When Has An OTC Relationship "Run It's Course"?
tenisbum1776
Lopaw made an interesting comment in the "Strippers Are People Too" thread. His comment concerned OTC relationships that have "run their course".
What are some of the signs that an OTC relationship has run it's course? I'm sure this is a very individualistic timetable but I'm guessing there are some common signs that most everyone will agree signals the end is closer than the beginning.
Personally, I'm still nurturing my first OTC relationships but it never hurts to be prepatred for the future.
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last commentWhen you get tired of fucking her and want to fuck a new whores instead. It's not rocket science. Well maybe for you it's is tenishomo.
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When giving your money goes from being a joy to a burden......
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When she smashes your headlight with a liquor bottle.
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tenisbum1776-
You are aware that Lopaw is a girl, right? I see that you wrote "his" when referring to her post.
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@tennisbum, Lowpaw is a split-tail, not a man whore. Don't piss her off or she'll never go OTC with you, or your girlfriend.
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When you show up?
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this thread should have stopped at dougsters comment. nuff said!
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Stanlee,you related to Sara.
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Wow! A rough tough Tuesday.
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I'm with Dougster. When it becomes boring to fuck a hot young stripper, you have to move on. Another sign is when she starts to take you for granted and treats you like an ATM.
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I find it occurs in steps. First, you get sick of the money demands, next your desire for the pussy goes down, lastly, when the drama/games/mind fucking goes over the top. I had to blow my last OTC off with the daily 4:00 am phone calls! It became much more trouble that it was worth!
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Its when they say,;I went to the movies w a friend,I went to breakfast w a friend,I went to dinner w a friend.Time to look out the back of that C=3,grab your balls and jump.
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Sorry, I didn't know Lopaw was a woman. Thousand pardons.
The money demands start almost immediately don't they. I find myself in a near constant situation of "forward paying" for future services. They've always squared the account - so far.
Had one of my favs call me today. She started the conversation by saying "you're not gonna believe what happened to me today!". I immediately cut her off and said, "Honey the back right tire on my car blew out. Can you front me $300 to get it fixed? I'll pay you next week when we have our fun time". The silence was near deafening. Finally in a meek questioning tone she said, "Are you serious?" Had to laugh and wonder whether the subtile message got through?
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Yeah, tenisbum1776, I hear ya. Sadly, often the monetary demands they make will have me kicking them to the curb long before I'm tired of them sexually. But happily there is usually someone standing by to take her place.
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LOL tenis.
That is one of the best ways to deflect stripper drama – throw some of your drama (real or imaginary) back at them – they won’t know how what hit them or how to react. The first and foremost thing they want is our money – the last thing they want is any of our drama – they already got plenty of their own.
That was a shrewd move.
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T=bum! You did'nt know Lopaw is a woman? Tell the truth, you paid the $300 for her tire. Tbum=Drac.
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@tumbling - who is sara?
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For me the end came when another dancer from her club told me that my fav had threatened her if she spent any time with me. She doesn't own me, my wallet or my time.
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How do you know when you are hungry or thirsty?
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Simple, when what you're getting isn't worth what you're giving.
Just like any other transaction.
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I don't run courses, I use a golf cart
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right on GMD!
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When you are no longer having fun, or worse... she say that 'you don't seem to be enjoying this as much as before' (and then you realize the expiration date has already passed).
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My sign is a bilateral lack of engagement and enthusiasm.
"She doesn't own me, my wallet or my time"
Only if you let her gawker.
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Will someone break it down 4 stanlee
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Ex. Will you check out! How do you know when you have to piss.
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First, you no longer enjoying spending money on her for anything outside the club and spending on her inside the club. The fun and excitement are waning. You feel taken for granted and unappreciated. You find yourself bored with the conversations you once found interesting. You really don't look forward to seeing her in the club, BUT, you are developing more interest to see the other entertainers at the club. You want new experiences and fresh conversation. This is the beginning of the end of a club relationship. So sad!
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When they try to pressure you for more money or drama gets in the way of good sex. Usually these are signs her pimp is pressuring her to get you to pay more money. This can also be some bum she is supporting.
A good otc girl is positive, loves the sex, and not high pressure. She will offer discounts on sessions like itc or first at 200 then any more that week at 100.
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By the way, there should be no apostrophe in "its" as it's used in that title.
Just sayin'.
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I got it. Time to call things off when she stops giving you free bj's.
It's kind of hard to talk to her and break things off with her when her mouth is full.
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@victor2 Why the hell should you feel unappreciated? She's your sex business partner, not your fuck buddy, not your girlfriend. Do you guys forget that your paying her for sex and that alone (though some of you pay for conversation which should be free)? Making you feel appreciated isn't apart of the verbal contract. Giving up the vagina is. I think the problem is from what I read is that you guys also are looking for a girlfriend in a pay for play. Your paying to play. She's not offering you dinner, or taking you to meet her parents or asking you to comfort her during a thunderstorm. Do people forget this shit once they hook line and sink these OTCs or am I missing something?
Personally, I agree with dougster. Its time to cut her loose when your simoly bored with her, like any non marriage relationship (if your the traditional marraige type)
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I felt it was over when she called the cops on my phone saying I was raping her!
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Christ, what the fuck is up with this tenishomo guy, generally, anyway? Look at the topics he posts. "When has an OTC relationship run its course"? Yeah, like it's a "relationship" to begin with. Clue in, dumbfuck. Then his brilliant discovery that it is not wise to lend a stripper money unless you are willing to kiss it goodbye. Yeah, brilliant, again. Clue in, dumbfuck.
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Well Dougster, it is a "relationship". It might be a business relationship, or a pathetic one, but it is in fact a relationship. Just not what most people would call a "normal", "healthy" or even "moral" one.
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George, yeah, "maybe" that's all he meant. Just like "maybe" he isn't a homo either.
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