Ever walk into a SC and be outnumbered say 10:1 by the girlies? Like you don't even find a seat before the competition for your lap begins?
I am a slow starter and personally like to chill for a few minutes while I get a drink in me and survey the landscape to find something I have to test drive. There are weeknights in Dallas where this seems to always happen at some really nice clubs.
I have not seen that. But many speak about girls being on you before you can sit down, or before your eyes have adjusted to a the dark.
Well there is reportedly a place in Metairie, LA ( just adjacent to New Orleans ), when you walk into that, all the girls start climbing on you simultaneously.
Others have written about places where there is "always a girl sitting on your lap".
SJG
Not 10:1 but more dancers than PLs - good if I'm in the mood to get my freak on, bad if I'm not in the mood to spend too-much
The more forward they are being with you, then usually the more forward you can be with them.
:)
SJG
If the ratio is that bad usually the better half are hiding in dressing room and the other half are desperate and the fuglies.
PoolyD that was my experience recently... I sat at the stage for an hour early in the night, had one dancer or another at my side, was gabbing with that one and/or both us us talking with whoever was on stage. Most guys were not tipping and I almost felt like I'd been "invited into the girl talk". The girls can make some very bawdy comments to each other when they tip, by the way.
Later in the night I tipped one of the girls on stage, who while not quite a fave is very familiar to me... and we just start talking about some stuff while she was up there. And I ask "Should you be dancing?" And she said "If they aren't tipping me, fuck them!!"
One time I walked into a Montreal club mid afternoon and discovered I was the only customer in the place. There were 6 to 8 dancers sitting around, one dancer was sitting - nude - on the edge of the main stage, the DJ was at the bar with the guy who was tending, and two bouncers were leaning back in chairs with their feet on a table at the back of the club. Everyone stopped what they were doing and looked at me. For a moment I kinda felt like I was wearing a Yarmulke to an SS meeting!
Finally, a couple of the girls waved and a bouncer managed to get up and come over to me. He (brilliantly) suggested I sit wherever I wanted. It really wasn't a "nirvana" experience, but several of the dancers did eventually come by and visit. Turned out there were about 10 more dancers in the dressing room. I got a few dances, but they were not earth shattering.
Other times I have gone into clubs with few customers, and bored strippers and did have a lot of fun. I think, like everything else in strip clubs, it depends on the club and on the strippers you encounter.
Happens on a fairly regular basis with me, by design -- I like to get there when it's dead, the fewer the # of customers, the better. I don't want it to be dead all day ,the girls get angry and unpleasant. But I'm insanely comfortable being the only customer, or one of just 2 or 3, and letting the girls do their best to win my business...
Yeah mdfmk888, I have mostly written off Friday and Saturday night, unless it's at a small out-of-the-way club. I don't feel like putting my money in competition with the noobs and casual goers. I am becoming more comfortable haggling, and letting dancers fade from view if they won't bargain. That's easier to do Sun-Thur, and I am learning that dancers may not have earned what they wanted to on the prior weekend anyway.
Been there. Had fun but left poor.
I like getting to a club in the early evening when a lot of the night shift dancers show up before a lot of the customers pack a club, It's a lot easier to get more attention. At times it seemed almost like too much and you do feel like you are the steak among a bunch if hungry cats but it's been a few years since I felt that way. My problem was I was trying to watch the girls on stage and was too good at getting rid of dancers. I was sitting at the stage so wasn't used to so many dancers approaching me from all directions. I kind off miss that now. It's been a couple months since I've visited strip clubs and the local club is more of a regulars club without a gazillion dancers.
happens sometimes at hong kong at ten in the morning sometimes.
I walked into a club one night and for a half hour, I was the ONLY customer there.
Talk about feeling like the bait in a crab trap, lol!
Typical at Detroit's second tier clubs like BTs Executive Lounge.
Never had that ratio. I’ve been in clubs when dancers outnumbered customers. But it was more like 3:1.
It could be fun with the numbers you had!
^look at this guy...can't relate
If it gets that bad a lot of the time, then that club is in trouble as most of the girls are going to quit. The ones that don't quit are the ones that are probably paying very little house to work there. The math just doesn't work. Even if the one customer is spending over $500, he's not spreading it out to all ten girls so that they at least make $50 (before tip-out). More likely one girl gets about half, and maybe two or three others get the rest. Over half the girls don't get any of it. Hence my previous discussion (Dancers that aren't making any money).
Only a few times, but they were special! My best memory is the first time I walked into the old Baby Dols Dallas location on Northwest Highway. There were wall-to-wall gorgeous Texas women everywhere. I fell in PL love perhaps a half dozen times just walking to my seat. I had never seen anything like it, and haven't since.
When I've been in that situation, the key factor for me is how much is in my wallet and the attractiveness of the female talent. Sometimes I walk out of the club, as the outcome is not worth it. There are times that I've play it out and it's been the best of times! It is a situation that I am more comfortable playing out when I like what I see and my wallet allows me "game on".
Other than during dead times in the club, the times I have seem 4 to 1 dancer to customer ratio or ight, the dancer quality was really bad. If there isn't at least two 7's minimum I skip. A few of the times I found a gem among them, but usually it doesn't work out.
I love those odds, though I've never had 10:1 as far as I can recall. However, this can also backfire. The ideal club setting for me is one where there are few enough guys that competition is light, but not so few that the girls just give up hope and leave the club or hide out in the DR.
When that happens I feel like a piece of steak when thrown in a cage with a bunch of lions. It actually is not my best vibe and would rather be where its more like 2:1.
"The ideal club setting for me is one where there are few enough guys that competition is light, but not so few that the girls just give up hope and leave the club or hide out in the DR."
You also want enough guys sitting at the stage tipping so the girl on stage takes her clothes off and gives you a show when your lap is empty.
I have not seen it that drastic, but I have gone to a club right at opening with 5 or so there - just paying up their house fees and ready to go. You feel like a fish on a plate in a roomful of cats, lol