Things you've learned in life because you go to strip clubs

Money management

I learned that when women want to, they can be extremely pleasing.

They can dress and makeup, and just pour it on sexually.

And so then, in other venues of life, one should not accept anything less.

SJG

^^^^^^ Juice!

SJG

There's a lot more for sale than I ever expected.

^^^^^^ It was at the underground Mexican bar circuit that I first encountered girls who were just accustomed to fucking as many guys as possible, and being suitably compensated, would never want things to be any other way.

This Latina group was more extreme than the local AMP girls

SJG

I learned that there is indeed sex in the champagne room! I was lied to...

I didn't do much dating in my life - the last few months of clubbing have allowed me to really compare women, and sense the differences in how they physically express themselves. I've also come to realize that some of them live incredibly messed up lives. I appreciate even more, having one that is stable with debts that are manageable and no past drug abuse.

Yeah - for me personally my best lays have been w/ dancers in their mid-30s where it did not even feel like P4P and "it felt" as if they were enjoying it themselves or at the least doing their best for me to enjoy it.

The young-ones are often more mechanical and transactional, IME - but of course neither is universal.

It seems many women feel a need, or perhaps societal pressure, to not be/act overly-sexual and/or slutty - SCs have taught me that many women can seemingly turn off and on their inner-slut depending on the circumstances - i.e. many have slut in them - which there is def nothing wrong w/ that - what's wrong is when they pretend to be something else and expect you to buy that BS - there are exceptions of course.

^^^^^^^ !

As I wrote, "...when women want to, they can be extremely pleasing. They can dress and makeup, and just pour it on sexually."

SJG

I think clubbing helps a guy realize that it's OK to "be real" and tell women what you think. If they can't handle that, it wasn't your problem of being rude. Some of us start out with too much nice-guy-itis... Reluctant to say anything that could be disagreed with.

Everybody has a price.

"I learned that there is indeed sex in the champagne room! I was lied to..."

LMAO I have had these same emotions

Along the lines of what a couple other people said. I was surprised so many hot women are willing to fuck for cash.

"I was surprised so many hot women are willing to fuck for cash."

I learned that from porn a long time ago, but didn't know it was so readily available.

I learned the benefits of wearing a white three piece suit. And greasing.

I didn't know there were so many attractive women that thought I was very-handsome and thought I had a really-big dick

I've learned:

• how to think logically and negotiate with an erection
• how to talk to girls about the thoughts and desires that are in my head.
• to accept my sexual desires (as they are quite common).
• to appreciate girls I would have ignored in civilian life.
• how to say no (to women) and how to stand up for myself, my desires, and my beliefs.

I have been very pleasantly surprised by the number and quality of strippers willing to do sexual things with me, both in the VIP room and OTC, and by how affordable OTC dates with hot strippers can be.

OTOH, I have learned more than I ever wanted to know about heroin addiction -- withdrawal, Suboxone, methadone, Vivitrol, etc. -- and about our judicial system -- misdemeanors vs felonies, bench warrants, probation, drug court, etc.

^ LOL - life on the wild side

@DisRuptive1 PREACH!

i have learned that with enough alcohol and the right pretty women, it is possible to change your life, your dick has really grown to the size of a porn star.

I guess I haven't learned a damn thing because I keep going back. :)

JS69 LMFAO ...gotta have that carnation on the lapel

Champagne is NOT sold by the glass.

Sometimes old classmates turn up as dancers.

I learn that if you show me a hot chick, I can show you somebody who's tired of fucking her.

Money is not the great equalizer. One of you old fuks send me some btc.

Amen, shadowcat, amen. :)

juicebox6911 Hours Ago Money management...............Price earnings ratio......:--)

Honesty and directness are usually the best approach.

I’ve learned the more money I have is in direct proportion to how much a stripper likes me and is willing to do with me in the VIP room.

It’s amazing how much better looking I am with a lot of money....

I learned alot from RickyBoy's The System:

• in any setting, even if it's just having fun, you should be constantly monitoring every aspect of the way you present yourself, and trying to present the right image
• how you dress is everything!
• in life, you can't "just ask" for things you have to spend 10 years acting like a faggot and inventing a faggity little System that will get you no more than just asking. When someone points that out to you, you should blow up.

Fuck that faggot RickyBoy!

I've learned that conversations between strippers are boring as hell. I got stuck sitting between two one day and it was a long 15 minutes until one finally moved along.

I learned that a la carte intimacy is a thing. Sometimes a very good thing.

I was very accustomed to price tags and posted pricing - and I was very uncomfortable haggling.

