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7 years ago
Not from watching, but I sometimes can simply holding a woman beside me and tickling fingers, or nuzzling faces.
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7 years ago
Stripclublist is worthless. Many clubs have not received comments or reviews in years. Many of the clubs listed there have been closed for a long time. And the back end must be somewhat fouled up, because I find duplicate reviews that belong under other clubs. Tuscl is far better with their housekeeping.
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7 years ago
A stripper told me she did not smoke cigarettes until becoming a stripper. The social aspect of taking that smoke break together must be very strong.
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7 years ago
There is some credibility to both sides of the argument with respect to Tuscl posts. I would assume there is some initial research for LE to decide if a club is worth the time to put a sting together... But it is more about sending a message to other businesses. "Do not be as overt as this one"
To make an analogy... It is legal to possess marijuana in Washington DC, but not to sell it. However 5 minutes of Google go will quickly reveal where you can buy weed or have it delivered to you. There are busts. But the police only have the resources to go after flagrant violations where there was a complaint by the public.
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7 years ago
From the hk reviews it sounds like you enter "the real Tijuana" very quickly when you leave the Zona. Even if it was not a setup, she probably did not really have "her own place" and there would be relatives in other rooms.
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7 years ago
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Cashman1234He/Him - He’s a filthy pig. That’s him in VIP with another whore.
It tends to be with new girls. I prefer to get more laps with the ones I have seen in the club a few times and can reasonably expect to see again. Modest lappers do improve over time. And it seems pretty common for strippers of all stripes to want to develop regular customers.
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7 years ago
Ironically, probably the safest time to do high mileage dances is a few hours after a raid. They are not gonna come straight back for a 2nd round.
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7 years ago
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Doces300You can run but you will only die tired
Learn her favorite brand of cigarettes and buy a carton. Or some weed!
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7 years ago
Because strippers are independent contractors, they do not have access to worker's comp. Doing high pole work and drops is fairly risky stuff to do.
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7 years ago
I keep my phone with me at work, check it every hour or so for discussion or a possible stripper text. I have held the same job for 15 years... Easy to think about clubbing experiences and strategy in between tasks.
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7 years ago
I suppose most guys on tuscl develop a firm yes/no attitude and only keep their top choice strippers in rotation. I suppose I do have several C+ to B+ ladies that I keep on the back burner. If I see them, OK I may buy a few dances. Maybe these women could get hotter if I simply ask them to, and spend more money on them.
It is good to have some options. Your top flight A list is likely to be short, and maybe those girls are not in the club that particular night. Or your interaction with them goes sour.
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7 years ago
Well this was an interesting thread to catch up on. I have been clubbing now for 3 months and am quasi-regular with a girl at two different clubs.
One of them is early 20s, gives good dances, was willing to haggle a bit with me and beat other strippers pricing there. It is a little hard to keep conversations going with the large age difference between us, but I keep practicing at it. She is a little fussy about which guys she will hang around, so I do get to feel like I am in an elite group.
The other is mid 30s, gives very reasonable pricing (VIP for close to regular lap dances) is cheerful and happy to see me. She is one of the best looking women at this club, she and I agree on that, but the club is out of date and not drawing the men it used to. She has told me a little about her other regular guys, it is important to her to cultivate them.
I am gradually coming to terms that it is OK to specialize on just a few strippers, with some occasional foraging. It is expensive to explore the pool of talent... When you find something mutual that works, just go ahead and milk it.
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7 years ago
Some strippers start off too quickly with over-the-top flattery. Oh, you're so hot! You're just the kind of man I want!
This backfires with me. It is too far away from how people normally behave. Sometimes it even prevents me from buying a sampler dance, because it denied me the ability to select on my own terms.
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7 years ago
23 and 15... They could get married and at 43 and 35 it would not be conversation worthy.
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7 years ago
It will spook a woman if random guys keep showing up, ask for her and for the same extras. Then she changes location or "goes on vacation" - I definitely saw this happen in massage parlor reviews so I assume it can happen with clubs.
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7 years ago
Gawker wrote a long post about a month ago about how many times he has stepped in to rescue this woman (often after another episode of trusting some shady boyfriend) and he'd get her into rehab. He thought this recent time it was finally going to stick.
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7 years ago
Another route is buying a manufactured home. Those loans are often to people with sketchy credit and they are underwritten by smaller finance companies, not traditional banks which want to bundle off a mortgage into Wall Street securities.
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7 years ago
Yeah mdfmk888, I have mostly written off Friday and Saturday night, unless it's at a small out-of-the-way club. I don't feel like putting my money in competition with the noobs and casual goers. I am becoming more comfortable haggling, and letting dancers fade from view if they won't bargain. That's easier to do Sun-Thur, and I am learning that dancers may not have earned what they wanted to on the prior weekend anyway.
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7 years ago
PoolyD, I think there are nuances in meaning. I'd probably order them provider, escort, prostitute, hooker, whore in order of decorum. To me a provider is a women who does a wide range of things from massage to BSDM to sex ... she accepts her role as fulfilling mens' fantasies, has made an effort to learn many methods. Prostitute is a close-to-neutral term, it's what goes on an IRS form for a Nevada borthel worker. Whore would be a woman with no standards at all, and implies she's also kind of ragged out from all them men she's done.
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7 years ago
PoolyD that was my experience recently... I sat at the stage for an hour early in the night, had one dancer or another at my side, was gabbing with that one and/or both us us talking with whoever was on stage. Most guys were not tipping and I almost felt like I'd been "invited into the girl talk". The girls can make some very bawdy comments to each other when they tip, by the way.
Later in the night I tipped one of the girls on stage, who while not quite a fave is very familiar to me... and we just start talking about some stuff while she was up there. And I ask "Should you be dancing?" And she said "If they aren't tipping me, fuck them!!"
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7 years ago
On top of it all, gawker is not far from Providence based on his reviews. With all the easily available extras, walking a ledge for this girl is an unjustifiable set of risks.
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7 years ago
I have not seen it that drastic, but I have gone to a club right at opening with 5 or so there - just paying up their house fees and ready to go. You feel like a fish on a plate in a roomful of cats, lol
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7 years ago
This thread is only the latest installment of what gawker has gone through with this chick. No way could I see myself putting up with so much turmoil for sex.
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7 years ago
My house is kinda run down, and I just have various yard sale and thrift store furnishings. All I wanted was a cheap place to live in... Have not brought a stripper there yet, but I figure the ambiance may persuade her there is nothing valuable around.
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7 years ago
My usual clubs west of Charlotte have been in a bit of a lull. I see more girls showing up on Sunday and Monday because the prior weekend was not "good enough".
I think part of it is that this October has 3 weekends in the last half of the month... Thins out customer spare cash. And we have had a warm October, maybe guys have had more family things happening to occupy themselves.