I have sisters. I have a lot of experience in ticking off females and know it's best to be subtle with questions at times to avoid ticking someone off. Everyone has imaginary boundaries and you can ask little questions to find out how high those are set at without ticking people off.
I have ticked a dancer off big time and I never even found out what I did.
This was many years ago.
My best guess is she must have mistakingly thought I was like a sugar daddy or Something. I told her I wasn't. I guess she didn't believe me. I was only buying dances from her.
One night she wanted me to pay 120 or 200 or something for her contacts. I was like wtf for? I didn't say that but just said no. She started calling me a dick and then got so pissed she quit the club for 3 months because she knew I would be there. I thought why is she so pissed off? I guess maybe she thought I would just give her money for nothing. crazy.
I do realize at certain times of the month, some females might just want to be pissed off for any reason.
I was thinking I could tick a few girls off if they knew what I was thinking when I heard one girl say she would put a guy in his place where he belongs. I was thinking, put him right inside your pussy and sit on top to teach him where he belongs, yeah. lol
probably not what she meant.
Yes, being women is definitely part of it. Of course, the fact that we're men, and constantly bumble our way through communicating with them doesn't help :)
Them being women isn't all of it, though. Not all, but most strippers, just by the fact that their life situation and choices ended with them becoming strippers, tend to have some emotional trauma, are poor decision-makers and overly impulsive in general, have serious self-esteem and trust issues. Add in the alcohol, drugs, frustration with customers, and the brutal in-club politics between the girls ... **BOOM**
+1 to everyone
Strippers are the most spoiled women around. Constantly showered with cash and compliments, they expect nothing less than a handsome, charming, articulate gentleman that takes them to CR to have a nice conversation. Deviate from a that and their patience starts wearing thin.
Dancers, like most women, think that most men are PLs, easy to use and manipulate. When a guy decides he's heard enough BS about needs, whining and con games and moves on, dancers, like most women, get pissed off. It's as if they were playing us and never even considered the possiblity that we might just walk away.
Because some people are just angry.
Because walking around in your underwear and having unattractive guys decide you're not worth $20 for a dance probably does get to a person.
Because we have to put up with half you assholes in the comment section in real life, on a daily basis. We have to deal with men who think we're strippers because something is *wrong* with our lives. We have to constantly put on a smiling face despite dealing with disrespect. We have to slap your hands away 50 times to keep you from touching our genitals. We have to deal with people who consume our goods while shaming us for offering them. But ya know.. just women things. (also dancing and walking in 7 inch heels for 7+ hours isn't easy work, dick)
Stripclubs demand a lot of money per minute for entertainment. Selling that is hard frustrating work. I get frustrated and angry selling stuff and I can almost always save the customer money and improve their service levels at the same time. They have a much harder sale.
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