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6 months ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
@Book Guy
She must be doing something right, otherwise the house mother would have a talk with her. And if she didn't change her behavior the house mother would cut back her schedule. Of course, if the club is desperate for dancers, putting up with her is better then having a shortage or no dancers at all.
Also, she may not need the money. She may have a regular civilian job that pays well and the club just provides the opportunity to meet guys she finds appealing all in a safe environment. And she may get lucky and find a guy she finds appealing who has deep pockets.
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6 months ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
I think a lot of guys do believe a young stripper might have a civilian romantic relationship. That can explain why a good number of guys try to arrange an OTC with a stripper. The OTC could be something simple, initially like a dinner date with anticipation that if all goes well something more is expected in the future.
These guys are spending money on a date just like they would with a civilian girl so they fantasize that a romantic relationship is possible, just give it time. He knows the stripper may have other customers, but when she is with him he fantasizes that their relationship is different from the others.
I think this is actually quite common.
discussion comment
7 months ago
@venroc - It was located somewhere along 9W in the Newburgh - Poughkeepsie area. It was a small free standing building. The club and building are long gone. I was pretty good at painting bullseyes.
discussion comment
7 months ago
I think you need to define exactly the meaning of "two way full contact to stripper" so we are all working with a common understanding. A lot of what goes on in a club may depend on whether alcohol is served, whether the stripper is fully nude and whether "home rule" takes precedent. That is, the local municipality can have its own rules which can be more restrictive than the state law.
In general, in New York a stripper can be fully nude on stage and for lap dances if the club does not serve alcohol. For a club that does not serve alcohol, a customer cannot touch when the stripper is on stage, but it's O.K. to touch, with permission, during a fully nude lap dance, except touching her private areas.
Years ago, I was at a club in the Hudson Valley and a fully nude dancer handed out paint brushes. The customers could buy a paint brush and "paint" her in any area using some paint while she was fully nude on stage. Apparently, a "paint brush" is not touching!
The owner of another club that didn't serve alcohol told me I could "tip" while the fully nude dancer is on stage, but no touching. And tipping is strictly prohibited when the dancer is off stage or when the dancer does a lap dance. He wanted to immediately know if any dancer should ask for a tip or suggest that you will get a hotter dance for a tip. It has to do with what the local municipality considers to be prostitution.
The nuances depending on locality can make a big difference in your experience.
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7 months ago
It depends on the customer. The stripper may dislike herself for doing the type of work she does, but make no mistake she values or "likes" customers who make her job easier such as those who are well groomed, in shape, have money, and don't give her a hard time (pun intended) vs having to put up with beligerent out of shape drunk slobs. I would say 10% fall into the "likes" category.
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7 months ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
@grammanu95
"Brandon is another failed Boomer."
Brandon is not a boomer. He was born Nov. 20, 1942. Boomers are defined by the birth years 1946 - 1954. Brandon is a member of the Silent Generation.
Trump is a boomer. He was born June 4, 1946. And I certaintly wouldn't characterize Trump as a failed boomer.
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7 months ago
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CJKent_bandThe truth hurts, but if you accept it, it will set you free
This political OP should be in the political discourse forum; not in the front room. Have some respect and follow the rules, please!
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7 months ago
I've never been asked whether I'm married. But if I were asked, I would turn it into a kind of joke and respond with a question like, "You seem interested in me. So are you looking for some extra fun outside of the club?"
The dancer now has to explain. She might have a good story, who knows. Her response and attitude will then determine whether I'll be looking for another dancer.
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7 months ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
@25
Does that statement apply across the board or just to Joe Biden?
It applies across the board to democrats, in general.
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7 months ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
"Wages keep going up. Inflation keeps coming down. Inflation has dropped from 9 percent to 3 percent — the lowest in the world and trending lower. The landing is and will be soft."
