Dating a stripper
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I've been lurking around Stripper Web for a few days and noticed a common complaint. Guys coming into the club thinking they can take a stripper home. I've also noticed guys here talking about the same thing. Hell, I'll even admit that I've thought about that more now than I used to. I think that I know the reason why. The fantasy of a strip club for me always was about spending time with a girl that I would never be able to get out in the real world. In today's clubs there are a lot more strippers that are 5's to 7's and very few 9's and 10's. Where in the early 90's there were more 9's and 10's. With the fewer 9's and 10's I end up spending time with the 5's to 7's. In the real world I have no problem attracting this level of civi girl, so why should I have a problem getting a stripper of this level. Have you guys noticed this trend?
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Do you just toss your hat on the floor and then EVERY woman around just SWOONS and comes running to date you?
Usually doesn't work that way as much as you might imagine it does.
I agree with your first statement to a certain degree. But where does that sense of entitlement come from. You would think it would be less seeing that more women work to support their families now and have been a different type of role model for the younger men of today.
I think you guys are missing my point. Where have the 9's and 10's gone? The clubs used to be loaded with them. Now it seems there's just a couple in each club. At least in my area.
What they love is their kids (multiple baby dad daddys), themselves, their drugs, their crazy friends, their deadbeat boy friend who knocked her up so he can sit his ass home
My best guess is that the biggest reason most women don't want to be strippers is they think it will ruin their chances of settling down with a decent guy. The second biggest reason is having to lead a double life. The third biggest reason is having to deal with a lot of obnoxious behavior, even more than what a waitress deals with.
9-10 very uncommon now
there are strippers all over the world, US strippers are used to having their pussys on a pedestal beware. In order to bang a stipper on a regular basis you need to be a bonafied stud or have sic $. talk to them calmly seem uninterested chill at the bar, watch them pay attention don't blow your wad on the first plasic fantastic peace of ass u see, then grab there head insert wang into ear and find the soft spot ten begin, you have to mind fuck them hard.JK, kind of some like good dope if u got it, maby try to get inbetwwen to girls that don't like eachother make them jealous to fight for you. States is wack u probably have better luck in pattaya Thailand.
Think it's more basic then that. Most women don't want to take their clothes off in front of men, or rub their asses against, or get groped by or do extras for guys they don't find attractive. Let's not overthink it.
ranukam has talked about a bit, but even for him, he seems to be look more for a FB arrangement than any serious kind of dating.
I Fuck 4,5,6
I rent 7,8,9
I don't.believe in 10
That's a good one!
Most strippers will date either 1)someone worse off than them (to make them feel superior either $$ or status-wise) or 2) someone with a lot of $$ that can allow them to work when they want (in the hopes that this sugardaddy will marry them)
DATING a stripper requires a specific mind-set than dating any other woman. Most strippers have low self-esteem, and as the boyfriend, it is up to you to argue every day with them about how pretty they are.
two things happened in the late 90s early 2000s to cause our new dilemma
there are fewer 10s stripping because of VIP, private dances, extras.
most HOT 10s were completely fine with stage dances and air dances at your table. (look but don't touch) Once VIP and crazy friction lap dances and extras came into play, a lot of these hotties said fuck it and left the business.
T-Pain released "I'm in love with a stripper" which apparently made it a mandate for every rapper and every rapper-wannabe to have a stripper for a girlfriend as part of their flashy-car, pit-bull owning rapper status.
so a lot of the 10s are either taken or tired of being courted by every wannabe out there.
I could easily hook up with some dancers but it would be a nightmare. I typically would not even talk to them away from a club and do not even want any dances from them when I see them in a club. I believe some in looks are about the same as some women I see at work that have made suggestions that they would like to get to know me better. I have not gone for any of them. It has been a couple of years since I had a non dancer come up to me and asked to have sex without even introducing herself. I think getting a date would be easy if I went along with whatever else they wanted. I haven't met too any ten's. They almost always already have boyfriends and if they are a dancer, have lots of guys drooling all over them willing to pay their higher than normal dance prices.
Leave all the date crap on the other web site. I get turned off if a dancer starts talking about dating. Of course when a girl comes up to you and wants to have sex without even knowing your name or introducing herself, there is a trust issue as far as I am concerned. Unkess she is a drop dead 10, I will wonder if that is all she wants or if it's a setup to be robbed or if she has sexual diseases or if it is sex revenge on a jealous boyfriend or potentially angry significant other or if she might be a working girl who will want cash later on.
Of course, they're all younger now. :)
Having a few more drinks will make the 5-7's look more 9-10ish.......... (Couldn't resist this)
No understanding how to really manipulate do you...
I think most TUSCLers already know how the game is played and “dating†a stripper is not really the way to go since in reality what you really want to do is fuck them.
But I think those that ask dancers for dates are resorting to what guys always and have always done when around beautiful women; i.e. try to hook up with them. That has always been the case whether in a regular club/bar; high school; etc. It’s just that guys know they can’t just (normally) come out and say “can I fuck you†and instead will ask for a “date†in hopes of getting into her pants.
BTW props to Berge1, I like your style. If I was ever single I'd be doing the same thing!