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13 years ago
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edd48beverly hills california
I hear what you're saying. I can honestly understand any man saying that since I think the majority of paying customers want a good looking, In shape woman to look at.
I must point out ,though, the few occasions when I've been surprisingly turned down by a customer because I wasn't big enough or old enough.
Me: " Would you like to come play with me?"
Customer: " No I prefer older women"
Me: (lying thinking this was what he wanted) " I'm 33"
Customer: "I prefer women over 45...and you are not 33"
Me: (lying again) " I am 33. These lights are very forgiving. And I'm the oldest one here"
Customer: " Well ok, I guess I can give you a try. Do you know of anyplace around that has women in there 40's or 50's?"
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13 years ago
Hmm I don't know what to make of that.
It might have to do with the 2 for 1. A lot of girls really hate those.
Now you know to avoid her from now on.
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13 years ago
I have to comment in this one because I have some insight. I'm a dancer and I get to see other dancers in the bright lights of a locker room (not always a pleasure).
I'm going out on a limb with my honesty so don't persecute me too much for this guys.
Some dancers have way too many zits. Many of the dancers that have these Major blemishes are the same ones I have to call the manager on because they have locked themselves in the bathroom and then passed out from shooting up drugs. It's amazing what abusing oxys and heroin do to the skin.
BUT..I've seen some truly amazing, gorgeous girls, including myself (if I may say so) that have a slight complexion problem at times. While I've never had body acne, I think I can speak for dancers when I say that before I started dancing I had a perfect complexion. However, wearing heavy makeup, sweating on stage, and the stale and windowless abyss of a stripclub has a major effect on skin. Not to mention how much traveling I have done. Traveling to new clubs to work and the time in airplanes is stressing to the female skin.
Soooo, I did what I recommend others do. I went and got a prescription for an oral antibiotic.
Now my skin is clear and smooth as it once was before I ventured into this job.
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13 years ago
I honestly am not sure how to answer your question. But you must be a decent human being to post this thread.
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13 years ago
It's sad when the risk of something like HIV is put in the same risk category as a possible motorcycle accident.
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13 years ago
Wow very classy thread. I'm not quite sure what we should get out of that. I wonder if payer11 would post this if his real name and city of residence was posted instead of a screen name?.
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13 years ago
Clubber is the man. ( and if you're not a man, I'm sorry). I agree with all his posts
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13 years ago
I agree with kappa_girl 100%
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13 years ago
I have one sleeve.
Half the men I dance for say they hate tattoos. The other half love them. But, nevertheless, they all end up saying that magic word, you know the one I'm talking about. The "yes" word.
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13 years ago
For a "well done" tattoo it will run anywhere between $125-225/HR. Some artists more expensive.
I don't think many worldly strip club goers would be surprised that dancers with tattoos make good money. I'm a top earner in all the clubs I dance at and I have a lot of tattoos. Yes they were expensive, I can afford them, and I get complimented on them continuously.
This "broke" dancer you're referring to needs to get her priorities straight. More than likely, though, she's just telling you she's broke to get a dance. For the record, I would not dance with a dancer that gives you the "I'm broke" line. That's just too desperate for my taste.
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13 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I always say" The more she does on the floor, the less she'll do in the VIP". The girls that rarely touch you on the floor can be the best ones in the VIP
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13 years ago
If a dancer asks you to prepay, she was probably screwed over earlier in the day...or lazy.
Ive had some guys insist on prepaying, usually in three song sets. Then when we're done they'll prepay another three.
I only ask a customer to prepay if they are an out of towner who speaks NO english ( or would like you to think that). Guys that do not speak english are notorious for getting multiple dances in a row, then when it comes time to pay, they don't understand you.
I've had multiple customers who can understand me before a dance but once its ended, they claim they can't understand me.
That's the only prepay scenario.
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13 years ago
Dancers that say unflattering things about another dancer to a customer are unprofessional and extremely insecure (and rightfully so in some instances).
Most of the time a dancer will say very flattering things about a girl onstage or otherwise. There are many dancers that have amazing assets and deserve to be complimented.
