You're posting in a forum of strip club customers, many of whom aren't interested in paying strippers "good $$", and many here are looking for some sort of sex. Therefore you might not get the best information here. There are other sites inhabited by dancers where you can get a much more dancer-oriented view of the clubs.
Also, you might want to provide more info than "friendly" and "good $$". That can mean many things to many people. What area of the country, what type of club, etc.
Well I'm thinking of a topless club and any area of the country pretty much I'm just looking for a place where is traffic in the club I do not wanna go dance for ghosts lol and it should be a place where I can feel safe and hoes don't steal my shit lol
Honey, why not ask at stripperweb or something. First you say "any area of the country" and now it's "except LA" because it's not safe. Bullshit, you dont' know what the fuck you want. We're not gonna spend our time guessing.
Right now with the Ebola Dallas is not the top 10 city I would go to untill all the Ebola patients die out pretty much my life worth more then a dollar
So, Reka, when you say you'll work in pretty much any area of the country, what you really mean is that you've got an excuse to not work fucking ANYWHERE because you're afraid of everything, correct? What you want is a place that's totally safe and everyone is wonderful and they throw money at you for just standing there.
@reka - you seem like an intelligent, go getter type gal. May I suggest:
1. Cocktail waitresses at an upscale bar/club (tips are wayyy up)
2. Have you considered getting your real estate license (housing market is booming!)
3. And of course, there's always nursing school
Since you're in the Clearwater area you should head over to Lipstixx in Tampa. I'm sure you can make the filthy lucre there. Slick's TJ suggestion is also coo-el!
I once did an "in-call" with an escort while I was in New Jersey. She said that she and her cat were traveling around the country sight-seeing and 2 or 3 days a week she'd put an ad in Backpage and pick up a couple of grand to fund her travels. I couldn't figure out sightseeing in Seacaucus, NJ, but she wanted to see "Jersey Shore" to see if its like TV.
So, Reka, if you want to travel....
Hey Reka, I do not mean to say anything that you do not already know, because you said that you had been dancing over a year. But I just want to say that even the "best" clubs have bad nights. Even the sexiest dancers have nights where they leave the club with less than minimum wage. Even the most friendly club where all the dancers and staff are friendly can change in an instant and everyone who you thought was your friend is no longer. This type of friendly place does not really exist in the strip club, where girls are competing with each other for the content's of men's wallets and men are competing with each other for the dancer's time as well as who they can most easily take advantage of.
Keep a good attitude, positive frame of mind, healthy body, etc, and that is what you need to make money anywhere. Trust that some bad days will mean some really good days in the future, and save what you make every month. Know that eventually there are going to be girls younger than you, prettier than you, making more money than you, so save the money while you are making it.
I suggest starting with one club that is just a little bit away from where you are now just to see if there are any slight regional differences, but what I think is that most strip clubs (upscale AND dives) are in a state right now where they 1) were not as popular as they were 10 - 20 years ago and 2) struggling to maintain open business and most 3) allow "illegal" activities to go on because that is the source of income for these struggling clubs. If you take this into account, travel where you want to go and do what you want to do and see where that takes you. All the best.
Lol u the fake ppl on this site is a bunch of assholes and go see it urself but oh wait maybe u so ugly bitchis woudnt touch u for not even a mill lol I know wtf I'm talking about hahaha lame ass mf
Well go to oasis or baby dolls haha u guys a gag but wtfe I don't give a f w.t.h. u guys got to say cause half of u are just lame broke mf who don't know shit lol u don't worked in clubs there u don't got the inside storries so shut the Fuck up if u can't say nun good shut ur lame ass mouth
@reka -- sorry if jokes went a bit too far, but you have to realize the we don't have a great perspective on the best places for girls to work are.
Specifically, we don't know what you look like, what you are comfortable doing, whether you cultivate regulars, etc. Nor do we have a good perspective on shit that happens behind the scenes in clubs (I'm not talking about extras, I'm talking about things like "is the management a bunch of assholes" and so forth).
This makes it hard to give helpful advice. trixxi is really the person to listen to. She seems like a cool and kind of goofy stripper. No disrespect -- I like the goofy so that is a plus for me.
