I'd Never Felt More Safe Around a Customer than I did With This One
BubbleYum
Blow me. 😙 Pronouns: hoe/heaux
"Do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?"
"No."
"Why not?! You should!"
"I don't want or need one."
"You should want one. You'll want to date me. Do you find me attractive? What are you into anyway?"
"I'm into people who don't drink and drive." (Dude was 5 drinks/shots in at 8pm)
"Oh, so you don't like to drink? I'll make you drink."
*Silence from me worried I'm going to be r*ped or murdered or some shit*
"Well I just moved back from Texas and am living out a hotel. I'll move in with you until I find somewhere!"
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I think the girls have it worse than us guys, though. Females are smaller and weaker than males and some males will engage in subtle physical intimidation or veiled threats with the girls. I am frequently annoyed by strippers, but I have never had one try to physically intimidate me. Fortunately, strip clubs have on site security that the strippers can fall back on. There are also customers who treat the girls respectfully and the girls can spend time in the club with them.
Bubbleyum but you're therentrying to get him to pay you 🤡
A smart stripper hoe knows how to finesse this type of trick. It's as easy as finesse 20fag lulz
Still, as creepy as the creepiest douche can be. When something like this happens, do you give other dancers the heads up to ignore that creep, hoping that he'll leave after he gets ignored for a while? What happens to a customer like that over the longer term of an evening?
He said he moved to Texas from the Detroit area in 2015 and is in the process of moving back right now after acquiring a really good job with one of the largest employers in the area. I didn't ask him to elaborate further.
He asked me where I live and I told him the suburb. He the asked "where do you live in ____?" And I told him I live on a street at a place in said suburb without naming any street or a place. After that, he just got weirder and weirder with his questions.
We went upstairs to VIP and the DJ skipped me for free on stage so I can make money. I was the first one to do dances all night long. I thought we were going to only do one song, but he wanted a second (with how draining he was, I wish it had only been one song lol, it was way too early to deal with that much out of one customer). The first dance was mostly him trying to flick one of my goddamn boobs after I told him twice to not do that. After the third time I stopped the dance and I told him he can either stop doing that or we can just stop dancing. He apologized and we continued on to the second song where he began interrogating me with all of the questions.
I forgot to write about the part where he told me, "I know you want to make out with me. You should just kiss me." I told him that's not allowed and I don't do that at that club. He then said something along the lines of "well you should do it anyway because I know you're a bad girl." And thank God the VIP bouncer walked through the aisle way at that moment. It could not have been any more perfect timing for him to make an appearance. The second song ended with him reiterating that we should be roommates until he finds a place to live and that he is looking to live in a city next to mine (fuck, lol).
When I got out of the dances, the DJ went ahead and put me up upon my own request. I spent that stage set processing what had happened during the dances and how it was way too fucking early in the shift for that bullshit. While I was up on stage, that weird ass customer left, thankfully.
When I was done, I joined my two friends working with me and I did tell them. It wasn't as a warning or anything like that. It was more of a venting and hoping that they could also try to help me process the trauma I had just endured. If the customer had remained in the club, it was so slow that early in the shift that word would have spread quick about him. If it had been on a Friday or Saturday evening I probably wouldn't have said anything or given any warnings due to how busy it gets in there. It would have been easy to lose him in the crowd, too. Hopefully that makes sense.
Well I was venting to him, a gentleman who is sitting on the other side of me tapped my shoulder to compliment my tattoo. He said he had overheard what I said so he wasn't trying to come off weird like those two other customers, but he was also a believer of what my tattoo represents. And then he and the other customer began chatting and bought each other drinks. I feel like I was in the way of their date all of a sudden lol. Ultimately, the customer who complimented my tattoo took me up to VIP for some (finally!) normal and respecting of my boundaries dances.
But fuck those first two customers I had. I hope none of you gentlemen on this forum act like either of those guys in VIP.
Do you also have a boundary of not grinding too much? How do you enforce that do you grind on their thighs, or stand around and do airdances or something during the dance
If a girl is working in a club where almost all the other girls allow some touching and she doesn't want to allow that I would want her to let me know ahead of time. I might then pick another girl and she could look for another guy willing to follow her no touching rule. If she doesn't say anything and then I discover it is a no touch dance during the dance, I just quit after one dance. I don't get angry at her.
It’s really not that complicated.
Lol, great description!
In my case I might use the palms of my hands, which are always clean in the club BTW, to lightly cup a boob. I do understand that they're not play-doh.
That said, I am dismayed by the lack of appreciation for the art and science of proper drunk driving. Driving drunk is the prerogative of all ricks. We’ve developed the skill of avoiding cubs and apelings, for they are the future. Fortunately, there ain’t may cubs and apelings playin’ at 3am. So al is usually good…
So, Ms. Yum, if you see a lion wearin’ a suit enter the club realize you’re in for some fun. No nipple radio tuning. And at the end of the night you’ll be coming to this rick’s hotel room - and then cumming in this rick’s hotel room. Trust me, it will be a night you never forget.
Now where the fuck is my drivin’ whiskey? ROAR!!!
You had me there. ❤️
I'll be on my way after I wake up (if insomnia ever let's me even sleep at all).
^ aww must be rough dealing with the rejection by the man of your dreams. I am sorry your heart is broken that bad
If that is too big of a word for you then Invest in a dictionary
I hope things improve for BubbleYum. You deserve many great nights after that creep show!
Hey, BTE, I don't know what you're saying, but kindly fuck off from my post. Your trolling isn't welcome in these comments, loser. Go get your ass wrecked by SJG or get hit by a car or some shit.
An interesting experiment would be to give every stripper a taser with a single charge that they can use once per shift without consequence. I'm pretty sure that the revenue would drop off a lot, but so would stories like this.
Bubbleyum thats quite a violent thing to say
If dancers are upfront about what they will and won't do, why not believe them and respect it? There's always another dancer or another day.
For that guy, fear was the goal most likely.
SJG
“One of the first things I tell anybody when we sit down for a dance is no penetration and do not play with my boobs or nips. And I know he understood me when I said that - he just didn't care. When we were on our way to the vip, he said that he wanted two dances, but he only ended up getting one”
Do you tell them these rules before the dance is paid for or after?
No penetration is a general lapdance rule, but no boob or nipple touching isnt. If you don’t tell them these rules before they pay for the dance, it can fall under robbing. I cant imagine anyone paying for a dance so restrictive, unless there is LDK involved. Rules like this may be why you are getting crazy or weirdo customers, because its going to mostly be crazy or insane customers willing to buy lapdances with no boob touching and no LDKing.