There was a dancer I worked with at a club in Washington. Very insecure girl and rightfully so. She would come up to me in the locker room and tell me what amazing boobs I had and that she wanted them. Always a compliment. Then a few customers had told me when I was onstage that she was giving unflattering, unsolicited advice about my personal life ( which she had no clue about) and that I was dirty un the VIP (again something she knew nothing about since I very rarely saw her in the VIP).
I wasn't the only girl she was talking about. She never got any dances. She was so insecure that instead of walking tall and flaunting the good features she did have, she badmouthed the other dancers and customers didn't want to hear it. She was a cute girl. She could have done better for herself.
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13 years ago
Girls that make a good living don't divulge it to the other dancers. If I'm asked I always downplay what I've made. I'd rather not be robbed after work by some girls pimp.
As for talking about customers, girls usually keep info about their regulars to themselves.
I have a lot of regulars.I have about four that I genuinely care about to the point where, if I weren't to see them again, Id think about them and hope their lives were okay. I definetly don't talk to anyone else about them
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13 years ago
Realist is right..100%...if she wants to quit she'll make the decision on her own. You two have only been together three months. If you love her, you gotta wait it out and focus on building your confidence. If you don't want to tell people what she does, that's your problem, not hers...
If she's responsible for her siblings, that's a big responsibility. Her main concern is them, not your fear about her job..If you're bringing her down with your insecurities, its not fair.
You're probably a great guy and I'm sure you care about her very much. You have to get over it!
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13 years ago
Yes they can and do..
If it bothers you that you're boyfriend goes to the club, find a new boyfriend. Chances of him changing are slim..if he's spending his own money, cool..whatever..if he's spending your money or joint money..not ok. You dance as a job to take money out of the club.your man should not be paying your counterparts.
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13 years ago
Yes they can and do..
If it bothers you that you're boyfriend goes to the club, find a new boyfriend. Chances of him changing are slim..if he's spending his own money, cool..whatever..if he's spending your money or joint money..not ok. You dance as a job to take money out of the club.your man should not be paying your counterparts.
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13 years ago
A veteran dancer will usually look at the customer. Some customers just want to hug though. In that case the mirrors all you got.
Women love to stare at themselves in the mirror. Especially when you have good makeup and a sparkly outfit and your skin is glowing under the dim light. My lipstick shines too and boy can it catch my eye..hehe
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13 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
And then those younger women get a few years on them and some mileage and the cycle starts over.
The key is not to dance forever. It's not a career. You shouldn't be dancing for thirty years. If you're still beautiful and in good shape and you'd like to work a few more years but you feel yourself getting bitter, take a break. If you've been smart with your money you should be able to afford to.
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13 years ago
And yes, if she's working in a club that offers a lot I'd extras usually, she should be aware that customers will want to touch her. If she's not ok with that she should tell you before the dance so your able to decide if you want to find another dancer or not
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13 years ago
Yes you have to be prepared for anything as a dancer. She might have been in a crappy mood too. If I'm in a crappy mood I don't come to work. Not everyone has that mentality though.
She probably didn't have half a brain.
She should have been honest. If a customer is doing something you don't like you should tell them in a polite way instead of going through a miserable dance. If I can't satisfy a customer i have no problem going to find a girl who will and sending her over to him.
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13 years ago
There's a customer for everyone and a dancer for everyone. Some girls like to be touched, some don't. Some customers like to be touched, some don't. I have a few regulars who like to sit on their hands, some who like to be punched, some who only want me to touch them with my feet, some who just want to smell my butt or my armpits or my feet. Fetishes are popular.
It's funny all I read about on here are customers who seem to want to put their mouths and hands all over. And trust me I get a lot of those..but truth is "fetish" customers make up a lot of the demographic also.
Maybe this dancer is better off serving a different type of client
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13 years ago
I must also add that I love Dougsters posts.
"strippers are whores. Whores exist to be fucked for the money".
I wasn't aware all strippers liked to be fucked for money, I thought some also did it for free. Are they still whores then?. Hehe..
But in all honesty, very funny posts. I can't say I take them seriously, but good posts.
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13 years ago
Being a dancer, I must agree with sasha. She probably make great money in the club and doesn't need to see you outside.
If your really interested in the girl though....Business is business. Offer her a thousand dollars an hour, no sex of course..you might get your wish.