Dancer's ATF
We had a thread on here a while back about whether you would divulge the identity of your ATF. Several of you said that you would not, even to fellow TUSCLers, and some said not even to your best friends. You were afraid of creating a rush on your girl and you wanted to keep the treasure to yourself.
Let's turn it around. What do you think dancers do? Do they jealously guard the identity of their best customers back in the dressing room? Do they blab all about it, even inflating the dollar amounts? Are they honest about what extras may have been given? Do they talk freely, but guard their catch zealously? What do you think is their usual MO?
Let's turn it around. What do you think dancers do? Do they jealously guard the identity of their best customers back in the dressing room? Do they blab all about it, even inflating the dollar amounts? Are they honest about what extras may have been given? Do they talk freely, but guard their catch zealously? What do you think is their usual MO?
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I've noticed that the dancers that genuinely get along with each other and have worked together for years will help each other to snag new customers, or even to share customers between them. It shocked me the first few times I overheard them comparing notes about several regulars in the club that day. When I asked them if they talk about me that way, they just looked at each other and grinned. Guess I got my answer.
As for talking about customers, girls usually keep info about their regulars to themselves.
I have a lot of regulars.I have about four that I genuinely care about to the point where, if I weren't to see them again, Id think about them and hope their lives were okay. I definetly don't talk to anyone else about them
As far as sharing info about my ATF, I know her to be an honest, good-hearted, hard-working single mother with two teenage children who has stripped for at least ten years because the schedule allows her to be with her kids so much. I'm glad to send new business to her simply because I can't support her all by myself. If I could find her a good man in his early 40's who would love and appreciate her, I would act as Cupid. And if she fell for him, he would be one lucky man - hell, she treats me great and I'm just a customer! LOL
When she found out, she flew into a rage.
Of the hundreds of dancers I've interacted with in my 40 or so years of SC, I can count on one hand those that know much of anything about me. And on one finger those that know a lot.
Some might, but I don't think most dancers are going to share information that might prompt or enable others to poach their customers. That's an opinion based on my observations, and not any kind of rigorous study.
A: Well, they can try but every dancer in a club pretty much knows who is dancing for who, how often and for how long.
Q:Do they blab all about it, even inflating the dollar amounts?
A: Some do like to exaggerate dollar amounts either from one customer or in general.
Q:Are they honest about what extras may have been given?
A: No.
Q:Do they talk freely, but guard their catch zealously?
A: There are very few secrets when it comes to the generalities of who is dancing for who. There is very little honesty when it comes to other things. Smart dancers go in, do their job and go home without getting too involved in the BS.
For instance, after a VIP with S, if I was gonna stick around and hang with her some more after she took a break and/or made the rounds, she *insisted* that I get LDs in the meantime.
Or after a VIP with T, she'd pick a friend or two that she knew was having a financially bad night and ask if I'd buy a dance or two from them.
On one of my club visits (a club with a public VIP area) I was delighted to receive a BJ from a lovely dancer. On another trip to the VIP for more lap dances the girl I was with quizzed me about BJ girl. Apparently BJ girl had never been observed doing this sort of extra and the dressing room was all abuzz about it. The second girl was really curious about how much I had paid BJ girl.
I lied through my teeth. Told the second girl that BJ girl was a champion - best BJ of my life and paid her $500 for the pleasure. Second girl went mute not offering me any extras.
Plus, if it was early enough to pick up another customer for VIP or a number of LDs, I would encourage them to go for it. So part of it may have been in return for my being a nice guy and cutting them loose.
And as for S, specifically, I think she's not really a spotlight hog. She retired as a stripper at the ripe old age of 23 and has a more "normal" job that's fairly behind-the-scenes for her, but pushing others into the spotlight.
As for whether they talk about other guys, my experience is also yes. I know many of her other regulars first (and in some cases, last) names, their professions, their marital problems, the kind of cars they drive and all sorts of little details about them. It is my full expectation that her other regulars may know the same about me, to the extent the girls know anything about me. It really makes no difference to me what the girls or their regulars know about me - but I can understand why some of these other guys would not want this information shared.
According to my ATF girls, they have very little to do with the other girls in the club. They don't divulge earnings to the other girls, probably to prevent them from trying to poach their regulars.