Your Taste In Girls As A Kid vs Now.
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Has your preference in girls really shifted or changed growing up?
I think the overall style and fashion I liked has remained the same (since I was a young teenager, any kind of alternative look fascinated me - tattoos/piercings, unnatural hair colors, and cuts, etc. I remember when reality tv shows were very prevalent at the time and the Rock of Love series was my favorite because I thought most of the girls on it were hot. Dumb to an extent, but hot.).
But I think the main thing that changed with me was that back then, I was more attracted to the petite/skinny/spinner girls. Visible hip bones, thigh gap, and the nonexistent waist circumference were what I thought was attractive when I was around 13 - 16 years old (the golden age of overbearing beauty standards.)
But now... my taste has definitely matured. Not that I'm opposed to spinners now, but I've seen a lot of different sized girls that I found attractive so as long as the ratio is phenomenal. So no matter how small or big her overall body is, if the boob to waist to hip difference is quite contrary, I'm for it. I find myself peeping at the girls with the bigger assets a lot more now compared to who I thought was attractive 10 - 15 years ago.
Back then I didn't really care for proportions because a lot of kids linked wide hips, huge bust, or both as 'fat', but I can definitely say now that that's not always the case - especially with some dancers that have caught my attention over the last several years.
I think the overall style and fashion I liked has remained the same (since I was a young teenager, any kind of alternative look fascinated me - tattoos/piercings, unnatural hair colors, and cuts, etc. I remember when reality tv shows were very prevalent at the time and the Rock of Love series was my favorite because I thought most of the girls on it were hot. Dumb to an extent, but hot.).
But I think the main thing that changed with me was that back then, I was more attracted to the petite/skinny/spinner girls. Visible hip bones, thigh gap, and the nonexistent waist circumference were what I thought was attractive when I was around 13 - 16 years old (the golden age of overbearing beauty standards.)
But now... my taste has definitely matured. Not that I'm opposed to spinners now, but I've seen a lot of different sized girls that I found attractive so as long as the ratio is phenomenal. So no matter how small or big her overall body is, if the boob to waist to hip difference is quite contrary, I'm for it. I find myself peeping at the girls with the bigger assets a lot more now compared to who I thought was attractive 10 - 15 years ago.
Back then I didn't really care for proportions because a lot of kids linked wide hips, huge bust, or both as 'fat', but I can definitely say now that that's not always the case - especially with some dancers that have caught my attention over the last several years.
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Younger days mainly looked for the 9s and 10s, nowadays more open to the 7.5s and up. Personality matters more now too.
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remember the club l'amours in brooklyn during the 80's to early 90's? if those types of girls would work at the strip clubs i go to i would be fucking broke.
But that’s alright. For me, attraction has always been more than physical characteristics alone. There has to be something on an interpersonal level as well. And frankly, I am unlikely to have much in common with a woman who is in her twenties - yet alone younger than that.
As far as physical chacteristics, what I find attractive varies widely.
Generally spwaking, I think that women between about 5’0 and 5’8” are most attractive. But I am 6’2” and have been with women taller than my ideal.
Physical fitness is a must.
But things like breast size, or hair color don’t matter to me.
An upbeat personality and intellectual curiosity are essential.
As far as ATFs in a club environment, my ATF is about 5’2”, 110 lbs. blonde hair, and G cup breasts.
That's what happens when you grow up with white-people
One thing is certain: Though I find women of all races attractive, over the years I've discovered, much to my delight, just how much I *really* love black women.
By puberty is when a girl's bod started to outweigh her face - I would be more attracted to the most-developed girl vs "the prettiest one" - also post-puberty I was really attracted to "women" vs "girls"; I was more attracted to women in their 30s and 40s than teens or 20s; again likely b/c post-puberty I was by default attracted to the more voluptuous women and MILFs tended to often be more voluptuous (tits; ass; hips; thighs).
I grew up in an almost all Hispanic city w/ very few AAs in my neighborhood or the school I attended - that was until high school where my high school was about 1/3 AA and I was exposed to black-girls on the regular - that is when my chocolate lust started - again, being attracted to the voluptuous/developed/built look, the black high-school girls were often better endowed (tits and ass) - prior to being exposed to AAs on a regular basis, I tended to be attracted to brunettes and always preferred tanned vs pale and the more tanned the better.
My pref has remained the same since high school, voluptuous black women - I've always been attracted to voluptuous and the dark-look even b/f I was exposed to black-women - I also prefer older vs younger; late-teens to early-20s has never been my strong pref although I don't dismiss them if I like their look but prefer women vs girls.
Guess I was always into big butts sculpted and maintained through hard work. It was also wonderful being one of the few "straight" guys in the mix.
I was and still am attracted to the way certain women move through the world. Chest up, gently swaying from side to side, leading with her pelvis. Sexy.
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Standards of beauty on women have changed so much over history, this fact makes these standards “temporary ideals”.
Our individual concept of beauty is based in our unique experience we have “learned” it from society, movies, schools, family, etc; and sometimes changes along our life...
I was 13 years old when I first saw the picture of 22 years old Marilyn Monroe naked, in which she poses with her legs curled beneath her and her arm raised up on a red velvet sheet, along with other poses.
https://tuscl.net/photo/5485
In my humble opinion Marilyn Monroe is, and forever will be the gold standard for class, sex appeal, and feminine beauty.
I was very enamored with Asian girls when I was in my teens. My high school gf was Asian, and she was a beauty.
I branched out in college and started enjoying athletic girls more. I dated several girls who were athletic and fit. I still found Asian girls highly attractive too.
Now, I’m mostly into older strippers who look old - who can’t hide years of use. Bad tattoos and tits that sag - difficulty holding that belly in - holes that look rough. You get the idea!
I used to have a narrow scope in terms of dress, hair color, skin tone, body decoration, etc. When I first started finding women attractive, they kinda had to have the right hair color/length, dress a certain way, all that. The target changed in high school, but it was still specific. As I got a little older, I started to appreciate them all. At this point, none of that matters to me in the least.
As an adult, I like women for different reasons. At work, I liked Kaylin for her friendly, flirty way, and I liked Sheila for the easy way we had bantering about most anything.
Preference, looks wise, hasn't changed much, most women are worth an appreciative look.
I seem to most prefer medium. Height, weight, curves. Hard to describe, but I know it when I see it. Add in a sparkle in the eye and responsive nipples - and there - that's it.
The only thing that's different is that I tend for a bit of an exotic look a little more these days. Probably because when I was younger, I was mainly around white girls. I still love hot, young, fit white girls; but if a similar black, asian or hispanic (sucker for dark eyes) girl comes around, I'm starting to fall in love.
Not a fan of extra curves, stretch marks, or a not-so-cute-face. Yup, very picky and constantly looking for girls so far out of my league that it boggles the mind.
For you, too? lol. Not always in a bad way. Some body types I never really saw the appeal in turns out do some pretty sexy things in the right situations. The hobby's been a great way to try out all 31 flavors and more.
Seems like the guys whose tastes change are the type who get turned on by being envied for the woman they're with. So they naturally follow the current beauty standard.