Comments by docsavage (page 24)

I prefer shorter girls. I often find the strippers more attractive when they are walking in or out of the strip club in their street clothes wearing flats than when they have switched to heels while working and look taller. The average female is 5'4". When I ask strippers that height if there are more girls working in the club who are taller or shorter than them they usually say taller. The tall slender fashion model type is seen as the most attractive type so strip club managers hire that type but I think there are a good number of customers who don't prefer that type. I like seeing variety in a strip club where there is a type of girl for everyone.

I knew a stripper who would take her drinks not watered down. One time we did two lap dances and she was so intoxicated she walked off after the lap dances without getting my money. I chased her down and handed it to her. Shortly after that she passed out and they had to carry her out to her car and have someone drive her home.

I don't know if smoking would fall into this category, but some women are attracted to men who engage in slightly dangerous behavior because they see it as a sign of bravery. Women like brave men because that type of male will come to their rescue in dangerous situations.

In the political forum here has anyone ever said "I was wrong and you were right so thank you for straightening me out"?

The strip clubs down in Kentucky are safer than the ones here in Indiana because they have fewer guns down there and the guns they do have are just used to shoot possums.

When I run across strippers who seem to make a lot of bad choices I don't jump in and help them. When I was in my twenties, I made one bad decision after another and ended up living in a cockroach infested apartment in a bad neighborhood eating peanut butter sandwiches for dinner because that was all I could afford. No one ever stepped in to try to help me and, looking back, that was a good thing. I slowly learned from my mistakes and improved my situation on my own.

I have found a good dividing line for me on whether I felt like I had a good experience and should go back to see them again because I'll have another good experience is whether they allowed breast touching. I don't really care whether I touch their breasts or not but I do like them to be friendly and letting me touch their breasts is a sign of that. Breast touching is usually allowed in the local clubs so a particular girl not allowing it is probably making a personal decision not to do so. All my regulars that I have enjoyed spending time with, without a single exception, allowed me to touch her breasts the first time we did lap dances. Any girl I tried to have as a regular who didn't allow that turned out later to be lacking in other areas and not worth having as a regular. A lot of time with a favorite regular, I won't even touch her breasts during a lap dance. Just knowing that she'll let me if I want to is enough for me.

I live in Indiana. I went to Vegas and enjoyed it but there are things you can find in Indiana strip clubs that are harder to find in Vegas strip clubs. Indiana strippers will be more friendly because there is a higher likelihood you are a local instead of a tourist and will be back. When you go back, they want you to remember that really friendly girl you did lap dances with last time and pick her again.

Top hat, cape, cane and white gloves.

I live in a middle-class area and normally have no women approach me with money for sex offers. Early in the Covid lockdowns, though, I had two different suddenly unemployed women approach me in public. One came up to me in a parking lot of a restaurant and the other in a retail store. Both times no one else was close enough to hear her. I wondered why they didn't go to the government for assistance but then my niece told me it took her almost two months to get any because the state welfare system was overwhelmed by all the sudden applicants. I think women who are really interested could just discreetly approach guys. Some of the guys might be dangerous, there might be police around or various other issues but those same issues would also apply in an at work situation. Normally women who are interested don't approach men because most men are not interested and men who are interested don't approach women because most women are not interested. Guys try to guess where there are a lot of women who might be interested, like a strip club or massage parlor or sugar daddy website or poor area of town, and then go there.

I wouldn't offer a female working in a retail store or restaurant money in exchange for sex mainly for the same reason I wouldn't offer them money to clean my apartment, wash my car, cut my hair or do anything else. They picked their place of unemployment because that is the service they wanted to provide in exchange for money. I have sympathy for women who get unwanted sexual advances from customers at their place of employment. At the same time, you could reduce this sort of thing somewhat if commercial sex and advertising for it was legalized. Many women who don't want to offer sex for money want the government to try to stop women who do want to offer sex for money.

I've mentioned the existence of TUSCL to strippers a few times and they seem uninterested. They listen to guys in their strip club offer their opinions about strip clubs all the time and don't want to hear more of it. I have found that strippers seem highly interested in the subject of which strip clubs they can make the most money in. They know they can get that information better from other strippers than customers. They would usually ask ones they know rather than go out looking for something to read on the internet. Most people don't like reading. Customers who read TUSCL and strippers who read Stripperweb are probably a small percentage of their respective groups.

I thought this was funny so I appreciate BubbleYum coming up with it. I recently annoyed someone here when they opened up a discussion to make a joke and I left a comment but didn't congratulate them for being so funny. They got angry and accused me and several other commenters of being too stupid to understand it was a joke. I was taken aback by this. I had never said a bad word to this person and they were being condescending and insulting towards me just because I didn't tell them their joke was funny.

Strip clubs tend to attract the type of girls who don't stay in one place long. Most cities have multiple strip clubs and if you are a decent looking young woman it's easy to move around the city, state or country and get jobs in them. These same girls also frequently change where they live and who their current boyfriend is. I had one regular here in Indianapolis who did the following over a six-year period: work at Babes, quit and move in with a boyfriend, dump the boyfriend and come back to Babes, move to Florida, come back from Florida and work at Babes, switch and work at Harem House, quit to live with new boyfriend, dump boyfriend and come back to Harem House, switch from stripper to bartender at Harem House, become stripper at Brad's Brass Flamingo, become stripper at the Pony and then leave stripping. This is not unusual for a stripper.

