The last dance I got was really good and she was actually giving a lot of extra time. In the moment though I was thinking this chick is trying to do multiple dances without asking to raise up the price. I was about to tell her to stop but then she said that was one dance. I was very pleasantly surprised.
Are you guys too jaded by past ROBS or assume the worst in a dancer but then it works out?
This is a stupid question - many guys on here gave been on here for years and have SCed for years and often decades and have spent fortunes in clubs - the vets on here know the difference b/w ROBs and good dancers - ROBs are a big part of the SC game but of course not the only part - there is good and bad and the vets call it that way - they call out the good and call out the bad
I don't worry too much about ROBs because I rarely put myself in a position to be conned by one.
IMO the key to avoiding ROBs is to live by a few simple rules of the road, the biggest ones being don't pay large sums of money upfront, be aware of your circumstances (song count, time, etc.) and don't agree to anything that you don't want.
The problem is that newer club hounds tend to be less sure of themselves, which makes it more difficult for them to hold firm in these situations. They also give off insecurity vibes that makes them better targets to begin with. I've had several favorites over the years who gave me great experiences, but also happily relieved suckers of the contents of their wallets when the circumstances were right. When a lioness is roaming the fields for her prey, the weak animals always get attacked first. đ
"this chick is trying to do multiple dances without asking to raise up the price"
^ A dancer who does that isn't a ROB. Around here at least, it's standard for a dancer to keep on dancing until being told to stop. It's a customers responsibility to track the songs. You can ask her to notify you every song, but assuming that isn't gonna work out. She'd be a ROB if she did a single dance and attempted to charge for multiple, or tried to charge a higher than standard rate after the fact.
A few weeks ago I was in a club with a jukebox and some dancer picked a song that was easily seven or eight minutes. It was the second song with the dancer in my lap, and at some point I let her know she could stop because I was only doing two songs and nothing better was going to happen if we kept going (was in a regular lapdance booth in no-touch Killeen, TX).
In the clubs I'm just trying to get what I'm looking for without too many headaches. If I'm one song apart from a dancer on the count I'll usually just let it go.
interesting double-team rob attempt the other night.
two unsolicited fuglies take a seat on each side of me. with no introductions rob1 says 'for 10 bucks i'll eat rob2's pussy right here'. dg: no rob1: why not dg: cuz u want to eat it anyway. rob1: lol. u won't give me 10 bucks to eat her pussy? dg: no, but i'll give u 10 if i can eat her pussy.
the bitch actually thought about it for a second before rob1 said 'no way rob2, ain't how dis shit works'. they started fighting and i left to grab a smoke.
fuck, messed that up.
the bitch actually thought about it for a second before rob2 said 'no way rob1, ain't how dis shit works'. they started fighting and i left to grab a smoke.
DG thatâs some pimp shot my brother. Well done!
good thing she didn't agree. my mouth wasn't going anywhere near that cottage cheese cesspool.
I'm all for robs. Most of the time the tricks do something to deserve it
i'm all for cacaplop bumping rob threads. lulz
===> "Most of the time the tricks do something to deserve it"
I always find it amusing to see a serial cuck call other guys "tricks" to make himself feel better about sending his crack whore girlfriend out to fuck others for money. The "winning team" indeed. đ
GACA is the one with the crack hoe not me.
But yeah I've never heard of anyone completely innocent getting fucked over
ROBs are easy to avoid. Treat each new dancer as if you don't know or trust them. Ask them to wait until the next full song to start a lap dance, ask them the rate before the first dance starts, and verify the number of dances after each dance. If they're not doing what you want, cut them loose. Worst case scenario you are out one dance, which is equally likely whether shes a rob, or an honest but shitty dancer.
If getting low value for one dance is an unacceptable risk, you probably need a cheaper hobby.
âI'm all for robs. Most of the time the tricks do something to deserve itâ
So its fine for dancers to be assaulted or robbed then? They deserved it?
Asking for otc doesnât mean someone deserves to be robbed.
The reason robs do what they do is because of poor family, poor upbringing, poor moral values etc. has nothing to do with someone deserving it. Robs donât selectively pick people to rob
Drew doesnât one dance cost just like $30?
Rick the logic these guys use is referring to themselves as pimps, and their girls clients as simps or tricks. These guys are the modern boyfriend pimps who are nothing like the original 1900 pimps. The actual pimps had an element of violence, control, and detachment which allowed them to pimp out 10 or more women at once. The ones who fell in love with any of their women failed and probably couldnât successfully pimp.
The modern boyfriend pimp is one guy who is completely loyal to one woman who strips or fucks for money. Itâs a completely different scenario, has nothing to do with pimping, and their girl often has more respect for her clients than she does for her own man. Itâs basically a role reversal of the housewife who stays at home while her rich husband is busy working and cheating around with other women or with hookers. Itâs basically a house husband, but itâs a much more embarrassing form of house husband than for instance a house husband with a doctor or lawyer wife or other lucrative career where she isnât rubbing on men or having sex. Those wives might cheat on their husband but it wonât be like an escort or stripper
If you are REALLY scared about getting ripped off, all it literally takes is communication, and/or, have your money in your shirt pocket and after every dance pre pay for the next one.
Itâs not that complicated.
"Are you guys too jaded by past ROBS or assume the worst in a dancer but then it works out?"
No. Each girl's her own riddle.
I have found a good dividing line for me on whether I felt like I had a good experience and should go back to see them again because I'll have another good experience is whether they allowed breast touching. I don't really care whether I touch their breasts or not but I do like them to be friendly and letting me touch their breasts is a sign of that. Breast touching is usually allowed in the local clubs so a particular girl not allowing it is probably making a personal decision not to do so.
All my regulars that I have enjoyed spending time with, without a single exception, allowed me to touch her breasts the first time we did lap dances. Any girl I tried to have as a regular who didn't allow that turned out later to be lacking in other areas and not worth having as a regular. A lot of time with a favorite regular, I won't even touch her breasts during a lap dance. Just knowing that she'll let me if I want to is enough for me.
I'm definitely wary of ROBs. Anyone that's been in a club a few times has probably encountered them.
But sometimes there are anti ROBs, dancers that go beyond the call of duty. I've had several give me free dances over the years, buy me drinks, etc with nothing expected back. The one that mainly comes to mind was an average looking petite dancer that I really didn't have much interest in but offered to buy a dance from her because she spent so much time with me and the club was slow. After the dance I paid her and started to get up to walk away and she tells me that she wants to give me more dances for free. She got pretty wild and probably gave me around 8 dances while hinting that she'd like to hang out with me but I was noncommittal because she didn't really interest me. She started to get tired and I was bored so I called an end to it.
We started walking back to the bar and she tried to grab and hold my hand but I wasn't into it so pulled away. Back at the bar she wanted to just stay and sit with me and finally I told her she should mingle a little with others so she could make some money so she finally walked off.
I only saw her that one time, that club has been closed around 10 years but now that I'm posting about it in hindsight I'm thinking maybe I should have followed up on hanging with her OTC because she obviously liked me but back then I wasn't feeling it with her. She wasn't my type back then but horny OSU today might take her up on that offer. Lol
TheeOSU - Maybe I'm jaded and cynical, but I think when a dancer does things like this, it's because she's looking for someone to pay her bills.
Buying Dances is a chump's game!
Select the one you want, generosity, charm, get her off script, then Front Room Feel Up and Make Out Session. Front Room maximum. Then and only then, you invite her to the back room. Then take her out the front door to continue on a mattress somewhere.
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not jaded, but decades of experience keeps me wary of any new potential stripper ROBs until proven otherwise. at this point, it's just common sense.