I plan to try to get to trixxi's club if I ever get back to Portland (last time I was there was two or three years ago...)
She is so eloquent, clearly not only a beauty, but also a master in the art of conversation. I would think the sky is the limit for a professional of her caliber.
post here for the best inquires about stripper related issues from like minded workers. We'll tell you as the customer what we want, not particularlty what's safest or "cleanest" depending on how you view that term. They'll give you a good idea of what a stripper would view as those terms means to you. Even if some of them are egotistic:
https://www.stripperweb.com/
Just remember that their views are what they WANT to expect in clubs and what they lie about, not any actualities. Not everything they throw glitter at is gold. For more expectations on how strip clubs get down, I would look at sites where its customer oriented...like this.
"....half of u are just lame broke mf who don't know shit lol u don't worked in clubs there u don't got the inside storries so shut the Fuck up if u can't say nun good shut ur lame ass mouth"
So let's look at the inner workings of a typical stripper.
Here the young lady calls half of us "lame, broke, motherfuckers who don't know shit". But in the same sentence she proclaims "If you can't say nuthin' good shut your lame ass mouth".
Now, it's clear that she's incapable of seeing the utter hypocrisy of this, but to the average person it's quite clear. She is free to call others, people she has never met or even talked to, the most despicable names, but she tells others "If you can't say nuthin' good shut your lame ass mouth".
Trixxi's advice is good. She is smart and very level headed.
Maybe if you told us about some areas you are considering? We probably have members in those areas who can tell you some about the local clubs. As far as which are the most busy at a given time nation wide, who knows. But if you narrow the focus down, then there probably are people who will know.
Then as far as what goes on in those clubs, there are probably people who know this too.
Where I am in Santa Clara California, the SC's are a strictly enforced no touching. They are just for talking and for flirting, which I have always enjoyed greatly. In San Francisco, they aren't like that, but many of them are just clip joints. Interactions between the customer and dancers are highly regulated in order to take in more money. Mostly it is the club which gets more money this way. Anytime they have a special booth or room, it gives the club a chance to take a deeper cut. Sometimes they can convince the dancers that this helps them too. It doesn't.
If you have very few rules, dancers can be more physically aggressive in engaging, and they can take in even more in front room tips which they don't have to cut with the house.
So I am attracted to some of these wilder and woolier places in other areas which are talked about here.
In most places they have more strip clubs per capita than we have here. This makes them more competitive. Trixxi is in Portland where they have the highest number of strip clubs per capita, and it sounds extremely competitive and it sounds like there are some real dives of dives. You might scan some of her posts.
My own experiences are more with AMPs. I like women in high heels and makeup, and I like to spend real time with them and do lots of gentle kissing and make love slow and easy. I have learned to bring a tantric sensibility into conventional sex. If I try and explain, this the women don't get it. But once I've demonstrated it, very soon they will all know about it and be jumping in front of each other for a turn.
But this was more in the past. In the present and future, if I have sex with a woman, it is because I want her to end up making my breakfast, and very likely that is what will happen. So I am not really seeking P4P, rather I am just PAWP4P, Playing Along With Pay 4 Play.
I've never gone along with the "extras" approach and dry humping in strip clubs. I think it is perverted. These guys are treating the dancers like a vending machine. I don't go along with this.
Likewise, I know that there is now an "extras" approach to FS. Dancers have learned to do this, and it sounds like they don't even consider it as sex. While I understand the motivation behind this, I don't like the idea.
I like to apply my money, my ejaculate, my time, and my attention all together and for the same purpose, getting under a girl's skin. So I have always been extremely skeptical about SC's offering FS.
Here in San Francisco it started in the 90's when Willy Brown was Mayor and Terrance Halinan was DA. But since it has been toned down. As far as I can see, many of the places are clip joints. That is, they sell more of an open ended expensive fantasy and rumors, instead of actual delivery.
I've talked about this much. On blackstripclubs.net ( down now ) the reviews got quite explicit. In the most extreme FS black clubs, the typical way is that a girl will just climb on to a guys lap and start nibbling on his ear and licking his neck and in general trying to get him to start making out with her.