"Rick ilb is not the typical strip club client. He’s mentioned a few times he does OTC in hotel rooms which are just lapdances where he still keeps his clothes on." I had an offer from a stripper once to come over to where I live and just do lap dances. I didn't have much interest because, while I like lap dances, I also like sitting and relaxing in the strip club and doing some drinking and people watching before I buy lap dances. Lately, though, this is becoming less the case. With the worsening economy, the girls are making less money and this is causing them to be increasingly aggressive. The high-pressure sales pitches are unpleasant to me. I think this is going to backfire on them. Sitting in the strip club and relaxing is part of the experience men enjoy and if you ruin it for them they are less likely to come in.

When I read strippers talking to each other on the internet they seem nothing like the sweet friendly girls I spend time with in strip clubs. At work I think strippers act like they like the customers more than they really do However, when strippers talk to strippers I also think they act like they dislike the customers more than they really do. I've noticed when I'm alone with a girl in the lap dance area she is often very friendly and then the friendliness decreases if another girl enters the room. I believe they are unaware they are shifting like this. Everyone becomes a different person, depending on who they are around. These girls would act different with their boyfriend, their grandmother, their children, at work with customers, with other strippers and so on. Everyone shifts like that.

I worked at Pizza Hut 45 years ago. After I left, I kept the pizza recipe they used but the pizzas I made were not quite as good. I think there was some difference in the quality of ingredients that I could get at the grocery store or maybe the type of oven used. Pizza Hut quality has dropped in recent years. We made the dough in the store daily from scratch and cut up fresh vegetables in the store every day. It wasn't fun cutting up a whole bunch of onions. That made my eyes sting.

His parents and grandparents are acting as enablers by letting him continue to live with them so he can avoid getting a job. He's still a child in an adult body. She's smart not to let him mooch off her and has already done the best thing she can do.

I saw a stripper hit a male customer in a club not long ago. He then went over to a bouncer and complained about it. I overheard the bouncer reply that he would talk to the girl about it. Strip club managers don't like the strippers throwing the first punch or the customers throwing the first punch. They want everyone in the club to come to them to settle any disputes. If a stripper gets you angry, instead of calling her names, keep calm and go talk to a manager. Most managers want to keep their girls happy and their customers happy so will try to be fair to both sides.

The staging at that speech looks like something Leni Riefenstahl would have come up with. Before Biden calls anyone a semi-fascist, he should consider that people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

"Go get a regular job, even at a gas station or McDonald’s." This advice and all the other advice above from PinkSugarDoll is good advice. Lao Tzu said the journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Take things one step at a time. You can get another job and strip part time. Unemployment rates are low now and employers are looking for workers. There are plenty of other jobs beside stripping, including many you wouldn't immediately think of. The day comes for every stripper where they can no longer make money in stripping. The ones I've known who left were able to make the transition to something else. Former regulars have become a lawyer receptionist, gambling casino employee, hotel desk clerk, post office worker, wig factory worker, waitress and Amazon warehouse worker. A couple have just moved in with boyfriends. Stay away from guys who are drug users, alcoholics, abusive or compulsive gamblers. You aren't going to change their ways. If you get a decent job, that may help you to meet decent guys who you can get involved in a long-term relationship with.

I own one I bought as part of a strip club charity fund raiser but only wore it once when I visited a couple old friends. They enjoyed looking at it. I also own a tee shirt that a stripper regular gave me as a present. It says, "Licensed Drug Dealer". It was a joke gift she gave me after I told her about a Mexican guy at the strip club who asked me if I had any drugs for sale. She thought that was funny because she had known me a long time and knew I was the least likely guy at the strip club to be a drug dealer.

I don't know of any local strippers killed by customers but do know of one killed by an angry ex-boyfriend. One of my regulars was killed inadvertently. A couple of guys got into a gun fight. She was sitting in her living room and a stray bullet came through the window and hit her right in the middle of the forehead. She was just unlucky to be in the wrong place at the wrong time.

BigThirdEye, a dancer can generally set whatever rules she wants. Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't think most clubs would tell a dancer she has to allow something like breast touching. A stripper would know about that more than me. Clubs often set maximums for what is allowed to meet local law enforcement requirements. There is almost always some variation in amount of contact allowed between once dancer and another. What keeps there from being a lot of variation is that the girls are competing with each other for customers. If one girl is allowing a lot less contact than the others, she has trouble making money. If a girl is working in a club where almost all the other girls allow some touching and she doesn't want to allow that I would want her to let me know ahead of time. I might then pick another girl and she could look for another guy willing to follow her no touching rule. If she doesn't say anything and then I discover it is a no touch dance during the dance, I just quit after one dance. I don't get angry at her.

Strippers have to deal with customers they are unattracted to who want to be their boyfriend or who offer otc activities they are uninterested in. Customers have to deal with strippers they are unattracted to wanting to sell them lap dances. If you spend time in a strip club, either as a stripper or a customer, you have to learn to deal with this. I can normally handle overly aggressive strippers. If I couldn't, I would give up on strip clubs. I think the girls have it worse than us guys, though. Females are smaller and weaker than males and some males will engage in subtle physical intimidation or veiled threats with the girls. I am frequently annoyed by strippers, but I have never had one try to physically intimidate me. Fortunately, strip clubs have on site security that the strippers can fall back on. There are also customers who treat the girls respectfully and the girls can spend time in the club with them.