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15 years ago
Watch out for heavy gals sitting on or going up and down with Mr Happy with their butt. Not only is this ameteurish dancer behavior, but can be dangerous for Mr Happy. Just tell her "Honey, please go easy there, thats Mr Happy, not a trampoline."
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15 years ago
Some intersting comments. I sometimes may have the chump change for drinks and stage tipping on a different money clip than the lap dance or extras money (larger bills). I never use a credit card for SC fun.
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15 years ago
Call her and set up a session. She gave you her number - what does the wide open receiver in the end zone have to hold up a billboard! Of course she will want some money but she may cut you a break. Don't pay for anything your not getting. Above all have fun. If she gave you a BJ chances are she will do sex.
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15 years ago
I had left a Ricks Cabaret Mug in my car that my wife noticed. She immediately threw it on the pavement and broke it. I had won it on 2 for 1 lap dance nite, a valuable souvenir. The next one I got I hid in my office upstairs.
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15 years ago
I have a monthly budget for Project Costs (SC related Finances). Unfortunately it has been out of control. I have x dollars of discretionary income per month allocated between Investment (Sharebuilder, Bullion Coins) and Projects. Lately more has been going to projects. Sticking with one girl can help reduce cost as exploration can eat up a lot of money. I keep an excel spreadsheet to track all costs in detail.
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15 years ago
I have a monthly budget for Project Costs (SC related Finances). Unfortunately it has been out of control. I have x dollars of discretionary income per month allocated between Investment (Sharebuilder, Bullion Coins) and Projects. Lately more has been going to projects. Sticking with one girl can help reduce cost as exploration can eat up a lot of money. I keep an excel spreadsheet to track all costs in detail.
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15 years ago
I have looked at Craigs list but I have all the action I can hangle with dancers otc and itc. Would rather meet them in club first before making an offer. A Craigs list gal could be a cop or worse a Tranvestite.
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15 years ago
I don't let dancer drama bother me. I don't pay for what I am not getting. Hustlers have all kinda tricks to emotionally manipulate you into giving them money for nothing. Don't do it. Just walk away. There are plenty of other girls in the club who will give you something for your money.
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15 years ago
I like a low profile so I can access the situation and zero in on my target.
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15 years ago
My fav is the gal I have been seeing for a year. When I went up to tip her on stage she put her hands on my dick arousing it. Her smile indicated there would be extras when I took her to VIP (I am member). I had my 56th session with her yesterday. She is married but awesome in bed. Her sexual arousal is playing with it before sex. A real treat! I do her outside and inside the club. The catch - YTD 2009 I have spent $8300 on her....ouch!
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15 years ago
I have been in the SC hobby for years. What the other customers are up to is hardly a concern to me unless I may have to get rough. Could care less about their conversations or pretenses. Its like their background radiation I simply screen out. At the club where I am VIP, I simply take the girls to the VIP room for a private setting away from whats going on in the club. Since it costs $800 for a lifetime VIP membership there, very few of them coming in the club have VIP priveledges like I do. My focus is the girl - Texas strip clubs are the best! In VIP I can get extras not available out on the floor. I usually get what I want from the gals - Its simply a matter of money.
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15 years ago
Their having a ring does not bother me, heck the one I have been doing OTC for a year is not only is married but openly wears her ring. I think some guys do have a prob if a stripper is married. All strippers I have known are either married or have a BF (usually some worthless bum). I did one for three wonderful years otc and she would try to tell me he was just there to see his kid (and their relationship was platonic)and even offered to have me call him to verify (she wore her ring too. I knew better, and her best friend (who I had a few sessions with too LOL) confirmed it. In fact he was living with her and her 4 kids (by 3 different men) and did not mind the money she was bringing in from her meetings with me as he was a jobless ex con.
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15 years ago
I once had a stripper in a Montana club tell me her home club was in Green River, Wyoming and said she "made her rounds" of various clubs throught Idaho, Montana, and Wyoming. Whether she did guys OTC I don't know as I never made her an offer. My gut feel considering she was the best looking one there is she made big bucks from dances and then moved on when the novelty had worn off for the big spenders. Not a bad business strategy for a gal working small backwoods clubs in the boonies where the clientele far outnumbered the few dancers available and then her blowing away almost all of the other girls with her looks. Montana is only one way contact.
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15 years ago
My wife just wants a business relationship and due to female change of life issues has no interest in sex. I won't be celibate any more than I would eat garbage. I wish I had gone to SC many years ago as strip clubbing is a eye opening experience. Strippers are very understanding of a guy being married. The one I have taken as my mistress the last year or so is married herself. She is 27 and tells me she does not believe in monogamy. Even if I was happily married I would still go to stripclubs. Its always fun to get to enjoy some strange. Women want variety as much as men - this is a natural and normal human condiditon based on millions of years of human evolution. Our society's trying to deny this with restrictive laws against strip clubbing and prostitution is simply the exercise of a fools errand.
