STD protection: Are you taking a risk?

When I've gone bareback in life, which happens more often with civie than with strippers for me, it's because I wasn't really expecting it to happen and then it does, and I get too caught up in the exhilaration to think about the consequences. But (knock on wood) clean so far.

I'll throw in with my own experience. I've only gone bareback once and that was the first time I ever got a bj in a VIP. It was the thrill of the moment. The girl offered to do it as part of getting a private dance, and neither of us had a condom. It was a rotten experience. She was too rough, used too much teeth and ended up spitting all over the place (even on me) when I finished. The next day, little Carlos was bright red and sore. I assumed the worst but found out my skin had erupted because the dancer was so damn aggressive. I ended up having to soak in a bathtub for an hour each night after work and applied a lotion to get to fully healed. I took the experience as a warning.

I don't t do bareback uncovered at least not with a stripper. Not even with the DS. I do receive oral uncovered from several dancers and I give oral to the DS only. While oral a not no risk, it is much lower risk. Never had any problem with oral uncovered.

I honestly can't cum with a cover on. Never could. Feels horrible to me.

Therefore, don't use them.

You're on the right track, Carlos. Guys with my self-confessed "personality damage" do this for these reasons: We have trouble seeing beyond the immediate moment. We have trouble feeling anything, so up'ing the risk gives us a brief, but fleeting feeling of something. I just don't care if I am putting my wife at risk! It's all about me! I also know that I can tell just by looking to and talking to a hooker if she has an STD or not. I also know that people like me are too good to catch STDs. Finally - an inductive proof, I did before and didn't catch anything, so I know that it is safe, providing I do some screening like asking the girl if she is clean.

Almost missed one: Most guys aren't skilled enough to run The System like I do. So when I pay a hooker for sex, you can be sure that I am one of very select group of guys she is having paid sex with. Typically they only have sex with about 1 in 10,000 people who ask them. The System allows me to make the cut!

I never use condoms with a civi but I never have sex with complete strangers either. I figure women who take a month before we have sex are a pretty safe bet, as am I for them. Never had an STD and I do get checked from time to time. With sex workers it's a different story. I'll have a BBBJ but if it's FS a condom is a must. That being said, I've gone BB with women who I didn't know were sex workers until later! LOL

Carlos, you need to mentor the girls about how to give a blow job. That's what strip clubbing is all about -- mentoring. Also bring tissues for her to spit in. Dancers just seem incapable of that simple step

Seriously though receiving oral is low risk. They say you could get herpes1 but most people already have it. My wife has hsv1 and I haven't caught it in decades of marriage. Just don't go with a dancer that has a visible sore on her lips. The other stuff is easily treatable with simple antibiotics in the unlikely event you catch it. I've had dozens of uncovered bjs from strippers and never had an issue. I used to worry about every bump or blemish but no actual problems ever. As a practical matter you can't catch HIV from receiving a blow job.

Just avoid the girls that suck every dick that walks in the door. You want a dancer who is selective and takes some time and money before she will do it. Unless of course she is your dream stripper in which case she only sucks you.

If you research this on line ignore the generic medical descriptions on line which say that you can catch every std from every possible sex act without evaluating relative risk. If we listened to those, we'd limit ourselves to lapgasms. Instead read web sites that go into specifics of actual risk for various sex acts. You'll find a Bbbj low risk, and worth that tiny risk from the right girl.

I can't count the number of times this has been brought up on the discussion board but you can probably count the number of stories of customers that caught an STD from a stripper one 1 hand. I equate this to the fact that most guys are using condoms for intercourse and secondly that strippers share the same concerns about getting STDs.

I know of one stripper that caught chlamydia from a customer a few years ago, got treated and now I have no problems getting uncovered BJs from her or any other dancer at the clubs I go to.

Before I got married and AIDS came on the scene I had unprotected sex with prostitutes in Mexico, Japan, Germany, Denmark and right here at home and never got anything. I'll be 73 next month and getting an STD from unprotected intercourse with a stripper is the least of my concerns. Getting it up and keeping it up if I find a willing dancer are far more important and wearing a condom damn sure is not going to help that. So I do go bare back when ever I do get the opportunity. You younger guys with more to lose should just use some common sense.

As others have mentioned – i.e.:

+ most custies do not bareback either b/c they don’t feel it’s safe; and just as, or more, likely, b/c the dancer won’t go there (although a small minority will)

+ as JS69 said – not all sex is equal w.r.t. STDs (oral vs vaginal) – especially if you are the receiver instead of the giver (w.r.t. oral)

+ having sex with a STD positive person does not guarantee getting infected; the rates of transmission are actually rather low based on the STD – not saying this is a reason to do it; but more of what some may use as a rationale

+ as shadow mentioned – also depends where you are in life – if you are a young single guy hoping to get married and start a family; not a good idea to take the chance – if you are an older guy and don’t have young children dependent on you; then some may be more willing to take the risk

+ another rationale barebackers may use is that w/ today’s drug therapies; it’s not an automatic quick death if one gets an STD and many people seem to live long and healthy lives under meds – not saying this is justification; just a rationale some may use

Thanks for the feedback, everyone! Lots of good information.

I advise using a condom on every conceivable occassion.

Your a retard carlospaceweener and your a retard rickdugan. Your both gonna get a disease an have your dick fall off jes like those retards Dougster and crazyjoe and that mikeya02 retard that always kisses Juice ass. Mikey02 prolly caught his disease from Juice and Juice prolly caut it from that retard zipman68. No way that retard zipman68 has a dick.

And your a retard motorhed cuz my mommie told me that condons dont work. They just keep your dick on your body like a rubber band but its still fall off.

All my posts have made me immune to almost all diseases, Ebola, most viruses, etc. Plus having alternative universe DNA, things don't affect me like a typical human. However when I visit sick people in your churches, I usually avoid shaking hands. That is just sick making that a custom. It's like asking thousands of people to die each year because it's tradition and it's better to kill thousands of people each year rather than being rude by not shaking hands and spreading deadly illnesses. Some people probably thought I was rude but who knows how many lives I saved already. I take precautions when I plan ahead.

When the sex is planned ahead -- i.e., a date with an escort -- I tend to have protection on hand, just in case she hasn't brought any. I've yet to see that happen, but you never know. However, if a BBBJ is on the table, I'm not going to argue. I enjoy them too much.

The one time I did go BBFS with a stripper -- with anyone, in fact -- she did give me a gift that kept on giving. Luckily, a shot in the butt and a couple of pills cleared that up real quick. Why did I agree to the BBFS? Because I was stupid; I let myself get caught up in the moment. Yeah. It's not gonna happen again.