Well, if it is initiated in that way, then the FS which ensues should be really good. I am going to love that, as I hope to be out visiting these places, some of the most infamous in the entire country, and mostly East of the Mississippi.
Other TUSCL members have confirmed that it is done like this, and that it is not restricted to the black clubs.
Anyway, so it you tell us places you are looking at, and more about what you are looking for and what you are accustomed to, as opposed to only looking for a place which is more busy, I know that there will be TUSCLers who can help.
I also think it not worth the costs and risks of traveling far when you don't really know what you will find. I have though known dancers who have worked their way across the country.
As I know, seeing regulars in a room makes things so much easier for a dancer. It just lowers their stress level.
I would think that a place like Vegas is very hard to dance in. The whole town is tourists, drifters, and losers. And then the dancers can be even worse.
So I would think places which cater to locals would be easier.
I am sorry that so many of the posts on your thread have not been constructive. But please do keep posting as having more women's voices does so much to improve the quality of the forum. And I know that if you are patient, there will be people who will provide you with practical information.
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Also, you might want to provide more info than "friendly" and "good $$". That can mean many things to many people. What area of the country, what type of club, etc.
Go ask other strippers.
Of course we do not know what you look like, how great your dances are, or how friendly you are to us hard core strip club patrons.
Best of luck.
It's called Law of Attraction, popular among strippers.
Unless you want to move for a different reason other than money, you should be able to get info from us gents here.
Good luck with that.
1. Cocktail waitresses at an upscale bar/club (tips are wayyy up)
2. Have you considered getting your real estate license (housing market is booming!)
3. And of course, there's always nursing school
We'd have a better idea of what to advise if you posted some pics on tumblr or something and then posted a link here.
King of Diamonds Inver Grove Heights MN. Nude on stage, topless table dances, lots of customers through out the day. No funny business.
Classy.
My CF used to rake a thousand a night when she was doing the Vegas weekend.
Baby Dolls Dallas as others have mentioned.
In south Florida where I’m from - Tootsies; Scarlett’s; Cheetah (there are 2 of them – Pompano; Hallandale).
Many Atlanta clubs are pretty tame and often no contact (e.g. Cheetah Atlanta) but a dancer better be at least a 9 to make decent $$$ with no contact.
As others have said – if you want “inside info” as to a good place to work; better to ask on a stripper website like stripperweb.com.
So, Reka, if you want to travel....
Keep a good attitude, positive frame of mind, healthy body, etc, and that is what you need to make money anywhere. Trust that some bad days will mean some really good days in the future, and save what you make every month. Know that eventually there are going to be girls younger than you, prettier than you, making more money than you, so save the money while you are making it.
I suggest starting with one club that is just a little bit away from where you are now just to see if there are any slight regional differences, but what I think is that most strip clubs (upscale AND dives) are in a state right now where they 1) were not as popular as they were 10 - 20 years ago and 2) struggling to maintain open business and most 3) allow "illegal" activities to go on because that is the source of income for these struggling clubs. If you take this into account, travel where you want to go and do what you want to do and see where that takes you. All the best.
Ain’t that the truth – the SCs in Clearwater are like having a SC in Vatican City – no mileage what so ever.
Specifically, we don't know what you look like, what you are comfortable doing, whether you cultivate regulars, etc. Nor do we have a good perspective on shit that happens behind the scenes in clubs (I'm not talking about extras, I'm talking about things like "is the management a bunch of assholes" and so forth).
This makes it hard to give helpful advice. trixxi is really the person to listen to. She seems like a cool and kind of goofy stripper. No disrespect -- I like the goofy so that is a plus for me.
I plan to try to get to trixxi's club if I ever get back to Portland (last time I was there was two or three years ago...)
https://www.stripperweb.com/
Clearwater must have changed from many years ago. Could never be confused with Miami or Tampa, but it sure wasn't Orlando.
I am so going to hell for that one .......
I don't want her flippin her bits out when I buy a dance from her.
Wherever you want to. :)
So let's look at the inner workings of a typical stripper.
Here the young lady calls half of us "lame, broke, motherfuckers who don't know shit". But in the same sentence she proclaims "If you can't say nuthin' good shut your lame ass mouth".
