CIM
gawker
Older than dirt
Fellatio is a universal pleasure for men. Has anyone ever met a straight male who didn't enjoy a good blowjob from a beautiful woman? Why then is it such a bonus if we can cum in her mouth. Sure you can argue the benefits of spitters vs swallowers but just dumping our seed in a woman's mouth makes it so much better. Is it domination? Is it a way to belittle the "conquest"? I really have no idea, but know that it's so much better than not. My ATF really doesn't like CIM. She's allowed me to do so on a couple of occasions but the histrionics of the gagging and spitting hardly make it worthwhile. I was with another dancer recently and in VIP she went right down on me, started stroking, and took the load right down her throat. No ifs, ands, or buts - she just did what came naturally.Any thoughts or theories on why this is such an attraction?
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jerikson40
ME !!!
Why? Because when a girl gives you a BJ all you see is the top of her head. Yeah, if she's good it feels great. But geez, all you see is the top of a bobbing head. You don't see her face, or her body, nothing !! You don't feel her body, you don't smell her, you aren't tasting her nipples, you don't see a hot, sexy woman, she's not talking nasty stuff in your ear. All the joys of being with a woman are pretty much gone.
So why is it any different from using a fleshlight or whatever they're called, or even using your own hand? For me, it ISN'T all that different.
Now why is CIM so awesome? Personally, I think that part of it is because men are so tired of women who either don't know how to pleasure them, or have so many freakin' rules about what they will or won't do, that when a girl happily does something she wouldn't normally do just for you, it feels INCREDIBLE !!!! She's going out of her way just for you. And that is rare enough with women that when it happens, it's awesome.
Now I'm sure there are also other reasons depending on the guy. Domination for those guys who have been treated like crap by women all their lives and want to get back at them or have some other weird mental stuff going on.
My thoughts are you're overthinking this. Mr. Cat has it about right. It's just about the pleasure of her not stopping when you're ready to come.
I agree with this statement and it was true for me with one girlfriend who would not do that early on in the relationship because a prior bf degraded her during that act. When she finally did it, it was out of the blue and awesome.
With misogynists, quite likely Sir.
In this dangerous STD day-and-age; I cannot see why any dancer would want to swallow some unknown guy’s jizz – would that not be playing russian roulette in her mouth?
I don’t see anything wrong w/ it if a man and woman are in a monogamous relationship (husband/wife; bf/gf); but swallowing some unknown guy’s jizz – crazy IMO.
sc – I know. I just think it is a huge risk to take considering what may be in some guy’s semen.
I can see and understand dancers giving full contact LDs; HJs; CBJs, & CFS, for the $$$ - but BBBJ and BBFS is playing w/ fire IMO.
And I agree with most posters, that BJ with completion is the best, although I would not do a BBBJ in a club. CBJ is fine.
A month ago I met a nice little stripper who offered in car BJ service and I've enjoyed her twice now. The first time she spit it into a soda can I had in the cupholder and the second time she rolled down her window and spit it on the car parked next to us. And that was fairly responsible compared to what I have seen over the years.
Duo I want to marry you :)
Or maybe Duo is just a very astute business woman and tells us exactly what we want to hear :)
LOL. Never that badly with a stripper, but it did a couple of times in my younger years with regular dates who just couldn't handle it. But I have surprised a few strippers with something that they were not expecting.
Her: "Don't cum in my mouth." or "Let me know when you're close."
Me: "No problem." (*wink* - riiggghhhttt. Like I'm going to tell her so that she can ruin the orgasm by trying to finish me with a dry HJ).