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10 years ago
It can happen... has to me! Beendating my ATF for 2years. She texts me EVERY morning and we keep in touch throught the day. It's not about money...that ran out long time ago. She still stays with me...I guess there is something to say about making a connection despite many differences in our lives. She graduates college next month and I will attend with her family. Yes, it can work!
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10 years ago
$1000 for a full overnight at her place...waking up next to her was worth it!
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10 years ago
I am known for my soft touch, as well as being a great kisser! I also give great back-rubs which are much loved by the dancers.
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10 years ago
thanks for the definition ,,,,
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10 years ago
OK..i hear all your points but I was not played.I had $40 to my name that night. Not quite enough for her to get rich. Her friend, my old favorite was very into my ability to make her cum. we did many OTC for no extra money. She was addicted to my tongue and touch. Most OTC took place in her house (n9 need for hotel room fees)... she was so into it she once came into the LD room to tell the dancer I was with how good I was. the new one has already set up an OTC at her place and promised not to tell the old one. I have to tell you I am old, overweight, not at all goodlooking, but I know how to please. She actually said she was surprised to find out how good I ws because I sure didn't look it. A long time ago, Richard Pryor said in his comedy routine, If you make a girl have a screaming Orgasm, you own her ass. It's true... but guys it has to be a real orgasm.... you should learn to tell the real from the fake. another thing to learn is anatomy...get familiar with that area. and be gentle... By the way being a good kisser helps.
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11 years ago
Worse thing is to be very good at it. The girls do talk and I was declared the best ever. Now I'm expected to eat every one...been able to do it in lap dance room saving me time and money. My reputation has spread to other clubs...its like being a celebrity when I enter..lots of finger pointing. Now I am not good looking at all I am old and fat..but I can lick a great pussy!
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11 years ago
Her name wasn't Veronica was it?
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11 years ago
One of my ATFs has the most sensitive asshole...the club has so many rules and cameras I still seem to be able to get a finger in up to the knuckle as she cum s like crazy. To experience this you ignore any health problems... just thought you'd like to know. I have had my tongue in a few...gets you lots of extras.
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11 years ago
Ok...been there done that was out plenty...told her there is no money left (after a 10 month relationship). Told her she was just a heartless prostitute...she blocked my number. Then a week ago she contacts me out of the clear blue sky...and wants to be with me again. No money was talked about...she wants to take me out for my birthday! I am just waiting for the load of SS that will come. But she knows the ATM is empty. WTF is she up to? Let me say this girl is one of the Hottest women in NYC! She texts meevery morning and thtoughout the day and every night before bed. I am aware of whatcould happen and am watching outfor it. I'm just very confused.
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11 years ago
I'm still amazed you guys pay for OTC from your ATF. Ihave never paid for OTC, if you do you might as well get a real Hooker for a lot less. And just for you to know, I am 61 and definatly not goodlooking. But I do know how to please a woman. Lets just say giving a dancer an orgasm duringa lap dance means another free OTC experience.
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11 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
You guys are missing out on one of the best part of a lap dance....making the dancer cum. I have done it so often I have a reputation. I can just pay for one or two LD, but get a lot more. I make them cum each and every time. There is nothing better than leaving the LDroom with your girl drenched in sweat
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11 years ago
I firmly agree with Bullwinkle...any relationship that starts with $100 bills has nowhere to go. My ATF was like that...addicted to Xanax and Alcohol. I tried to fix her, but didn't work. I finally cut off her $100 bill supply... she has actually become a prostitute to make up my lack of support. Last I heard she was gang raped by 10 guys at a bachelor party at the SC. From what I heard, she collected the money and went right back to work doing unprotected extras in the VIP. $40 BJ...$60 full service. What a
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11 years ago
Usually a sign of a well used vag ... especially if darker Color and ragged at the edges. Also means a lot of unprotected rough sex. Your choice but a dangerous game to play.
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11 years ago
I have had some dancers who would remember my name, that I was looking for a new job, and what I liked to do...after a 4 week vacation. When that happens I tip them a $20, just because it 's nice to just be remembered.
You can also play this to your advantage...tell them "oh yeah, I remember you, you gave me that great BBBJ for $60! You were great" see where that goes?
