Revealing Dancer Names with Specifics
motownkid
Florida
I always try to protect my dancers - rarely mention a name - or make it obvious who the dancer may be - I know most pl's in here want specifics but do you think you owe it to the girl to protect her from management discipline? what do you think?
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Some dancer mentions - can be safe. If a dancer is very nice to you - or she works to make your experience great (without extras) - it could be a good mention.
But don't snitch on the girls that are GGG. Usually they are better for business, especially if they are hot as they drive a lot of demand, but usually only dance/VIP with a few customers leaving more customers for other girls (customers can wait on the her all they want, but she is usually locked down) and even other girls for more customers (since the other girls aren't dancing for her regulars, they are slightly more available to the non regulars). So in essence a hot dirty dancer raises the tide (a rising tide lifts all boats) for all the dancers and customers as well as make a ton of money for the club. And yet them jealous bitches just hate on them and try to get them fired...
As customers, none of these dancers are our dancers. We rent their time. For the naming names, I just go with whatever I think should be in a review as I write it. If I use a name in a review, it's for something I thought was interesting not for something to get them singled out.
For two reasons:
LE may be reading and I may wish to go see her again
I do not make it a point to remember names like them.
Once I depart club I remember points about the club to give a review but names are not important for an informative review.
I always try to remember ROB's to warn fellow Tusclers off.
A guy who can't keep his mouth shut deserves to have his balls kicked in, preferably before he accidentally (I say accidentally because the odds of it happening on purpose are low) breeds another simpering weak little pussy just like him. Seriously now, 40-60+ y.o. guys putting the business of a 20-30+ year old girl out there just boggles my mind.
But with that said, I make an exception for blatant ROBs. I'm not talking about the semi-ROBs, or the bad attitude girls, etc. I mean the girls who pull a complete scam. In all of the reviews I've posted on here, I've only done that once, but she was beyond bad and had been running scams all over town for years.
Honestly, i'm fine with only all the true ROBs being outed, since they are the only consistent thing to me. You might think someone is a great dancer, but if i try her, i might think something completely different. But i will be glad not to have wasted a single dime on the ROB. That doesn't mean you can't share the good details. It should be given to those that ask privately if you feel that it's worth sharing.
Also i tend to be careful with my descriptions based on the "average" or "common" contact/mileage/extras level at the particular club. If the club is just a thinly disguised whorehouse, i have no problem recommending specific dancers. However, i won't even use general euphemisms if i'm describing a low contact air dance club where a particular girl could easily get fired if "all" of the other jealous girls there are doing their boring thing, but only the fun girl is making money, and they think it's her fault. It isn't though...
I can think of a few things, any number of which are real concerns held by girls that I deal with.
1. They don't want problems with other girls.
2. They don't want problems with management, who often explicitly prohibit these activities while in reality looking the other way.
3. They don't want SOs to find out.
4. They don't want to be targeted by LE.
5. They don't want every dipshit with a computer saying, "Well you did XYZ for the tuscl dude called dipshit#1million.
Those are just a few things off the top of my head.
Speaking of dipshit#1million, there used to be a screen name around here promoting a site dedicated to reviewing strippers. What this retard didn't seem to comprehend is the potential chilling effect that this could have had on some of the fun that we have. Not all of us club in metro Detroit. Some of us are in areas where spotlights being shined on particular girls and/or clubs can have consequences.
It's amazing how fucking lazy some guys are. It's not enough to lead them to the club and give them enough "read between the lines" material to get them started. Some guys actually need us to find the specific girls for them. Next they'll be asking other tusclers to unzip them and put the girls' mouths on their cocks for them.
I think ROBs should be outed as public service to the other PLs.
I also think it is fine to prop some dancerssuch as:
Dancer A is the prettiest stripper I've seen in a long time. Or:
I really enjoyed spending time with Dancer B.
But no to outing a stripper for pushing the boundaries. I think it would be okay to provide a bit of intel to fellow members that you trust though, but only via PM.
I am with the majority here. I don't mention dancer names in my reviews. I do give a description of what the dancer looked like, but I try to be vague enough where several girls in the club on any given shift could fit the description.
I have been very fortunate to avoid the ROBs, but if I do deal with one, I certainly will out her in a review so that others can avoid them.
I assume some of these guys have a background from escort sites and then come to TUSCL with the same mindset/expectations
Is that bad form?
If I've had extra fun, I will keep their ID's under wraps.
Anyways, you said you agreed with rickdugan. Well, that was his point. Don't put people's business out into the street (unless they want you to).
I get it. That bitch took you to the cleaners nut there is no reason to think every stripper is the same way. I have met plenty who are decent girls and not trying to take unfair advantage of me. A simple barter and exchange of fair value. I think the trouble starts when you think the more you give her the more she will appreciate you. I tried that before at a micro scale compared to your escapade but nonetheless saw a greatly diminishing return on investment. I actually think it means less to a girl to do that probably for a few reasons.
Most girls are decent enough and have bigger world challenges than you are I (but many self made). No sense making it worse for the girl by outing her. Its supposed to be a win-win arrangement and not win-lose or lose-win.
I hope you find some peace and dont take it out on someone else...
Not so sure in these politically-correct and "there's human-trafficking everywhere (or so they say)" times.
A while ago it was posted on-here on TUSCL, and also reported in the news, about some dudes in liberal-ass Seattle being gone-after for posting about their exploits on an escort-site - some high-ranking corporate dudes, at least one from MicroSoft (maybe more) and others, along w/ the website's owner, were gone after by the DA and were looking at prosecution and I think were prosecuted but don't quite recall - Seattle has a recent-history of going after johns and seeing them as perpetrators and the reason these girls do what they do - i.e. they see the girls as hopeless victims that only do what they do b/c there are men seeking their services so they "conclude" men looking for sexual services are the problem and must be dealt with.
I just think it’s bad business. It doesn’t have to be admissible in court to be a problem. It’s identifying girls who are better than their coworkers. The other girls will have it in for them, management will know who they are and LE will then know. It’s not admissible evidence but they can or will be targeted. That’s a huge mistake. If you think this board is anonymous, just look at the number of reviews that are ‘club ad of the day’ types. It may not be as many as AZScrub suggests, but it’s way more than zero. Management reads the board. My former hometown favorite club Players Club has been cleaned out of all the girls who got reps for extras and I’ve no doubt management was reading this board.