After clubbing for several years - I’m actually comfortable negotiating with my pants around my ankles! That’s progress!

I echo lots of what has been said...I was surprised how nice most dancers are, even if it's not part of a sales pitch. They really look out for their friends, and even some customers. But then the down side of them (in general):

Most dancers are complete flakes, many/most are single moms, they all seem to have a pit bull as a pet that they love like a real child, they are incapable of saving/investing money, they don't consider themselves prostitutes even if they'll fuck you for money, and most truly seem to enjoy dancing and making men happy, even if they're lesbians. Most dancers are a little bi in my experience, but many are not. Oh, and the white ones love to talk and act 'ghetto black', at least in my white Chicago 'burb.

I've learned that money can buy you anything except common sense and that common sense is not as common as you would think.

I also learned that women are a lot more fun once you go at least 100 miles in any direction away from Cincinnati. Who would have known that the city that brought the world degenerates like Larry Flint, Jerry Springer and Pete Rose would be so uptight when it comes to sex.

PoolyD, I think there are nuances in meaning. I'd probably order them provider, escort, prostitute, hooker, whore in order of decorum. To me a provider is a women who does a wide range of things from massage to BSDM to sex ... she accepts her role as fulfilling mens' fantasies, has made an effort to learn many methods. Prostitute is a close-to-neutral term, it's what goes on an IRS form for a Nevada borthel worker. Whore would be a woman with no standards at all, and implies she's also kind of ragged out from all them men she's done.

What I learned from visiting Strip Clubs:

. Bitches lie, even when the truth works better! But that's OK, 'cause they got pussies and tits.

. There really are beautiful women in the world who will stroke your dick and beg to be fucked (I don't care that they insist on being paid)!

. If a woman thinks you have money, she is interested in everything about you.

. If she knows you have money, she will worship you on their knees.

. If you run out of cash, there are women (who cannot find their own way home, most nights) who know the location of every ATM in the county.

. If you won't go get more money to share with her, most women forget they ever knew you!

. Only a graceful and benevolent God, with a twisted sense of humor, could have created strip clubs or the women who make them miracles of valuable extras.

I don't think I've learned any life lessons. I have learned quite a bit about the strip club life if you will.

It may appear they are making a killing, but after the house cut, and tip out some really aren't raking the hundreds every night.

I learned money indeed can get you sex.

I've learned money and drugs is what talks in strip clubs.

I guess one thing I can say was a life lesson is that unless you're budgeting for your SC habit, it is in no shape, for, or fashion beneficial in the long run for your life. Unless of course you're crossing things off your bucket list lol.

Gawker and JS69 are probably somebody's role model. How to Fuck extremely hot young legal dancers in your 50's and deal with all the drug issues, pimps, drug dealers, and friends of strippers because the sex is worth it. Dancing in Detroit is a career path to be a successful lawyer.

i've learned that i am on page one.

A lot of wisdom on this page....

*Don't stay until the light comes on. Really kills the stripclub experience.

*Don't text a stripper that youre coming to see her. She will then expect you to spend all your money on her. Which you may not want to do.

*Always have an excuse why your in the Club by yourself.

*never by dances only high-mileage extras.

*treat Going to the stripclub like a business. That way you're not spending extra cash.

I learned, by watching the strippers arrive in their street clothes before work, that some hot young college-age girls who look so amazing that I assume they would be utterly inaccessible to me for a real-world civilian relationship (without me spending lots of my money as pay-for-play ), actually are dating pimply-faced nerdy skinny beater-car-driving trailer-trash, wanna-be-tough but obviously not, losers with crappy attitudes, bad teeth, poor diction, no job, no money, no prospects, who don't deserve them. And I still can't explain it.

I have a theory: strippers typically date those guys because those guys are similar to the girls’ deadbeat fathers.

Well said @Book Guy. I think trying to figure out strippers choices in boyfriends is close to impossible. The twists and turns involved in stripper logic are impossible for us to understand.

"I have a theory: strippers typically date those guys because those guys are similar to the girls’ deadbeat fathers."

Psychology 101: Freudian, and it's called "paternal transference."

IMO women are more about relationships than men - i.e. a guy can get by w/ just sex. or even just prefer NSA sex. to a relationship - most women don't seem to be that way that can just get by w/ sex or prefer it to a relationship - thus many feel they need a guy/relationship and will often end-up w/ what they can get which is often losers that won't have an issue w/ their line of work.

@Book Guy - regardless of what they look like, most dancers are so fucked up no normal guy will put up with them. that is why they date losers.

It doesn’t matter how old and bald you are, if you have cash, you’re attractive!