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15 years ago
Rule #12 - Don't ask her why her Bum, no good druggie BF gets it for free and you don't. Or better yet, why she will kiss him but not you during sex.
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15 years ago
I prefer extras, especially sex. Lap Dances are waste of money in my view unless simply prospecting for dancers who are players. When I can get a HJ for $100 or sex for $200, why spend $200 on dances?
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15 years ago
I would be leery as this sounds like a setup to rip you off. Many dancers will try to get you to give them big bucks with the idea they will meet you later for sex. Don't believe it. I simply tell them that I only pay for what I am getting - I don't do loans or advances. I would not go to a dancers apartment unless I had done several sessions with her and was sure there was no jailbird, Bum, Druggie BF who would suddenly come home. Here in Houston, where you can rent a room at Palace in for $25 for 2 hr, taking her to her apartment may not be your best option. If she gives you some kind of bull she can't go to motel with you then she is probably trying to rip you off.
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15 years ago
Extras in my view are HJ, BJ, or Sex. Many times here in Houston a dancer will quote extras usually $100 for HJ, $75 - 150 for BJ, or $100 - $300 for sex. It just depends on the girl. I have had numerous extras and presently getting sex at $150 - $200 in Houston area clubs where (1) the dancers play and (2)where extras are allowed. The best value recently was one gal who gave me both BJ and sex for $150 in VIP at a club. She had come up to my table off the floor and sat in my lap sucking my lips talking sexy while I felt her up. I asked her if she was a player and what delights she offered - she then told me $100 BJ and $150 for sex (others had quoted me $200 - 300) so I immediately took her to VIP. She was really hot..I fucked her about 10-15 minutes with a BJ interlude about half way thru...After I shot off in her while shagging her doggie (man it was intense!), she did a weird thing. She took the condom and looked at it like trying to see how much cum was in it - I really shot off a lot in her. I thought this was weird and told a friend who is also an avid strip clubber. He said perhaps she was worried about the condom leaking LOL. She told me she would dispose of it (others I had done there told me just to throw it on floor....) Maybe she did not use any other BC? Thats when I spied her wedding ring....strange I did not notice it before. Talk about the wonderful sensations thru rubber with the other guys wife LOL.
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15 years ago
They usually stay in places like Island Suites, Suburban Suites, etc. Often it is usually with a bum BF who they are probably supporting. I remember meeting one for a session a couple of years ago who said "we can do it in my room, he probably won't be back for awhile." I opted to take her to a motel that rents the room for $25 for 2 hours. One I did for 3 years lived with her father along with her 4 kids in a one bedroom apartment. Guess who else lived there - the bum BF. When I helped her get her trailer I was hoping she would finaly get rid of him but I believe he was pimping her out the whole time.
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15 years ago
I spend about 80-90% of my money on sessions with dancers wither ITC or OTC (sex). This week I spent: Tue $250 OTC motel session - HJ, then sex (gal A). Thur $160 sex inside club Champange room (gal A), Sat $40 dances, $200 sex / HJ inside club CPR (gal B); I have gal A scheduled for motel sex on Tuesday for $200 (will be our 53rd session in roughly one year - btw she is married LOL). At present most of this is with one girl (she is so good and loves to fuck) but I stray frequently. This involves HJ, BJ, Sex. I consider spending money on dances as exploration cost (new girl) and try to keep this to minimum. It sucks to just spend money on dances and then not get satisfaction!
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15 years ago
Extras I have experienced: HJ, BJ, and sex. Performance by the dancers can vary. The best is one I have been doing - loves to give HJ, then sex, and will finish you off with HJ if sex doesn't get u off (a real sweetheart. She gives really good HJ, It turns her on to do it! Another will give you BJ then sex and some more BJ then back to sex and I explode in her like crazy - so much fun with her and only $150. Dancer skill and performance in these areas can vary so spending your money on a new one while passing up a proven one might be a dumb call.
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15 years ago
To me a BJ is fun before sex. I want the real deal (sexual intercourse).
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15 years ago
In the club where I am VIP extras are given in VIP room (upstairs) or Champx Rm (downstairs). I expect the extra to be performed to completetion but will tip generously if I feel the girl went above and beyond. Some girls are simply more skillful / enthusiastic than others and completetion with them is not only easier, but quicker and very intense!
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15 years ago
No - There are too many other gals to try out who want to make the team. If a gal gives you a lousy dance don't be afraid to drop her after just one.
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15 years ago
It is not unusual for dancers to like girls. A dancer I have been seeing has says she likes doing girls and offered me a threesome with her and a friend who is also a dancer. But the pricetag of $600 was too much. I plan to counter offer $300.