What's her problem? Share your similar stories ( About prude dancers! )
Realist123
As soon as I go in the LD Area with her she rubs her tits and says "Oh eww the last guy I was with probably just gave me a hickie on my tit) (IMMEDIATELY I knew she was playing a keep away game as in telling me some guy just had his mouth all over her tits (but this girl didn't get any dances all night that I could see, so unless she let him suck on it for free out in the main floor This is just BS and I already know Im in for a bad time.
but decided to go on with it..
Probably in the top 10 worst dances I've gotten, ever.
First off, I always ask them to start on the next dance so I get about half a song for free to roam around and explore them a bit ;), this girl had none of it! Wouldn't let me touch any part of her until the dance started, that was my 2nd warning but still. i proceeded to hope she would lighten up.. as I was prepared to drop serious cash in the hopes she would give me what I want
As soon as we start dancing I go for her luscious tits ASAP to gauge her(since she said some dude just mouth raped them, of course she was fucking lying, the bitch!)
She immediatley stops dancing and gives me serious attitude and raises her voice
"DO YOU WANT ME TO DANCE OR DO YOU JUST WANT TO GRAB ALLOVER MY TITS??)
I tell her I want both, I did not get this, instead I got a little over 3 minutes of her constantly moving away my hands and dodging every I threw at her.
I know some girls try to just "dance" without anything more but really? Do they not do research about where they work first?
Compared to the average "dances" here. Even fingering her would be MILD at most.
Just a bad experience tonight I had to share. Even almost an entire bottle of GreyGoose and that girl still wasn't worthy of my cash..
My advice.. unless she does great work on her first $20 dance or is open to a lot of touching, do not go for a 2nd or 3rd hoping for a change.. it is very rare IME to find a girl who is a prude for 1 and wet and wild for the 2nd and ON... Find a girl who gives you attention at Song #1 !!
Share your prudish dances/worst experiences here, Thanks!
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It's funny all I read about on here are customers who seem to want to put their mouths and hands all over. And trust me I get a lot of those..but truth is "fetish" customers make up a lot of the demographic also.
Maybe this dancer is better off serving a different type of client
I get what you're saying but anyone with half a brain would realize what type of environment they are working in. Guess she doesn't have half a brain..?
She probably didn't have half a brain.
She should have been honest. If a customer is doing something you don't like you should tell them in a polite way instead of going through a miserable dance. If I can't satisfy a customer i have no problem going to find a girl who will and sending her over to him.
Me: Is that a serious question?
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Realist - I too have hit upon the Prude Dancer (PD?) who seemed surprised I'd want to do sexually-stimulating activities that generally occur within the purview of the club. If I do over step her boundaries on occasion (and I'm always respectful; never grabby or aggressive), a good dancer will either move my hand, gently pull away, or politely advise me that we can't do that. And the thing is, some of these girls still get my lapdance dollars because they were so cool about it, and otherwise remain attractive to me.
Everyone has limits and sometimes you don't know where they are unless you either go for it and/or politely ask. I've been surprised as often as not to discover the girl IS okay with whatever I wanted to do, and I'm left thinking that all that previous time with her, I could've done more and didn't because I was afraid I'd piss her off - I'd become my own worst censor.
In any case, a sensible dancer will coach accordingly. It's the girl who cops an attitude and does what yours did (or worse) that's so frustrating, and who may get my ladpdance dollars once, but never again.
Against my better judgment, took her to VIP. Did two dances, just to make sure, but they were both miserable. Good body, fake boobs, great hair and teeth. But she did mostly air dance and when I put my hands up on her hips she pushed them away. So I sat on my hands for a while until she grabbed both of them and put them squarely on each breast. I fondled for about a second or two, and she grabbed them and set them down by my sides. Okay. Then she grabbed them and put them back on her breasts and then pushed them away. We played this screwy game through the two songs and she continued to bitch about the club, the management, me, and the other dancers.
The club had a practice of charging you $20 to get in but gave you a card that was redeemable for a free lapper if you purchased another lapper at regular price. At the end of two, I gave her $30 (all I had left) and the card. She blew up and said she doesn't honor the cards and wanted her $50 in cash AND a tip. I had to go to the in-club ATM. I couldn't get out of there fast enough, and I told the door guy to stuff his cards.
Several months later, magicrat, a buddy on mine, made the same mistake. She told him that she could bring him a dancer that he would like better. She did. She brought him Eden. One of the best know ROBs in the place.
We all learn by our mistakes.
1) Recent Cheetahs- SD visit- Maybe being the only dancer that wore a maxi-dress vs very skimpy outfits by most other dancers should have given me a clue. But she was young with a very nice tight figure underneath that maxi, and seemed OK enough on stage (nude, 6' away). Second clue maybe should have been steering me towards VIP area- nope test drive 1st honey. Once dance started, she said "hands at sides, please". One and out for her.
2) Another So Cal club. I chose 1 of the hottest looking blondes in a club full of hotties for some dances in basic LD area. Her stage show and interaction were OK, we went back in the middle of a song. During the chat, subject came up on clubs she'd danced at before. She said that she left a COI club because she couldn't stand the contact levels there. My thoughts were already fading for an upgrade to multiple dance area. When dance started, basic contact was there, but dance was mechanical, going through the motions kind. As I had some other (known) prospects in mind, I bailed early on this one. Only $25 out, but wish I'd had that conversation before going back. Live and learn.
Now normally my spidey senses would have told me that this girl was a waste of time, but this one had me fooled. It might have had something to do with all the crotch rubbing she was doing at the bar over the course of an hour, which no doubt clouded my judgement. ;) So instead of working out the specifics, like I normally would, my little head short circuited my big head. At least it only cost $100 for the half hour, though I couldn't be bothered to actually sit there for the entire time. What a waste.
One time, I did that with a new chick. Later she came over to me and explained that she just wasn't ready for that much contact yet. She was cute, and I gave her the other $15, and got another dance with my hands voluntarily at my sides. She picked up my hands and put them on her tits, so we did another dance like that. Two weeks later we did FS in VIP.
It isn't always a dancer's limits that make her shy away from being grabbed. I used to work in clubs where the dancer touching the guy was fine (well, short of sexual acts), but the guy touching the dancer wasn't according to the club's rules. At one club in particular, the Manager would pop into the lap dance area periodically. I didn't have a problem with a guy putting his hands on me, but the club did. Fear of getting caught made me cautious. I'd bend the rules when I felt I could; otherwise, I'd put guys off as gently as possible.
I don't think I could work in an air dance club. I feel like it would just piss customers off, and I was one of those dancers who really wanted customers to be happy.
The second was at Columbus Gold, and the dancer went ballistic and refused to give me a dance because I had a hardon before the dance even started. Needless to say she didn't last long at tthe club.
The third dancer, also at Kahoots, took the cake. She starts off telling me her life story, which included a deadbeat rock singer boyfriend, two children that were taken away from her, and how all the dancers don't like her. I knew I should have avoided her, but she was smoking hot and doing a good job of teasing me at the table, so I went for some lap dances. She was very hands on, and gave a great dance. If she would have just shut up, I probably would have a regular of hers the two years she danced there. Throughout the two songs I tried, she never shut up about how all the dancers hated her and how she was better than them because she didn't have to go as far as they did. Funny thing was, she went a lot farther than any other dancer in the club at that time.
The point is that you have to study the dancers and how they approach you. Don't act pressed for a dance. I tend to not really be interested and they seem to like the fact I am not bitchy when they don't respond to me. Just relax and enjoy