Some Advice
Friday, April 8, 2011 9:21 PM
So, I start with saying over the past few weeks I have blown quite a bit of money (nothing that I can't afford, but more than I expected to). I guess this is natural but it's really alarming. Been spending time in VIP with one girl in particular - there's no actual sex involved here, but quite a lot of intimacy outside of that (HJs etc). Its a good time, and I got this girl's number. We have been texting every now and then, sometimes just to see when she's working, etc. But ultimately I have had goals of taking things OTC. Now obviously I have her number, which she gave me on her own will basically but whenever we discuss anything it really just amounts to a 'maybe' I am sure she gets this a lot, she's the hottest girl in the club (in my opinion, and many other guys there, judging how sought after she is). So I can't help but think she is really just leading me on here into spending money on her in the club only. Judge me all you want here but to be the truthful I am not even really seeking sex OTC - I just want to take it OTC in general (rather be 100% private), doesn't have to be much more than what she already offers in the club. I've made this clear to her as well. It looks like it may happen some day, but am I wrong in thinking all this?
Obviously, this is just one girl, there are many others I can try the same thing with and probably have better luck, but this girl is just so beautiful and generally quite better than other girls in the club that I can't really stop thinking about this. I still have a good time with her ITC, but the environment just isnt the best when there are so many other guys competing for her there as well.
I guess this just sounds like a classic case of "RIL" for you guys, a term I have just heard about. I guess what I am really asking is - what do you all suggest to get my mind off all of this and stop pursuing something that I probably won't achieve?
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