How long do you typically fuck until completion?

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• Dominic77

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  8 years ago

  usually we do lots of foreplay and some play after. We find 30-40 minutes works for us (total) but the actual fucking, I strive to pace that for 9 minutes. Sometimes it goes out to 20, but I still strive for 9-10. 9 minutes is what satisfies her. We don't go for an many orgasms as you do, but 1-2 orgasms for her during the fucking and 1-2 orgasms during the after coitus play. After about 3, she is spent and happy. :) From talking with her friends, most of girlfriends' hasbands or boyfriends (or their affairs) are only good for 2-5 minutes, tops, so I believe the 5.4 minute figure.
• Dominic77

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  8 years ago

  ^lol. I wrote "hasbands". That sounds past-tense term or a homonym for "has-been." Funny. LMAO
• Timbuck12

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  8 years ago

  Reminds me of the old Richard Pryor line: ain't no man alive that can fuck, and I'm talkin' about REAL fuckin', longer than 2 minutes.
• san_jose_guy

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  8 years ago

  When one learns tantric practices, one can go just about as long as they want. I don't know if there really is a limit. You just kind of wait until you've let things build between you and the girl to the highest possible level of closeness. Then bring it to conclusion. Girls love this. SJG
• MrBater2010

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  8 years ago

  I am not a clock watcher. mind you am not bragging either, cause I have the softest hand EVER. but then there is this. [view link]
• JohnSmith69

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  8 years ago

  As for Richard Pryor's comment, I agree that you've got to slow down periodically to make it last. Even with weed I wouldn't make it for too long if I was going as hard as possible without any slow downs.
• shailynn

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  8 years ago

  A lot of things factor into this, and I think this is for any guy, not just me: 1. Have I been drinking? 2. When is the last time I masturbated or had sex? 3. How turned on am I by the person I am with? 4. Where are we having sex (in a bed where I can take my time, in a strip club VIP where I have a time limit)? I've had sex that has lasted 5 minutes and I've had sex (fourplay, taking short breaks from intercourse) that has lasted over an hour. If I were to start intercourse in the missionary position, and start pumping away and not stopping, only changing my rhythm there is no way in hell I could make it to 10 minutes being sober and without a condom on. I'd like to think I could make it longer than 5 minutes. In cowgirl I can usually last longer, I've gone well over 10 minutes doing that, but at the 8 minute mark I start thinking of tasks to do or anything to get my mind off of sex so I don't blow my load. Luckily one sexual partner I have loves to ride me in cowgirl, likes to rock back and forth more than going up and down. If she went up and down hard like you see in a porno movie I'd probably last about 2 minutes. I find that in a night full of sex, after the first orgasm and a quick break to recharge I am in much more control and can last longer than the first round.
• chessmaster

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  8 years ago

  30 seconds...
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  Lots of factors as has been mentioned: + bareback vs covered (covered less sensation so last longer) + how hard up I am (proximity of last nut-bust) + pussy configuration - small/tight - big/loose (w/ some small girls I will bust sooner than later no matter the circumstances) + one's age I'm 46 I can bust as soon as 15 to 30 seconds or not bust at all - if a song is about 3 minutes these days I'll usually bust somewhere during the second song - but I tend to masturbate a couple of times per wk so often times can fuck a good while w/o cumming and not even cum at all Also - I sometimes semi-cum- i.e. I'll stop and cum a little as when a soda-bottle is shaken and one slightly-opens the top - that is often times enough for me to take the edge off and still stay almost as hard and go for a good-while.
• Jascoi

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  8 years ago

  i'm all over the map.any where from 5 seconds to 55 minutes. butt usually within 15 minutes doing vip at a strip club.
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  IF I go more than 5-mimutes good-chance I won't cum at all although I sometimes may still cum
• larryfisherman

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  8 years ago

  Like Shailynn, those girls that know how to ride dick going up and down will make me bust in a couple of minutes. Generally I can go 20 minutes of straight fucking.
• HungryGiraffe

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  8 years ago

  For me, ITC busting from BBBJ, HJ or FS is always rushed, with little regard for companion's climax. Yeah typically takes 5-10 mins. OTC is a different story, since it typically involves an overnight stay. I pleasure my OTC companion, delivering at least a couple O's before allowing myself to release. Timing of my bust ranges from an hour to over a day. Most significant factor is time since last nut.
• rh48hr

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  8 years ago

  Like most I'm all over the map. I've been as quick as 30 seconds and as long as 30 minutes. But on average I'm probably in the 5-10 min range.
• shailynn

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  8 years ago

  HungryGiraffe makes a good point. If I am (not inside a strip club VIP) I always make sure (or at least try to make sure) that my partner has an orgasm. Sometimes they are really quick and sometimes they take a really long time. Of course several different methods are used to make sure she achieves that orgasm. Anyway depending on how long that took may depend on how long I take.
• Dominic77

