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7 years ago
Agree with Papi, the more you give the more they expect.
That may not apply to all strippers but most of them.
I used to think that taking the CF shopping would be fun, but after reading multiple posts about it on TUSCL, it is off my bucket list.
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7 years ago
The first time I found out a stripper was lying, about almost everything!
How can you tell a stripper is lying? Her mouth is moving!
If you remember this one rule, you can still have fun with them.
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Of course, the memories are great!
However, after a couple of dancers turned out to be ROB, I would like to have that money back and forget them!
I guess sometimes you got to learn lessons the hard way.
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7 years ago
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impalaThe People's Republic of Pennsylvania
It does not happen too often, so not a big deal.
If a group of guys were throwing money like that all night, then yes, that would be annoying.
So few stage tippers during afternoon, the girls would go crazy for guys that that.
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7 years ago
Never seen a 10.
There are several 9's at my local club, but most of them only work late night, and I almost always go during late afternoon, early evening.
Maybe 1 or 2 9' s in late afternoon, and 5 or 6 more at night.
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7 years ago
Back to the original question, I think the best chance to avoid having a stripper flake on you is to schedule the OTC right after her shift.
Planning to meet her ITC is almost always a go, 95% success rate.
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7 years ago
I usually buy my CF a gift card from one of her favorite stores.
Actually, I also do that 2 or 3 times a year just at a random time, she seems to really appreciate it.
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7 years ago
It happened to me once, couple of years ago.
Pretty sure it was SS, but she did a great job of faking it!
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7 years ago
I first started to make regular club visits 12 years ago.
When my favorite at the time would call and say that she "really wanted to see me", I would fall for it almost every time.
Then one time she called me and asked for a $600 loan to help pay her rent.
I never talked to her again.
It was a wake up call for me that while this is a fun time for me, it is only all about the money for them.
Right now only my CF has my number, and she just let's me know her schedule, no begging for me to show up. I don't plan on giving up my number to another dancer, although a few new girls have given me their number.
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
All 5 of my favorites over the last few years have been smokers.
The club is smoky anyway and they always blow the smoke away from me, so it is not a deal breaker, but I would prefer a non-smoker.
I think finding a dancer that does not smoke is pretty rare.
However, I did know one dancer that was a health nut, on a vegan diet etc...she only worked day shift because the club was not as smoky then. Hell of a dancer on the pole too.
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7 years ago
Once I get to know a dancer, they seem to tell me a lot about their private lives, so I guess being comfortable with me is one thing.
Other comments I get that I believe are genuine are good kisser, and good ass-smacker, and they all like my cologne.
Generally, even though they do say i'm handsome, I don't believe it. Not that i'm ugly, but I don't think any 50 year old guy is attractive to most 20 or 30-something women.
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7 years ago
I created a playlist of mp3's on a thumb drive for my CF.
We like a lot of the same music, and she seemed to appreciate it.
I think it's less of a PL move than sending her flowers at the club.
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7 years ago
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Cowboy12If you fall off a cliff, get up and try again...
It's by invitation only.
They close the club for a few hours starting at noon.
She normally invites one of her girlfriends, but she will be out of town.
At least I was her second choice, lol.
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7 years ago
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Cowboy12If you fall off a cliff, get up and try again...
I guess that was kind of a dumb question...you talked me into it, I'm going!
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7 years ago
My CF is not on any social media sites.
I used to be on FB, but deleted my account earlier this year.
I almost never used it anyway.
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7 years ago
Yay, but only with my CF and a few select others that I have known for a while.
It adds a lot to the whole GFE experience for me.
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I just got home from the club.
I met a new, hot blonde dancer and it was the best night I've had there in the last few months.
Last few trips, every dancer I was with just wanted to bitch about their life, this girl was fun and flirty.
Looking forward to seeing her again.
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7 years ago
It's been great, I had no idea I could get so much mileage until I started reading the comments and articles here.
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7 years ago
I don't touch a dancer that I don't intend to spend money on.
I have had dancers walk up to me, flash their tits and then say "you need to tip me for that".
I just say I didn't ask for it, but maybe I'll tip you on stage later.
They just walk off all mad.
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7 years ago
Average for my CF's has been about 6 months.
However, my CF now is going on 1 year, not sure it will last much longer.
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7 years ago
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Cashman1234He/Him - He’s a filthy pig. That’s him in VIP with another whore.
Does not happen that often, but one and done is most often due to her dance style.
Last time it happened, this girl was at least an 8, and had a very impressive stage show.
But, her lap dance was very robotic, impersonal, and she only had 2 moves, very disappointing.
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7 years ago
I once told a stripper that I didn't like tattoos. 5 seconds earlier she was bragging about and showing me the dragon tattoo on her leg.
She walked off and never talked to me again, lol.
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7 years ago
The local clubs are topless only. A few dancers have flashed the goods during lap dances, but it is rare.
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7 years ago
Looks like fake tits, and not well done either. I'm out.