Do you think a BJ is sex?
casualguy
I read an article in the paper that said a survey of college age girls indicated only around 37 percent of females thought a BJ was sex. A higher percentage of men said it was. I think I'm going to change my view about this. If so many college age girls think a BJ is just having a little bit of fun and not sex, who am I to stop them? I can suck on a girl's nipples and I don't think that is sex so I don't see why the girls can't suck on one of our body parts.
In other news, I read an article the other day that indicated girls who swallow on a regular basis have a lower incidence of breast cancer. This was from a study at a major university. I'll try to find the link to the article.
In other news, I read an article the other day that indicated girls who swallow on a regular basis have a lower incidence of breast cancer. This was from a study at a major university. I'll try to find the link to the article.
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Definitions are too damn confusing, we just want to get off who cares what they want to call it.
(Not this debate again...)
No, a BJ isn't sex. Yes, a BJ is a sex act. In my opinion, a sex act might as well be sex. It is important and "sacred" enough of an activity for me to see that as an adequate substitute for sex. So, I guess what I'm saying is, No but close enough. Does that make any sense?
Here's how you can test whether those 63% of college girls actually believe a BJ is not sex: For any of them who has an exclusive boyfriend, ask her if it is acceptable for him to get a BJ from any other woman.
Sex includes many activities besides actual intercourse. And none of those activities would be tolerated by a significant-other or spouse, if done outside the relationship.
I think your logic is a bit broken here. Would they think it was acceptable for their boyfriend to make out with other women? I don't think anyone considers making out to be sex.
"If you have to ask, you're getting lousy blow jobs."
Bingo!
OTOH, there is beleived to be a positive correlation to how many BJs a girl gives and her chance of developing throat cancer. The HPV virus is suspected.
How about this: A penis penetrating any orifice on anyone else is a sexual act.
How,
You are not the flawed one.
As far as the breast cancer situation..............i will not be getting it if the article is correct.
Judy, you just get better and better each day!
Just something one dancer told me once, apparently she doesn't think anal sex is sex.
Not so fast chandler...
And I'd like to know about the survey of high school students -- did they ask, "Can you get sexually transmitted diseases from blowjobs, if blowjobs are sex?" and get a lot of "no" answers; or did they ask, "Can you get sexually transmitted diseases from blowjobs?" and ALSO "Would you say you were 'having sex' if you and your partner were regularly engaging in blowjobs?" One would be a waste of time to ask; the other would be useful and informative, of what high school kids know about sexuality.
Because the first combined-into-a-mish-mush question is exactly the sort of misleading game that the Puritanical right often plays, creating a myth about how "misinformed" high school kids are, when often, it seems to me, most high school kids are extremely well informed about sexuality, much more so than most members of the Puritanical right. The second pair of questions would be much more "fair" and the answers more informative. The first set would "force" respondents into answering in such a manner that it looked like they didn't know that BJs could transmit herpes, for instance, even if they did know that they could.