Comments by trixxi (page 2)

Hey Reka, I do not mean to say anything that you do not already know, because you said that you had been dancing over a year. But I just want to say that even the "best" clubs have bad nights. Even the sexiest dancers have nights where they leave the club with less than minimum wage. Even the most friendly club where all the dancers and staff are friendly can change in an instant and everyone who you thought was your friend is no longer. This type of friendly place does not really exist in the strip club, where girls are competing with each other for the content's of men's wallets and men are competing with each other for the dancer's time as well as who they can most easily take advantage of. Keep a good attitude, positive frame of mind, healthy body, etc, and that is what you need to make money anywhere. Trust that some bad days will mean some really good days in the future, and save what you make every month. Know that eventually there are going to be girls younger than you, prettier than you, making more money than you, so save the money while you are making it. I suggest starting with one club that is just a little bit away from where you are now just to see if there are any slight regional differences, but what I think is that most strip clubs (upscale AND dives) are in a state right now where they 1) were not as popular as they were 10 - 20 years ago and 2) struggling to maintain open business and most 3) allow "illegal" activities to go on because that is the source of income for these struggling clubs. If you take this into account, travel where you want to go and do what you want to do and see where that takes you. All the best.

It could also be something entirely different, that has nothing to do with you. She could have had a great paying customer come in before you were there, that dropped several hundred on her and she was just waiting out her time before she could leave without penalty fees. She could have been in a bad mood for any number of reasons (SS), she could have had previous experience with other dancers that said something negative about you. She could be feeling unattractive, she could be feeling used from previous customers who took advantage of her ... the list is endless and not necessarily in anyone's realm of understanding unless they really understand strip clubs, strippers and their stripper / strip club life style. Rickdugan said it pretty well " A lot of them also have emotional hangups and issues that don't fit into a neat logical box, so trying to make sense of what many of them do is pointless. The best policy, in my experience, is simply to give the money to the best of those who show you that they want it." And if you are really curious, go back to club at another time and communicate with the dancer directly. If she does not want to communicate at all I would forget about her, even if she is incredibly sexy. Why would any patron want to wait around for a dancer who could care less about the PL and his money???

Has anyone else noticed the increasing amount of salespeople that have nothing to do with the club sales but instead sell wares to patrons and dancers alike? Several of these salespeople are more aggressive with their hustle than the dancers. In the mornings an earring / jewelry lady comes in trying to pawn cheap crap to the dancers. Throughout the day there are drivers coming in offering their services to drive the girls somewhere / pick them up something from the store. In the evenings there are two aggressive salewomen, the costume lady and the perfume lady. Their tactic: corner the dancers until they cave and give $ just to be left alone. The bar owner is fine with all these altenative sales going on because she gets free earrings / costumes / fragrances and sees these salespeople as just another type of annoying customers. Last but not least there are drug sellers and pimps looking for new hos ... And then theres the girls who truly are prostitutes who hang out at the club offering their private services to patrons. Btw- my club (pitiful princess) is a one drink mimimum, no parking or other unnecessary fees; instead you will be hustled mostly by people who are not even dancers.

I have read that guide and I think it is written for Hipsters by Hipsters ... However if you are a regular horny man in Portland who wants an extremely high mileage lap dance for $20/song come to Pitiful Princess at SE Division and 122nd read tuscl reviews for more info. g

Ranukam i think you still have not found the right club in portland ... There are the lame low mileage clubs you have reviewed, and then theres a plethora of dives with ordinary girls doing everything from HJs, BJs to full sex for less than a VIP at the other places. Go to the dives if you want truly high mileage or even sex in Portland, and this is a well known fact.

I have lost several girl friends that I knew in college who disapprove of my choice to dance. I have gained the friendship of some dancers and customers, but I have lost almost every friend I had before I was a dancer. I cannot make friends at my retail job as that may reveal my dancer identity.

Best not to keep records!!! A customer of mine had an elaborate filing system where he saved used dancer's panties in baggies with dates and names .... When his wife found them he came back to the dancers wanting to buy more (to replace the stash his wife destroyed).

I think she is very attractive personally ... but her actions are terrifying.

Jiggles was the first club I ever danced! I hope that with the loss of these clubs some new better clubs are born. I think Jiggles is the only one being demolished ... Also I was wrong about Club Fantasy ... The Portland club that is closer to Beaverton / Hillsboro is VIP Room which is currently open.

