How long do you typically fuck until completion?
JohnSmith69
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Obviously the amount of time varies based upon lots of factors. But still, I don't think I've cum in 5 minutes since high school. For the most part, I wait until my companion is fully satisfied and try to finish simultaneously or shorter after I sense that she's gotten all that she's going to get out of it. My guess is that I usually average around 20-25 minutes although I've gone much longer on occasion, especially with the stripper that love. It's rare that I finish quicker than this unless her mouth got me to the brink before we started, or unless I'm with a paid sex worker who is solely there for my pleasure.
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From talking with her friends, most of girlfriends' hasbands or boyfriends (or their affairs) are only good for 2-5 minutes, tops, so I believe the 5.4 minute figure.
SJG
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1. Have I been drinking?
2. When is the last time I masturbated or had sex?
3. How turned on am I by the person I am with?
4. Where are we having sex (in a bed where I can take my time, in a strip club VIP where I have a time limit)?
I've had sex that has lasted 5 minutes and I've had sex (fourplay, taking short breaks from intercourse) that has lasted over an hour.
If I were to start intercourse in the missionary position, and start pumping away and not stopping, only changing my rhythm there is no way in hell I could make it to 10 minutes being sober and without a condom on. I'd like to think I could make it longer than 5 minutes.
In cowgirl I can usually last longer, I've gone well over 10 minutes doing that, but at the 8 minute mark I start thinking of tasks to do or anything to get my mind off of sex so I don't blow my load. Luckily one sexual partner I have loves to ride me in cowgirl, likes to rock back and forth more than going up and down. If she went up and down hard like you see in a porno movie I'd probably last about 2 minutes.
I find that in a night full of sex, after the first orgasm and a quick break to recharge I am in much more control and can last longer than the first round.
+ bareback vs covered (covered less sensation so last longer)
+ how hard up I am (proximity of last nut-bust)
+ pussy configuration - small/tight - big/loose (w/ some small girls I will bust sooner than later no matter the circumstances)
+ one's age
I'm 46 I can bust as soon as 15 to 30 seconds or not bust at all - if a song is about 3 minutes these days I'll usually bust somewhere during the second song - but I tend to masturbate a couple of times per wk so often times can fuck a good while w/o cumming and not even cum at all
Also - I sometimes semi-cum- i.e. I'll stop and cum a little as when a soda-bottle is shaken and one slightly-opens the top - that is often times enough for me to take the edge off and still stay almost as hard and go for a good-while.
OTC is a different story, since it typically involves an overnight stay. I pleasure my OTC companion, delivering at least a couple O's before allowing myself to release. Timing of my bust ranges from an hour to over a day. Most significant factor is time since last nut.
If I am (not inside a strip club VIP) I always make sure (or at least try to make sure) that my partner has an orgasm. Sometimes they are really quick and sometimes they take a really long time. Of course several different methods are used to make sure she achieves that orgasm. Anyway depending on how long that took may depend on how long I take.
Lasting longer (than Pryor's 2 minutes or 30 seconds or whatever) is combination of a few things.
+ not enough foreplay. I'm not talking about oral or DATY here. But actual foreplay like massages, tickling, nibbling, kissing, light and rough touch, grabbing, stroking, hair pulling (eaasssy there), smacking, licking, rubbing, fuzzy pink hand cuffs, tying her up, blindfolds, or just holding her down or simply restricting her wrists. The woman can cum in like 1/4 of the time if you spend time here, upfront.
+ going slower. porn is not an instruction manual. Find a constant rhythm you can keep up for 10 minutes or longer. Maybe see if Juice can help you with the treadmill if you guys are getting winded or sweating to death., lol
+ You *do* want to switch positions every so often. It helps her enjoy it and it keeps you from blasting too early. Seriously, switch positions.
+ if you're cumming early (like 1 minute or so), you're pumping too fast or out of shape. See Juice mane for help. Slow down.
It also helps to swear off excess masturbation (or at least masturbation to completion). Also, if you like porn, and there's nothing wrong with porn, consider how much hardcore you consume. Too much of that re-wires your brain(s) IMHO. If you watch hardcore porn, then you also need to do hardcore sex, since that's what is going to arouse you. Some guys think a 2 week hiatus from hardcore is enough. I think 5 weeks is needed.
I've done some longer than 1 hour sessions too but usually the woman cries uncle at that point (too many orgasms for her). Most of those sessions have been in odd areas of the house (especially her place when I'm not there much) or risque places in public. It keeps things new and fresh
But for the record I always last until the end. Every time.
Being made to wear condoms has a benefit.
I can last longer. It takes awhile without actual penetration for me.
Now, as an old guy, I occasionally do pop fast, but it still usually takes over ten minutes of concentration to bust a nut (sometimes after 30 minutes -or more - I run out of energy before I get there and either the lady does all the work or I am left hanging).
I know that's not the norm - and it costs me extra at strip clubs where the dancer expects to get a customer off in one - or at most - two songs. My last SC visit, it took a talented dancer over 4 (mostly uncut) songs to obtain some of my high-protein discharge from a BBBJ-CIM. Sexual "stamina" can be expensive.
SJG
Doing it till completion is in my mind a kind of specialty thing.
SJG