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8 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Met a real stunner and bonafide model at a strip club. Great convo, no dances, but was up for OTC. Over next month, texted daily building up to the overnight first date. During this time, she sent me pics of her bathing suit modeling shoots, that eventually progressed to nude selfies and masturbation videos. She was was looking for an SD/SB relationship. I was down for that based on her hotness!
The long awaited date turned out to be mediocre. She was into weed, provided weak GFE and couldn't take real-man meat very well. So, didn't sign up for another round. She was pissed, due to evaporated income stream, and sent some cold texts. Fortunately, in short order she stopped contacting me. I didn't bother to provide an explanation.
Fast forward several months, I was looking at the pics and videos and typed her a text. Then I had second thoughts and deleted it. Too many fine fish in the sea to pay for mediocre service!
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8 years ago
I've had similar comments made by dancers in their early 20s discovering experienced cunninglinguists for the first time.
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8 years ago
Just remember that free-market capitalism is NOT the "perfect" economic system. Predictably, even coupled with democracy, it creates wide income disparity and inequality, with a relatively minuscule equity-holding class controlling nearly all real and intellectual assets. It just happens to be a better economic system than old school monarchies, dictatorship, socialism and communism.
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8 years ago
^^^ Would get my vote!
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8 years ago
Subraman: "... what have the mechanics been for payment?"
I deposit funds in my SB's checking account.
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8 years ago
Give me #1. With a sexual freak, who is always trying to please me, I wouldn't need another woman.
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8 years ago
There a well known jack joint in NJ with the initials PL. I always go commando with a dark pair of athletic or dress pants. I simply don't care about busting in my clothes. Toss them in the washer or send to dry cleaners without a care.
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8 years ago
My two SBs live out of town. Closest is 3 hrs away, the other is 6 hrs away, so overnights are routine. When I meet up with them, I enjoy the relaxed pace. Typically, I try to arrive in their area before 6pm and check into a decent hotel. The mid-range suite hotels are my favorite. SBs like the extra play space. If we meet at the hotel before dinner, we avoid a full make out, but do get things rolling with some DFK.
During dinner, I like sitting side-by-side with my SB to enjoy sensuous leg touching, HOP and smooches. Most visits we head straight to the hotel after the meal for playtime, but occasionally we'll hit a dance or strip club.
Back at the room, I like to kick things off with a thoughtful, inexpensive gift. Women love gifts. People love gifts. LOL! The Law of Reciprocity kicks in, and I'm set to have her return the love with her whole self. We fuck for a few hours, get a good night's sleep, then wake early and fuck some more. SB#1 provides a complete PSE, a real freak! It's like shooting a gonzo porno. SB#2 is a bit more conservative, but delivers very satisfying GFE.
While I'm a big fan of overnight OTC, I've learned the hard way to only do it after building trust and a relationship. Tried end of shift OTC overnights with dancers I didn't know well. The hookups were all terrible experiences.
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8 years ago
BTW, I agree with Dougster, sex workers are all whores. But being a whore isn't such a bad thing. Many sex workers wear the whore label with pride. As they should. Whores are needed in this world, just as we need people who do all kinds of other WORK.
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8 years ago
FTS, the umbrella term for strippers and hookers is "sex worker", which covers a very wide variety of participants in the game of exchanging money or other value for various sex-oriented services. While all strippers entertain by showing some skin for money, not all strippers fuck for money. Conversely, all hookers fuck for money, and many don't bother trying to entertain.
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8 years ago
Interesting post and discussion. The focus of my clubbing life and spending has shifted to sugaring. I'm in two SD/SB relationships where I've committed to $600 per month in spending with each of my friends. Their situations are very different.
SB#1 is a genuine student, lives with parents, no kids, no BF, mid-20s. Met her at a strip club. She was an elite dancer, providing UHM GFE services. Enjoyed a couple awesome OTC sessions. Then learned she wanted to quit stripping. Committed to $600 per month for unlimited dates, including overnight stays. I pay for all the entertainment and always bring a gift. We see each other about once a month, for a 1- or 2-night overnight stay. Have even done 3-night visits. Our deal is no P4P, just the monthly allowance. Relationship is very close to a civvy GF situation. I know her family and friends.
