Comments by saer (page 2)

As an aside, I think when people use the phrase "political correctness", it's usually to smooth over hurt feelings about being held responsible for the social repercussions of voicing an unpopular opinion. The First Amendment gives you the right to say what you wish, but it in no way removes the negative social pressure incurred from saying something stupid. To say it another way, "political correctness" is equivalent to "whaaa! I want to say something unpopular but not have anybody dislike it". Bullshit. Anyway, my take on it is this: states have the right to secede if they wish, and quite a few have done so. However, at that point they become foreign nations that in many cases pose a direct economic and/or military threat to the United States. It then becomes our prerogative as to whether or not we allow that foreign nation to exist or if we choose to retake it by force. That's exactly what happened curing the Civil War. The Confederate Flag stands as a part of our history, but it's also the symbol of a failed nation that lost. Therefore, it's doomed to the same fate as all failed nations, since history is written by the victors.

At the club I go to, drinks are either $10 (dancers keep $4) or $5 (dancers keep $2). The girls aren't allowed to buy alcoholic drinks while they're on the clock, so if they want to drink they have to sell the "dancer drinks". So, there's usually a pretty good drink hustle going on there. I used to buy everyone that would sit with me a drink, and tip them after they get off stage. Nowadays, I only buy $10 drinks for my ATF, and $5 drinks for about three others, and refuse everyone else. Nobody gets tips. When I started refusing dancers, I felt like an ass and I mentioned it to one of them once. She said "why would you feel like an ass? You've always been an asshole." After that, for some reason it got easier.

I've been asked by four dancers. I do OTC with my ATF and #2, and declined the other two.

I don't even want to know how they take a biopsy of one's prostate.

I generally don't get asked for things by dancers except my ATF. She expects me to buy her drinks ITC, which admittedly are cheap. Occasionally she will up and decide we're going out to dinner or whatever and expect me to pay for it. Otherwise, she doesn't ask for money and I don't give it.

My ATF has a lot of tattoos and piercings along with a pink streak through her hair. I like it a lot.

ATF is pissed off about something or another for at least 50% of her waking hours. I call it "having girl moments".

I know a dancer whose boyfriend owns a small business that is both legal and does well. I also know one those boyfriend is unemployed but otherwise a decent guy. Those are the only two I've heard of.

I met my first love when I was 12. We grew up together, became best friends, and then lovers in high school. Then we broke up and went our separate ways in college. Years later, I saw her at a party. I ran my fingers through her hair, kissed her, and said goodbye. Never saw her again. All the others, I'd rather not have anything to do with.

My fav always works the same days. She texts me on those days or beforehand to ask if I'm going to be there. If it's slow, she'll start harassing me wanting to know when I'll be there, and sending me pictures and shit.

Huh. So this is what happens when you sell out.

I've found the best way to deal with strippers, and women in general, is to tell them exactly what you want, when you want it. The last time I wanted a lap dance, I told the girl "some time tonight, you're going to try to sell me a dance. I'll say yes, and then I'm going to use you like a piece of meat." She did, and I did. Easy peasy.

I've fucked colleagues before, but never someone that I supervise. That's both unethical and a 100% bad idea, in my opinion.

I went to a strip club in eastern Germany last year. With brothels and FFK clubs right around the corner, the strippers there were absolutely paranoid about getting caught doing something illegal. I assume there is a fairly high level of regulation going on there.

My dog steals every pair of socks I have in the laundry hamper and hides them all over the house. I have to do an easter egg hunt just to do laundry.

I just kind of zone out when strippers try to lay BF drama down on me. I also don't get it a lot because while I have a good job, I'm just as fucked up as your typical stripper BF anyway.

I'm considering getting back into silver for similar reasons (I also sold my trade silver a while back for quite a profit). Honestly though, I'll probably do it because I like to hoard shiny things and not because I think it's a worthwhile investment strategy.

One of the reasons my ATF is my ATF is because she's into that sort of thing. I choke her, slap her (ass & face), bite her, pull her hair, etc. and that's on the main floor :)

Heh, you Conservatives are so cute with your small little view of the world. Strong, opaque beer is great if I'm sick day or trying to be social, but generally speaking, I drink islay scotch, neat. Other drinks are okay if you have a lot of estrogen in your system.

My ATF asked me to take her shopping for lingerie once. Here's how that conversation went: Her: "You never got me a birthday present. You should take me shopping for something sexy to wear when I dance for you." Me: "I don't give a shit what you wear. Get some other jackass to take you shopping. By the way, how DO you get guys to buy you stuff?" Her: "I don't know; I just ask for it." Me: "and they buy it for you? just because you want it?" Her: "Yep" Me: "Whatever. I'll make you a deal: I'll buy you whatever clothes you need replaced because I rip them off of you." Her: "haha okay, deal."

You feel that? The way the shit just sticks to the air? There's a shit-blizzard comin'.

A good ol' Cleveland Steamer would be both exciting and memorable for both of you.

Frankly, I'm full-on into the BDSM thing, and I only get dances from girls whom I know are into it as well.

You're planning to get her fired because you might not be able to handle... not sexually harassing her? That's kind of fucked up.

I dunno, sometimes I get more of a hard-on arguing about politics than I do at strip clubs, but that's just me. The polarizing rhetoric does detract from the normal warm fuzzy group hug environment on this site, though.