Strategies for Flakes?
stripfighter
He's kinda an ass...
Saturday, December 9, 2017 5:05 PM
As far as strippers go, my ATF shows up around 75% of the time. Got me thinking what's par?? and any strategies to prevent or I should say limit it??
Shame on me, I set one up a week in advance, confirmed the night before, and then--- you already know where this is going--- she got some excuse the day of. I guess I'll give her credit for the day of contact vs ghosting til the next day or whenever she felt it.
So anyone with any good strategies?? Does more money actually help (we're talking irrational strippers so answer could be counter-intuitive)?? Does timing closer to meetup help (less BS and drama that can come up)?? or maybe something else??
Dealing with it afterwards is a different discussion, here I'm talking prevention.
Shame on me, I set one up a week in advance, confirmed the night before, and then--- you already know where this is going--- she got some excuse the day of. I guess I'll give her credit for the day of contact vs ghosting til the next day or whenever she felt it.
So anyone with any good strategies?? Does more money actually help (we're talking irrational strippers so answer could be counter-intuitive)?? Does timing closer to meetup help (less BS and drama that can come up)?? or maybe something else??
Dealing with it afterwards is a different discussion, here I'm talking prevention.
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A little know fact: Most PLs are as flaky as dancers. You know how many guys come in the club claiming to want OTC only to flake out or they're broke? Girls develop a strong BS Radar too.
@sf My strategy of late has been to date a reliable SB and only see strippers OTC when we're inviting one to join us. Then, if the stripper flakes, I'm still having fun with the SB.
My pitch for OTC is usually along the lines of "instead of making $X or less working a shift at the club, come spend afternoon or evening with me for $X+some amount I think will make her agree". If I ever try seeing a stripper by herself again, I'm probably just going to tell her "show up on time, or just go to work instead and take your chances there"
She'll come around if you integrate a new girl and JEALOUSY into the mix.
The best for me was about 95%. She would post her schedule to a local site and it was very reliable. Not coincidentally she was the best earner in the club and had a lot of regulars.
I've had some as low as 50% and my current ATF DS is about 60% reliable.
Strippers be flakey and water is wet.
How is she still your ATF ??
Now maybe I'm pussy-whipped for dealing with flakes, or maybe I always have a plan B. What I do know is I don't take it personally. To each their own.
And what does it say about guys that tells others how to live their lives?
Anyone with a Fave is a Regular in Love. Loosely speaking. The difference is how you deal with it.
Calm down. You're too emotional. Explains why you have problems with strippers and women in general.
Not romantic feelings. But investment none the less. Can be emotional and/or financial.
@25 you just proved my point ;)
WHAT???? it is an escape from reality not reality. Think of a SC as an expensive movie outing or going to see what ever play is hot on Broadway... a few hours of diversion and a nothing more.
If you relate going to a SC to a financial and god forbid an emotion investment.... you have some problems.
Nothing's free.
Planning to meet her ITC is almost always a go, 95% success rate.
If despite that, she does not open up and get real with you, then I would say find another. But more likely than not, the issue is starting with yourself.
You pay her, but that still does not mean that you should treat her any differently than you would treat any other woman.
SJG
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