When Has An OTC Relationship "Run It's Course"?
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Lopaw made an interesting comment in the "Strippers Are People Too" thread. His comment concerned OTC relationships that have "run their course".
What are some of the signs that an OTC relationship has run it's course? I'm sure this is a very individualistic timetable but I'm guessing there are some common signs that most everyone will agree signals the end is closer than the beginning.
Personally, I'm still nurturing my first OTC relationships but it never hurts to be prepatred for the future.
What are some of the signs that an OTC relationship has run it's course? I'm sure this is a very individualistic timetable but I'm guessing there are some common signs that most everyone will agree signals the end is closer than the beginning.
Personally, I'm still nurturing my first OTC relationships but it never hurts to be prepatred for the future.
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You are aware that Lopaw is a girl, right? I see that you wrote "his" when referring to her post.
The money demands start almost immediately don't they. I find myself in a near constant situation of "forward paying" for future services. They've always squared the account - so far.
Had one of my favs call me today. She started the conversation by saying "you're not gonna believe what happened to me today!". I immediately cut her off and said, "Honey the back right tire on my car blew out. Can you front me $300 to get it fixed? I'll pay you next week when we have our fun time". The silence was near deafening. Finally in a meek questioning tone she said, "Are you serious?" Had to laugh and wonder whether the subtile message got through?
That is one of the best ways to deflect stripper drama – throw some of your drama (real or imaginary) back at them – they won’t know how what hit them or how to react. The first and foremost thing they want is our money – the last thing they want is any of our drama – they already got plenty of their own.
That was a shrewd move.
Just like any other transaction.
"She doesn't own me, my wallet or my time"
Only if you let her gawker.
A good otc girl is positive, loves the sex, and not high pressure. She will offer discounts on sessions like itc or first at 200 then any more that week at 100.
Just sayin'.
It's kind of hard to talk to her and break things off with her when her mouth is full.
Personally, I agree with dougster. Its time to cut her loose when your simoly bored with her, like any non marriage relationship (if your the traditional marraige type)