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10 years ago
When the sex is planned ahead -- i.e., a date with an escort -- I tend to have protection on hand, just in case she hasn't brought any. I've yet to see that happen, but you never know. However, if a BBBJ is on the table, I'm not going to argue. I enjoy them too much.
The one time I did go BBFS with a stripper -- with anyone, in fact -- she did give me a gift that kept on giving. Luckily, a shot in the butt and a couple of pills cleared that up real quick. Why did I agree to the BBFS? Because I was stupid; I let myself get caught up in the moment. Yeah. It's not gonna happen again.
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10 years ago
Papi and Rick both have really good points. A lot of dancers won't do any OTC, and you should set goals for both your money and your time with this dancer. If you're enjoying her company and what she offers now, no sense in pushing her; you could just wind up pushing her away. And who knows? Maybe you just haven't reached her comfort level for something like that yet. Maybe sometime she'll need a ride home, or she might be up for lunch, too. A more innocent time outside of the club could give both of you a better perspective and a better chance on all of this. (Geez, that's sounding a big SJG.)
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10 years ago
Yeah, that first one, the girl's performing for the camera, not for the guy. Sort of wonder if he started texting again after she got off his lap. Didn't get to see the second one; stupid Google password isn't working.
While I agree that some dancers probably prefer the reverse-cowgirl position when it comes to lapdancing so they don't have to make eye contact, so it's less personal, and all that, I always figured a big reason was so they could keep an eye on the surrounding traffic, scope out other PLs who are spending more money than the one she's currently with.
Bumped into a dancer I hadn't seen in probably five years last night. While I enjoyed her company and her dances in prior years, last night was a lot more fun, largely because she was in a lot more of a devil-may-care mood than I ever remember her being in. She pulled up my shirt, rubbed her hands and her breasts on my chest. (Apparently she enjoys the skin-to-skin contact a lot.) She was also planting a lot of kisses on my mouth, my cheeks, my ears, and my neck. And one of the biggest turn-ons for me was her talking so quietly, so close to my ear. It wasn't a lot of sexual stuff -- nuts, it was mostly a lot of normal, coffee conversation -- but she also has one of those smoky voices, sort of like Angie Harmon and Emma Stone, that get me going. Mind you, this is a club that has a pretty strict No Touching policy, and she's never been this...overt before. Not that I'm arguing, no; in fact, I was pleasantly surprised.
Another dancer I know in the Twin Cities, one of my ATFs actually, works at a club that also has a Hands Off policy. The girls are allowed to touch -- within reason -- but the guys aren't. She tends to kiss the ear a bit, sometimes even sticks her tongue in it. But the thing she probably does best is the dirty talk. We've gotten into some pretty raunchy back-and-forth, and it's always when she's up close, talking right into my ear. Have to admit, she also gives a damn good neck and shoulder massage, professional grade; it's sometimes a way she introduces herself.
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10 years ago
It doesn't have to be pictures of all of her, just some of the more fun areas...which is sounding like the whole package. But if you do get some pics, make sure she's holding up a copy of this thread so we know the pics are legit!
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10 years ago
"Custie" just sounds annoying, but, like with every other industry, jargon's going to develop, whether we like it or not. For the civilian world, I prefer "guest" or "patron," for escorts "hobbyists," and for strip clubs "monger."
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10 years ago
Optimists believe this is the best of all possible worlds.
Pessimists fear this is true.
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10 years ago
A lot of dancers and escorts in Canada seem to go with the over-sized implants. Add in that they tend to be rock solid, and they become very unappealing. Yeah, here's another vote for "au natural."
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10 years ago
Good luck, man.
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10 years ago
Grossest thing that I saw in a strip club was at a higher-end club in the Twin Cities -- some asshole had wiped his shit all over the toilet seat. Thankfully, my bladder understood well why I wanted to wait, and luckily, it didn't faze the bathroom valet as much as it did me. The valet got a good tip after that.
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10 years ago
Alabegonz, you're still her lap dog? When you went quiet for a while there, I had hoped that you got away from her, but it sounds like you haven't. Please, learn from the mistakes of these other guys -- and RUN!
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10 years ago
I don't think I've ever thought of physical details so specific as to define an "ideal woman." A few women have taken my breath away, and, even years later, with even just a passing thought, they can bring a smile to my face. I guess that'll have to be my definition of an ideal woman.
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10 years ago
Maybe she has to post something about the PL she was just with.
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10 years ago
I wonder if a big part of the reason they scan the ID is to make sure it isn't fake.
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10 years ago
I bumped into a few dancers at a bookstore I used to work at in the Twin Cities. It didn't feel too awkward with the dancers I hung out with at the club, but for some reason, it did with the dancers I didn't know that well. Bumped into another dancer at a comic-book shop I worked at; turned out that her boyfriend was one of our regular customers.
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10 years ago
One of four things off the top of my head:
1) Shrug then tell her, "No big. I just got diagnosed with HIV today." Then add with a serious, deadpan face, "Just kidding."
2) Pull out the cell phone and tell her, "Thanks for reminding me. The wife took one of the kids in today. It sorta looks like chicken pox, but we aren't sure."
3) Tell her a close friend or relative is doing missionary work there and he's contracted ebola.
4) Just tell her it wasn't funny and to move along. She just lost a customer.
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10 years ago
I imagine condom wrappers are the official bookmarkers for the Book of John Smith.
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10 years ago
IronFox, the best way to play safe in AMPs that I can think of is to do your research first. One, as SJG suggested, is Rubmaps. A couple others I use are eroticmp and TER (you have to be a member to see massage girl reviews on TER). You'll need to set your bullshit detector on high with them, though. For instance, one clown reviewed a local therapist as giving extras, but, as I've experienced and some other posters have attested to, she's never done anything of the sort. If you have some trusted buddies who also hobby, check with them.
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10 years ago
Yeah, but the cops will probably want to bust at least a couple of customers to "send a message." It's all going to depend on the cops, the lawyers involved, what was going on in the other rooms, if it's a political season, and just someone's mood. Play carefully, and have fun.
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10 years ago
It doesn't matter to me if she swallows. I'm just happy she's making the effort.
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10 years ago
Last year, a dancer gave me a long, paced out story of her life -- her loser husband was a shithead; he was emotionally abusive to her; he drained her bank account dry; he was the son of a local sheriff, so she couldn't do anything; she, her two sons, and her mother were now living off the grid with some friends, trying to get away from him.
As I was driving her back home after our OTC date, she told me that what she wanted to do was move back to her home state, but it'd take about $2000 to do that, which sounded about right. But her voice also had that small hinting tone to it. I told her, "Wow. Good luck with that." She didn't bring it up again.
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10 years ago
Do any of the other local strip clubs photocopy your ID as well? Have there been any LE problems at any other local strip clubs? It could be something new that the local LE is asking them to do, or it could be some new anti-SC ordinance by some overly moralistic politician who's trying to discourage and shut down SCs.
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10 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Slick, thanks for reminding me -- that's another series of books I need to read!
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10 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
One dancer in Fargo was dressed in some nice Daisy Dukes -- the short, cut-off jeans and the flannel shirt tied in front. After the dance, she had problems putting the shirt back on; she couldn't figure out how it went back on. To this day, I'm still hoping she was just acting, but somehow I have my doubts.
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10 years ago
Slick, that reminds me of a signature I've seen on another forum:
"I like my women like I like my swing dancing -- fast, loose, and airborne."
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10 years ago
Okay, I'm definitely going to have to hit a strip joint this week to get those images out of my head.