SB#2 is an active stripper who has been in the business for awhile. Smart, degreed, mid-30s, divorced, young kids, nice apartment in the suburbs. During our first convo at her club, when I mentioned I had a SB she immediately expressed interest in being one too. I hadn't even gotten a dance from her yet. LOL! Turns out she was familiar with sugaring, as it fit her desire for incremental income and fun with someone she likes. Met for dinner the next day and agreed on $600 per night, since all our meet ups would involve an overnight stay. Commitment is at least once per month, and, if chemistry is maintained, to have the arrangement over an extended period of time. This has worked out quite well. I pay for entertainment, hotels and gifts. Again, more like a GF situation since she doesn't have a BF.
I used to spend a lot of my entertainment budget playing top notch golf courses, traveling, and eating out. Then that spend shifted to strip clubs. Now it's focused on spending quality time with a couple gorgeous, fun, sexy, smart young women. Life is swell. Wish I could afford one or two more of these arrangements.
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8 years ago
Juice, touching on the serious aspect of your post, I'd recommend finding a mentor and/or a coach. Success is not going to be found in getting feedback from machines. Surround yourself with real people who are successful in ways that "you" define success. For example, if you define success as being able to give generously to others, build a relationship with someone who does that routinely. If you define success as being able to retire comfortably, spent time with a retiree that planned ahead and made it happen. If you want to be fit, start hanging out with people who are in great shape. And of course, if you want to fuck strippers, do continue to talk shit here with your TUSCL buddies. Hahaha!
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Perhaps there's another way to interpret the line "thank you for being a gentleman." What if she actually meant, "I appreciate how you treated me today. Could be the beginning of lots of fun."
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8 years ago
My favorite club in the Midwest is Christy's Cabaret in Cleveland OH. Good luck to ya!
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8 years ago
For me, ITC busting from BBBJ, HJ or FS is always rushed, with little regard for companion's climax. Yeah typically takes 5-10 mins.
OTC is a different story, since it typically involves an overnight stay. I pleasure my OTC companion, delivering at least a couple O's before allowing myself to release. Timing of my bust ranges from an hour to over a day. Most significant factor is time since last nut.
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8 years ago
Hope you don't get burned, because you're definitely playing with fire.
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8 years ago
First strip club visit was 4 years ago. Clubbing I s now an important part of my lifestyle, replacing golf as a hobby. Now enjoying a couple sugar babies I met in clubs.
This game can get expensive, so it takes financial discipline. I'll enjoy the game as long as I can afford it, and as long as I'm healthy enough to enjoy it.
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8 years ago
Interesting that so many older, more settled PLs look down their noses at strippers in their 20s and 30s. If the lives of PLs was compared at the same early stage of life, I'm pretty sure we'd find a lot of challenges and growing up pains.
I respect women who are willing to work to eat, have shelter and provide for kids. Beats dependency in all its forms. Stripper JOBS fill a real need. Us old dogs need intimacy and entertainment. Few other options fill our voids as well. The JOBS are legal and fun for many who do the WORK.
Personally, since discovering strip clubs just a few years ago, I'm having the time of my life. I cherish my young sexy friends, who just adore their Big Daddy. LOL!
Happy clubbing! HG
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8 years ago
I've had fun at Rick's Cabaret and VIP Club.
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8 years ago
Stunning beauty!
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8 years ago
#98
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8 years ago
Would you fuck her?
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8 years ago
Yes!
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8 years ago
Agree fucking strippers is about satisfying mutual needs, and OTC P4P is not at all hard. Although banging strippers for free, takes a bit more effort and patience.
I love the game of fucking strippers because strip clubs provide a wonderful initial screening process for beautiful young women (sex workers) looking for incremental financial support and sexual fun. Haven't found a better quick fuck vetting mechanism.
For those playing this game there are some basic requirements. Namely, not being cheap and having decent personal hygiene, uh just like in the civvy world.
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8 years ago
Agree it's rare, but also like the grooming touch. Hope it catches on.