Comments by trixxi (page 3)

A DJ-less club is different in that girls have freedom to surprise you with either something unexpected or much of the same. My club is one of these and I have a folder on winamp with over 300 songs. Unfortunately so do several other dancers and typically the morning girl's playlist ends up being the music I dance to. I was too busy giving dances to get to the computer ... I like all types but lately Cruisin by Smoky robindson and Lady by Styx

Is it OK for the dancer (you are watching) at the end of her stage set, asking for a dance from the customer sitting at the rack who is watching her??? I always ask at the end of my set and 80% say yes.

thanks for the great comments, especially the funny ones!! as for the SD / SB thing he actually offered to pay for my courses at college but I felt at the time overwhelmed and uncertain about his offer so I didnt say Yes or No but instead "thank you." (My courses would be about $5000 a year) I have never had a SD before so I am just uncomfortable telling him Yes to OTC for a fee, But if he agreed and was sincere about paying for college I would love to be his girlfriend. He has purchased 2 diamond necklaces for me and when he got dances he usually spent between $150 - $200. Several dancers I know have sugar daddies, I think they see it 2 ways: 1) a sugar daddy could provide support to the dancer so she could one day "retire" and he is her exit plan, 2) the dancers enjoy the OTC fun dates / lavish gifts with the added bonus of payment for their time. As for his age I think he must be in his 60s, he is in great shape, just thinking of him I remember his handsome smile and sexy touch. I realize that I am just stuck in an unrealistic fantasy similar to the many customers who want a stripper as a girlfriend; either way I am certain the fantasy surpasses the reality.

I hope she takes the job and is good at it, even empowered by it ... she would be a total prude to say NO especially because of her "history." I am sure that men would pay just to be near her ...

Moscato is a sweet white wine. I used to drink occasionally before I danced. I LOVED taking tours of wineries on a date ... lots of wine tasting and sitting in the grass, making out ... incredibly romantic. Now that I am a dancer I drink sometimes 5 or 6 nights a week and I do not feel so fond of alcohol. I know margaritas are great and make me so super horny, these are perfect for a good day dancing at the club. Too many vodka cran / OJ make me sad and depressed. Some customers are intense and alcohol helps me get through to the harder personalities I encounter. Pot is #1 in my book and if I can get away with smoking it at the club I will.

I want to drink with you subraman you seem like a lot of fun! I like your sentiment! I love trying new drinks that create a memory with a new friend :)

Its even worse when they are totally disrespectfully putting you down but "pretending" to be your friend. Just yesterday I gave a lapdance to a guy only to have all the girls in the club laughing at me for doing it. "I can't believe YOU gave him a dance ... he's such a pervert!" One girl especially chastised me and other girls added "he is so nasty and always slaps my ass!" They didnt come out and blatantly call me a slut or whore but in a polite tease instead put me down for doing what strippers are supposed to do: make money selling lapdances.

2 clubs in town ONLY give change in $2s ... Casa Diablo and Black Cauldron ... Also, at most "nicer" clubs $2 a song is the minimum tip ... so with my experience dancing at dives, a $2 does not turn my head AT ALL ... its the $5s that make an impression on me. I have found that a $1 tip is usually just to save one's place at the rack / or extremely cheap customer. A few $1s implies more customer interest but $2s do not seem any different than $1s. I had received a silver dollar once (1974 eagle on the moon) and I was going to spend it like a dollar but my customer insisted I save it ... but I can't imagine it is worth much. Perhaps because these strip clubs give change in $2s customers may end up with $2s that they then use at other strip clubs in town.

I work with a few girls that used to dance at D1

I worry every time I deposit a large amount of cash even when its a rent payment into my landlord's account. I know I should use the bank but I am fearful of it honestly. I bet the porn stars have quite a bit of money in the bank too. But they probobly receive payment in checks whereas dancers have cash instead.