Now, it's clear that she's incapable of seeing the utter hypocrisy of this, but to the average person it's quite clear. She is free to call others, people she has never met or even talked to, the most despicable names, but she tells others "If you can't say nuthin' good shut your lame ass mouth".
Dontcha just love it?
Trixxi's advice is good. She is smart and very level headed.
Maybe if you told us about some areas you are considering? We probably have members in those areas who can tell you some about the local clubs. As far as which are the most busy at a given time nation wide, who knows. But if you narrow the focus down, then there probably are people who will know.
Then as far as what goes on in those clubs, there are probably people who know this too.
Where I am in Santa Clara California, the SC's are a strictly enforced no touching. They are just for talking and for flirting, which I have always enjoyed greatly. In San Francisco, they aren't like that, but many of them are just clip joints. Interactions between the customer and dancers are highly regulated in order to take in more money. Mostly it is the club which gets more money this way. Anytime they have a special booth or room, it gives the club a chance to take a deeper cut. Sometimes they can convince the dancers that this helps them too. It doesn't.
If you have very few rules, dancers can be more physically aggressive in engaging, and they can take in even more in front room tips which they don't have to cut with the house.
So I am attracted to some of these wilder and woolier places in other areas which are talked about here.
In most places they have more strip clubs per capita than we have here. This makes them more competitive. Trixxi is in Portland where they have the highest number of strip clubs per capita, and it sounds extremely competitive and it sounds like there are some real dives of dives. You might scan some of her posts.
My own experiences are more with AMPs. I like women in high heels and makeup, and I like to spend real time with them and do lots of gentle kissing and make love slow and easy. I have learned to bring a tantric sensibility into conventional sex. If I try and explain, this the women don't get it. But once I've demonstrated it, very soon they will all know about it and be jumping in front of each other for a turn.
But this was more in the past. In the present and future, if I have sex with a woman, it is because I want her to end up making my breakfast, and very likely that is what will happen. So I am not really seeking P4P, rather I am just PAWP4P, Playing Along With Pay 4 Play.
I've never gone along with the "extras" approach and dry humping in strip clubs. I think it is perverted. These guys are treating the dancers like a vending machine. I don't go along with this.
Likewise, I know that there is now an "extras" approach to FS. Dancers have learned to do this, and it sounds like they don't even consider it as sex. While I understand the motivation behind this, I don't like the idea.
I like to apply my money, my ejaculate, my time, and my attention all together and for the same purpose, getting under a girl's skin. So I have always been extremely skeptical about SC's offering FS.
Here in San Francisco it started in the 90's when Willy Brown was Mayor and Terrance Halinan was DA. But since it has been toned down. As far as I can see, many of the places are clip joints. That is, they sell more of an open ended expensive fantasy and rumors, instead of actual delivery.
I've talked about this much. On blackstripclubs.net ( down now ) the reviews got quite explicit. In the most extreme FS black clubs, the typical way is that a girl will just climb on to a guys lap and start nibbling on his ear and licking his neck and in general trying to get him to start making out with her.
Well, if it is initiated in that way, then the FS which ensues should be really good. I am going to love that, as I hope to be out visiting these places, some of the most infamous in the entire country, and mostly East of the Mississippi.
Other TUSCL members have confirmed that it is done like this, and that it is not restricted to the black clubs.
Anyway, so it you tell us places you are looking at, and more about what you are looking for and what you are accustomed to, as opposed to only looking for a place which is more busy, I know that there will be TUSCLers who can help.
I also think it not worth the costs and risks of traveling far when you don't really know what you will find. I have though known dancers who have worked their way across the country.
As I know, seeing regulars in a room makes things so much easier for a dancer. It just lowers their stress level.
I would think that a place like Vegas is very hard to dance in. The whole town is tourists, drifters, and losers. And then the dancers can be even worse.
So I would think places which cater to locals would be easier.
I am sorry that so many of the posts on your thread have not been constructive. But please do keep posting as having more women's voices does so much to improve the quality of the forum. And I know that if you are patient, there will be people who will provide you with practical information.
https://sites.google.com/site/sjgportal/
SJG
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PM me if you want details about clubs in Ohio and Indiana.
SJG is right Listen to Trixxie she knows the business. Take her advice.