DANCERS OPINIONS OF OTHER DANCERS
10inches
Florida
was sitting with my ATF recently, when she began a critique of the other girls. too fat, too thin, too many tattoos etc. finally she started talking about mileage you could get with each girl. made mental note about what extras go with which girl so I could check them out when ATF not on duty. anyone ever had this happen??
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My ATF was that way, being bisexual. My current fave, the same. What has happened, I give my ATF/Fave some bucks to tip the dancer and when she comes around to where we are sitting, I get a mini 2 girl show.
My current fave was talking to me about a problem se was having, and she mentioned that she had called her ex-girlfriend. I asked if it were a girl that was a friend or a girlfriend. She smiled and said girlfriend. She got a kick out of my telling her of the incredible visions she just put in my imagination. DAMN! Just as I type this she texts me.
I won't discuss most dancers with other ones. Shadowcat's friend I will. She was done wrong by another one there, I let her know, that although I can empathize with that other dancer's problem, I will no longer get dances from that dancer. I don't believe in rewarding bad behaviour.
She said that "N" keeps wondering when that PL from up north will be back. :)
Most of the time a dancer will say very flattering things about a girl onstage or otherwise. There are many dancers that have amazing assets and deserve to be complimented.
There was a dancer I worked with at a club in Washington. Very insecure girl and rightfully so. She would come up to me in the locker room and tell me what amazing boobs I had and that she wanted them. Always a compliment. Then a few customers had told me when I was onstage that she was giving unflattering, unsolicited advice about my personal life ( which she had no clue about) and that I was dirty un the VIP (again something she knew nothing about since I very rarely saw her in the VIP).
I wasn't the only girl she was talking about. She never got any dances. She was so insecure that instead of walking tall and flaunting the good features she did have, she badmouthed the other dancers and customers didn't want to hear it. She was a cute girl. She could have done better for herself.
VERY VERY few dancers want anything from us other than our wallets. I think one is lucky if he can find one like that in their time.
Others you will have strippers who are all "friends" with each other. The "friends" tend to be lifers with no life outside strip clubs.
My ATF and I did become friends and still see each other on occasions. Turned out we had common friends so we are sometimes together with others that know nothing of our ATF/customer relationship. I bought her gifts as she did for me. It never was a case of her just wanting money from me after the first couple of times we met.
If I'm sitting with a customer, and he/she makes a comment about another dancer, I will either redirect the conversation, or offer a positive insight. Personally, I think all of the girls at my current club are beautiful, and very pleasant to work with. And because we all have this positive attitude, there isn't the typical strip club competition between us and everyone as a result has a good time.