Very funny mikeya!!! I have only heard about that happening ... Thats pretty wild in my book

Thanks for sharing Club Goer! That must have been pretty large on the projector screen though!?! And did it have any sound? Its funny how the early memories are pretty vivid. I

It has bonus footage with extended scenes ... Jesse Jane was pretty jubilant, nude in the pool looking stunning. I have only watched a little porn. When I was about 12 I found a garbage bag full of porn VHS in the garage. It was my Uncle Charlie's and I dont know why we had it ... Anyway I found it one afternoon alone after school. Wow, I had never seen a man lick a woman's pussy before and I was so turned on! I was also totally ashamed and after watching about 30 minutes I ejected the tape and ran down the street and threw it down the drain.

Thanks for the laughs guys!!!! I thought the chick was a little weird talking about connecting with the hive mentality ...

it seems to me that atleast 65% of reviews for aphrodites lingerie modeling in portland are shill ... i only believe the "negative" reviews that say how there "was not any / only 1 or 2 girls available" and most say they would have rather gone to a strip club.

Personally for me, quality outweighs quantity every time.

She is gorgeous, I am sure VIP with a lookalike would be a lot of fun

thanks hard4dancers

Would you consider it disrespectful if someone came to your job and witnessed you working and making money interacting with customers at your work place and then requested that you leave your work place for free with them? Keep in mind that they did not give you any money or support your business at all. Sometimes sandwich makers give free sandwichs, but how likely would someone get a free sandwich if there was a line out the door of people willing to pay for it?

Very unlikely that she will be able to make any $ in any way besides the stage show ... you should take her home for the lap dance afterwards ... im sure it would be much nicer than any "lap dance room" which is sure to have cum laden upholestery.

in general thriftiness is seen as disrespectful especially for girls who are dancing particuraly long periods of time with few thrifty customers monopolizing their time. when the other customer makes it rain in front of a cheap customer he makes a point that he is letting the dancer knows that she is worth more than the bare minimum. its a complement and guys who make it rain or give large tips discretely are getting a better chance to spend better quality time with the dancer. every club, especially the dives has dancers who are undertipped all day. all dancers need a rain of money at times, its enlivening to the dancer's spirit. from the dancer's perspective cheapness can be insulting. i know that i will give Unusually Higher Mileage to guys who give me good stage tips and otherwise basic lap dances to guys who tip basically.

Any idea what the seaweed is called or where one could purchase it??

Last christmas the club owner INSISTED we dance to christmas music. This really was just 1 CD of different country artists singing Christmas carols. I could not stand it. The guys in the club hated it. The other dancers hated it. I had to give a few lap dances and it was just wrong to hear Oh Holy Night or Away in the Manger ... As soon as the owner left we took the CD off and everyone in the club cheered. No more stripping to bad christmas songs

In no order of preference: Guys who I enjoy talking to, drinking with and usually get hot lap dances from me. Guys who usually just want to tip me at stage and do not buy me drinks but do want to monopolize my time. Guys who spy on me ITC and OTC, do not tip me but are fascinated with dating me OTC and always ask personal questions to know the "real me." Guys who smoke pot with me, make me laugh, flirt with me and occasionally get lap dances. Sexy guys that I am genuinely attracted to who get hot lap dances with me that I have unrealistic fantasies of one day becoming their girlfriend. Guys who want to get as freaky as possible in a lap dance in an extremely aggressve way. Guys constantly asking if I want to have sex OTC for money (usually offering me $50 - $300). Guys who are not interested in me.

I have had this happen a number of times and I offer a few suggestions to ease the dancer. Bring a few napkins or tissues or even a few sheets of TP in your pocket. Wipe up your own loving spoonful like a man, even "cleaning" the mess off of the dancer. Or be willing to walk out with some stains on your pants. Keep the dancer's perspective that she wants to seem approachable to new customers; not some chick with mulitple guy's semen all over her hair / body / dancer outfit. Also if you have a dancer like this treat her kindly; like extra special random acts of kindess. Gifts, tips, not always just ocasionally go a long way.