President Biden (March 7, 2024)
discussion comment
7 months ago
I go to strip clubs to enjoy the scintillating conversation and the opportunity to experience some fine cuisine. The fact there are attractive young women walking around in their underwear who sit on my lap and dance is just a distraction. Sometimes they accidently put their hand on my crotch and boobs in my face. I tolerate this behavior and tip them quite well because I don't want to be rude.
discussion comment
7 months ago
What's the problem? The club names probably describe the girls working there. One club has girls that look like a Rhino and the other has girls that look like a Hippo.
discussion comment
7 months ago
The bouncers must have been asleep on the job.
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7 months ago
The DJ can play whatever he or the dancers want. I don't have any preference, but just play a long song and don't cut it short when I'm getting a lap dance.
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7 months ago
I think a lot depends on the bouncer at the door.
If I know the bouncer and look familiar, I'm not asked for my license. At RI Dolls a new bouncer asked for my license, he held it up to read it and returned it. I asked about scanning and he said the license was scanned when he held it up to read it, but they now use a camera.
I don't know if he was telling the truth, but it's sneaky to scan a license without asking permission and it might even be illegal.
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7 months ago
A local restaurant / bar posted a sign that a credit card is needed for table service. Cash or credit card is accepted at the bar.
The reason is customers go outside for a smoke and "forget" to return to pay for the check. Also, there is an outdoor seating area near the parking lot. Very easy for those customers to go inside to use the restroom and then go diectly to their vehicle rather than return to their table.
I would never go that place because of privacy issues, risk of bogus charges and that the restaurant already believes I'm a thief.
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7 months ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
The only time I had a bogus charge put on my credit card was when I used it to make a purchase from a vending machine. It wasn't much, but nonetheless it was bogus. Most likely it would go unnoticed or people wouldn't remember the cost as they were travelling through the area.
discussion comment
7 months ago
I had two experiences with SB's, both were pre-COVID. Never again. The risk is too high, too expensive, too inconvenient, too uncertain, and little value for my money.
SB1 wanted $400 for a dinner date, no sex. She would choose the restaurant and meet me there. Sex, if there were to be sex, is a possibility reserved for the very distant future. - No thanks!
SB2 told me she keeps odd hours and would call me when available. It could be any day of the week. I would then need to have a paid motel room available. She could arrive anytime, but most likely from 1:00 AM to 3:00AM. No mention of her fee. - Sorry, not interested.
I would have to be a desperate loser to patronize these SB's. I'll continue going to clubs.
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7 months ago
The club caused the problem. It didn't have an employee file on the premises which apparently is required because it has a sexually-oriented business license which allows for sexual entertainmet. They violated the law and were shut down. Why didn't they have an employee file on the premises?
The City acknowledged the club could remain open and operate as a bar. The club is concerned the police will shut them down again operating as a bar.
The club has overreacted and gets no sympathy from me.
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7 months ago
"Switched-On Bach" - Wendy Carlos (performed by Carlos and Benjamin Folkman on a Moog synthesizer).
"Sing, Sing, Sing" - Gene Krupa
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7 months ago
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CJKent_bandThe truth hurts, but if you accept it, it will set you free
"Whoever said the pen is mightier than the sword obviously never encountered automatic weapons." ~ General Douglas MacArthur
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8 months ago
The New York listings looks good, but could be organized somewhat differently to make the clubs located in New York City easier to find for visitors. The current listing mixes the boroughs of New York with neighborhood names which causes confusion as to the location of the club.
This can be resolved simply by having the heading "New York City" and under that heading have the five boroughs: Manhattan, Bronx, Brooklyn, Queens and Staten Island.
All clubs currently listed as "New York" are actually located in Manhattan and would be listed under Manhattan.
The Club locations listed as Astoria, Elmhurst, Flushing, Jamaica, Long Island City, Ridgewood, and Rosedale are all neighborhoods located within the borough of Queens. These clubs would be grouped and listed under Queens.
And clubs with locations identified only as Bronx, Brooklyn and Queens would be moved under their respective New York City borough.
discussion comment
8 months ago
Now you know why the club was dead. No one wanted to be in the club with her there.
discussion comment
8 months ago
As we were making small talk, she asked if I liked her new thong. She then positioned herself so I could take a much closer look. As I was looking, she smiled and "adjusted" her new thong.