I think Club Fantasy is still open and its near Hillsboro ... A few clubs in the Portland metro area have recently closed forcing several dancers into different clubs: Glimmers, Jody's, Jiggles, and Safari Club. Hawthorne Strip is changing its location and Casa Diablo owner plans to reopen Glimmers as 'Sinners'

Is it because you liked the feeling of specialness and rareness from the dancer who gave you P4P compared to the escort who gives the same P4P but is less discerning and more willing? I think this is similar to anyone who finds out that their major object of lust is also a majorly lose slut. You may still be aroused by her but somewhere when you start to question her morals you lose attraction.

Sometimes I put a little Polo Ralph Lauren Blue on a pillow before bed and it gets me sooooooo turned on. To me, there is nothing sexier. As for my own fragrance of choice: Rapture from Victoria Secret

I have studied astrology for years and I try my best to keep my nerdy knowledge to myself at the club, personally I don't think it works in my favor to talk about moon signs and mercury signs with guys at the club.

I do not have any and I am often complemented for my lack of tattoos. I see so many beautiful young dancers with tattoos and I personally find that the tattoos make them less attractive.

That sounds freaking awesome!!! what a club!!!

If I worked there I would LOVE the walk around nude option personally it sounds great.

Jasmine was in Stars Cabaret ad in Xotic last month (May 14), she is on the back cover and wow what a pretty girl with UGLY tattoos (radishes?!?!??) ... her name on the ad is Peyton.

Slick I once smoked that cat piss strain about 5 years ago in san francisco ... I truly believed some cat peed all over the plant the smell was so strong ... I didnt think the high was as strong as the smell though. OTOH theres a cocktail called Marijuana thats very good and has no cannabis ingredients.

I enjoyed reading this, it sounds like a lot of fun!!! I wish I could do that with some of my customers :)

Heres a few things I wanted to add about DATY and FIV while inside the club. Please cut your fingernails before getting a lapdance. Girls do not want to be scratched and may end a dance early for this; however if your hands are clean and your nails are trim, a dancer may happily let you insert a finger or two. Tipping / ROBs ... We all know that several dancers are ROBs but what about the dancers that deliver? Always tip (~$5+) for good service in addition to cost of lapdance. If you are an "extras" type of customer than tip your provider a little extras. If you can't tip every time thats OK but if you expect similar treatment repeatedly, than a tip will guarantee good service. For example: Customer approached me for private dance and I agree. Customer wants FS for $20, instead I gave him HJ for $20 and told him to try out other dancers. He returns to club and wants private dances but 3 dancers ignore him. He asks me to get a certain dancer who is avoiding him by hiding in the dressing room. I tell her that he wants her and she says "he can wait, I know what he wants (FS/HJ/BJ) and I dont want to do it for only $20." So he tried to get the attention of another dancer who just chain smoked to ignore him. I never told the other dancers about how cheap he was, they discovered it the same way I did and he has not been able to get a lapdance at Pitiful with any of the dancers since. What he could have done to stay in the dancer's favor?? 1) Instead of just getting 1 dance for $20 he could have got 2 for $40, 2) He could have tipped the girls who provided extras, 3) he could have bought drinks for the girls, 4) basically instead of acting cheap and demanding extras he could have tipped generously and received extras willingly from all dancers.

Yes Fall in Lust is much more appropriate. And yes I typically have better experiences with older guys and I mean (50+) ... Younger guys can be extremely disrespectful while I find older guys are fun and casual. There are about 5 guys I see a week and I cant wait for them to treat me to a good FIV or DATY ... Where I dance there isnt a ton of privacy in the lap dance room but I get a thrill from getting away with breaking the "no contact" rule.

Just because you say "no offense," does not disregard that as an incredibly offensive statement. I have never claimed to be a beauty or a high ranking dancer; but I am a dancer, I have experience, and I make sometime thoughtful sometimes jokes on this strip club forum. I do not call out other members offensively if I personally do not like them or say "well no offense, BUT why do you go to strip clubs, is it because you are such a PL?" I dont think thats what this forum is about.

That reminds me of a time a guy picked me up in a bookstore ... He leaned against a fancy Shelby in the parking lot and I said "well, why don't you get in?" and he admitted "it's not really my car," Thanks LMN for the picture. In my opinion though, that could be ANYONE'S ferarri in a parking lot. Next time take a picture of some good looking ganja you are about to smoke instead, Lol

Joker44 describes him to a perfect T

A good dancer friend of mine just got back from her trip to Vegas. She is an incredible dancer here, she gets pictures in monthly ads as well as great with pole tricks. She said she danced at Hustler and Spearmint Rhino. She said house fees were $150/nt and she was personally overwhelmed by the competitive nature / amount of the other girls. I am sure everyones experience is unique, I was just shocked to hear her say that she did'nt make any money. She is a top earner here in Portland. If u can do a strip trip to Portland most clubs house fees are free to $10 - $20.