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11 years ago
Me...and proud of it. I may be a whale but I just speared a fine finish... Eat your heart out
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11 years ago
I have heard it too often. My former ATF swore she truly loved me. It ended poorly told her she was just a cheap crack whore. Told her to go back to her bf.... well two weeks later the L word pops back into her daily text messages. She says she really meant it and was sorry she went back to her bf. I have to say though she is one of the hottest looking women in NYC. Its going to take all my strength to NOT take this girl back. She uses the L word very well... most guys think I'm nuts for giving her up. To top it off...she now wants to pay for all the dinners she wants us to have. Help me guys!!!
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11 years ago
I'm 61.... my current ATF is 21 (11 months together). I have two other regulars, one 35the other 26. I just like them young, firm and energetic. I keep being asked when we go out if she is my daughter..when I say she is my girlfriend...I usually get a hi 5 and a the comment "damn she is hotter"... I like that.
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11 years ago
Try Gabriella...very nice 9.5/10.
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11 years ago
You guys pay for OTC? WTF! The whole idea is to make it very intimate and personal. Money changing Hans just cheapens the experience. At my regular club, I have a very good reputation for being a good lover and I get offers weekly for OTC trysts for free. Otherwise it's no better than getting a Hooker!
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11 years ago
I felt it was over when she called the cops on my phone saying I was raping her!
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11 years ago
Well I have a very special lady. When I was laid off, she NEVER charged me for dances, saying she was keeping me on an IOU! After 8 weeks I asked her how much I owed. She said she wasn't really keeping track and just said "you'll do well by me!" I gave her $1000, which was a bargain..24 nights/ 20+ dances a night. She said it was too much. Now every visit we do dances to warm up to the VIP. 2 hours of LDs for $100. I usually spend 3 hours in her arms...Never any paid extras...and she has more than 3 orgasms! It is a total win - win for both of us. That is what I would expect from a REAL ATF! To top it off we always go out for a late dinner, she pays. I would consider this the ultimate negotiation on price.
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11 years ago
Well...It all depends on the bonds they form. When I had my stroke and was in the hospital in NYC. My stripped friends from Orlando came to visit me. ALL 6 ! I hadn't seenthem in years and most I never ever tipped! It was the friendship that was started years before that made them truly concerned about me. I still keep in touch with all of them and attended one wedding. You have to remember guys...strippers ARE woman, and appreciate it if you treat them with kindness and respect. By the way I am glad they came as a group...it was easier to explain them to my wife...LOL
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11 years ago
"Descreet Kitty flashing" ? You've got to be kidding me? N
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11 years ago
OK... at the present time I am dating 2 strippers. One is a 21 year old ... at least a 9 1/2! The other is a 35 year 7! I must tell you I am 61!!! I look at them from different points of view. The 21 year old is pure eye candy...she at one time was with Rapper Chris Brown, so you can guess what she looks like. For some wild reason, she is madly in love with me. We go out at least 3 times a week in public...not at clubs. I have had family dinners with her and her Mom and younger brother! She wants me to move in with her and talks about getting engaged. The 35 year old "dances" to pay her grad school tuition (PhD)... and has the greatest personality. I am totally in love with her. Now..it's her BRAIN I love.... and the 21 year old' s BODY that I crave! What to do? I broke the cardinal rule of dating...I told them about each other! But it seemed to work in my favor... COMPITITION! They each try to out do each other to my advantage. Anyway. Dating a working stripped is hard. Dating 2 is harder. You do have to understand that this is how they earn their money...the FLIRT for a living. Sometimes providing a little extras too. Get used to it or get out. If you are jealous you won't be able to handle it...you just have to realize it's her job and she will go home with you. At my age I haven'ttime for games. They both satisfy my needs but from different directions. So for as long as I can, I'm just enjoying the ride!
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12 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Well for me...my ATF has multiple orgasms with all our VIP sessions. I seem to really turn her on. She isn't faking it at all...I have many pairs of pants with overly wet thighs...she also soaks the couch. Just to get specific, none of this has to do with riding a stiff cock. It's all in the touch. I don't like nor care for the overly energetic simulated sex bouncing most dancers do...I enjoy the more holding/caressing type of lapdance. So by the end of the dance she is also soaked in sweat, not from physical activity but from her orgasmic response. We also have an ongoing 8 month OTC relationship...
So guys... be more romantic and sensuous to your dancer... you will be rewarded in full...I promise you that. If you can't pop your rocks after a dancer grabs you tight and says she's Cumming. .. you must be dead!