach you

The women I have danced with that were UHM and my all time faves were MILFs! There was one a few years back, I won't describe how she looked like but her extras were so insane and her dances were so sensual (even in open lap areas), I was literally short of breath. Some of the customers were shocked how sensual the dances i got from this early 50s Cougar. She gave you literal BJs with your pants on, licked your nipples like crazy, and randomly rubbed her boobs in customers faces when she was super drunk. Older women/MILFs/Cougars know how to take care of their customers and treat them right! I will pick an 50 year old lady with 4 kids who has a sensual demeanor when asking dances from me than an early 30s girl who is really fit and is known for giving lazy air dances. I am saying this as a early 30s dude who looks super young for his age. We need a club specifically catered to dudes with MILF fetishes!

My preference is stereotypical hot, fit, (bonus if athletic), natural large proportionate rack. But, in my book, if you're hot, then you're hot. I once had a great time at the Coliseum with an actual gilf. If she told me she was a cover model/rock video girl from the 80s, I would have believed it. Even with the obvious crows feet and pronounced smile lines, and the sun damage neck, she is still hot af. Body is still a hard 8.