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  8 years ago

  I like a constant rhythm. But rough, but rough with your hands, not the penis. Lasting longer (than Pryor's 2 minutes or 30 seconds or whatever) is combination of a few things. + not enough foreplay. I'm not talking about oral or DATY here. But actual foreplay like massages, tickling, nibbling, kissing, light and rough touch, grabbing, stroking, hair pulling (eaasssy there), smacking, licking, rubbing, fuzzy pink hand cuffs, tying her up, blindfolds, or just holding her down or simply restricting her wrists. The woman can cum in like 1/4 of the time if you spend time here, upfront. + going slower. porn is not an instruction manual. Find a constant rhythm you can keep up for 10 minutes or longer. Maybe see if Juice can help you with the treadmill if you guys are getting winded or sweating to death., lol + You *do* want to switch positions every so often. It helps her enjoy it and it keeps you from blasting too early. Seriously, switch positions. + if you're cumming early (like 1 minute or so), you're pumping too fast or out of shape. See Juice mane for help. Slow down. It also helps to swear off excess masturbation (or at least masturbation to completion). Also, if you like porn, and there's nothing wrong with porn, consider how much hardcore you consume. Too much of that re-wires your brain(s) IMHO. If you watch hardcore porn, then you also need to do hardcore sex, since that's what is going to arouse you. Some guys think a 2 week hiatus from hardcore is enough. I think 5 weeks is needed. I've done some longer than 1 hour sessions too but usually the woman cries uncle at that point (too many orgasms for her). Most of those sessions have been in odd areas of the house (especially her place when I'm not there much) or risque places in public. It keeps things new and fresh
• Corvus

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  8 years ago

  I know way too much about some of you now than I've ever wanted to know. But for the record I always last until the end. Every time.
• seaboardrr

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  8 years ago

  Anywhere from 5 minutes to 3 hours.
• shadowcat

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  8 years ago

  It's not a question of how long for me. It's a question of if I can get it up enough to do it. I don't even try for FS ITC. Just stick with BBBJs. In the event I can arrange for OTC with a hottie I try to spread it out for an hour but once I get down to business 5 minutes is probably my maximum.
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  24 hours (give or take a few minutes)
• JamesSD

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  8 years ago

  5-10 minutes of actual penetration is fairly reasonable. I'm a thick guy, so more than 10 minutes of pounding leaves her completely wrecked. The total encounter is like 30-60 minutes, but actual dick in vagina? No more than 10 minutes.
• Timex345

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  8 years ago

  The old joke about not caring about the womans' enjoyment comes to mind. Being made to wear condoms has a benefit. I can last longer. It takes awhile without actual penetration for me.
• dallas702

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  8 years ago

  My first wife would cum in about 3 minutes of fucking and pop a second time in less than two minutes more - after that she would immediately complain she was getting sore. (we lasted ten years, but that was mostly because she wasn't always a bitch and she could give a pretty good blow job.) I tried very hard to finish fast, but even young, it almost always took at least 15 to 20 minutes of actual action to get off. Now, as an old guy, I occasionally do pop fast, but it still usually takes over ten minutes of concentration to bust a nut (sometimes after 30 minutes -or more - I run out of energy before I get there and either the lady does all the work or I am left hanging). I know that's not the norm - and it costs me extra at strip clubs where the dancer expects to get a customer off in one - or at most - two songs. My last SC visit, it took a talented dancer over 4 (mostly uncut) songs to obtain some of my high-protein discharge from a BBBJ-CIM. Sexual "stamina" can be expensive.
• Beaver_Hunter

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  8 years ago

  I've seen an 18 yo newbie stripper otc twice in the last week. Its a solid 20 minutes of fucking for me to get off. She's not used to that. Yet. I'm going to fuck her tomorrow, I'll time it.
• Tiburon

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  8 years ago

  If I haven't made a girl cum between 15-30 minutes I give up and find a hoe to pay to suck the nut out of me
• TravelingGolfer

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  8 years ago

  Anywhere from 5 to 30 minutes, depending on all of the factors that Papi mentioned above. Usually somewhere in the middle, like 10, 15, or 20 minutes of actual penetration time.
• JuiceBox69

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  8 years ago

  I agree with chess
• san_jose_guy

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  8 years ago

  I agree with HungryGiraffe, in that longer encounters and Toda La Noche's are better. SJG
• Jascoi

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  8 years ago

  and I should've added... I'm so desensitized... I haven't cum in a condom in years. and still never with a bj. but I have been close. butt still a most excellent sensation with a girl that really knows how to do it right.
• san_jose_guy

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  8 years ago

  As I see it, BBBJ is mostly just a gimmick for getting off on the girl's face, and for giving her a treat too. Doing it till completion is in my mind a kind of specialty thing. SJG
• georgmicrodong

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  8 years ago

  The vitamin V makes me last longer. Visits with the ATF were usually a four stage event. Foreplay for both of us, fucking for a bit, then some midplay, then some more fucking till we're done. After the first couple of years, there was usually some cuddling and after play as well.