Comments by yndy

I have wondered about him. Sixty-six is way too young. :-(

http://wonderopolis.org/wonder/who-invented-the-hula-hoop

I agree they improve any woman's look but, over time, they often help to create grotesque looking feet. My ATF complains about how her feet hurt and welcomes any time she can remove them.

Once I stopped at the club without much planning or funds. My long-time favorite told me I could pay her next time! And of course I did. Another time: "You don't have to tip me. I made enough tonite."

This guy is harmless and seems to be having a great time, but sure comes across as a dork: Older guy with Andy Warhol-esque hair and pants and top of same bright color (which color I can't recall). Passes out "glow sticks" to the dancers. Every one accepts.

She says she started dancing in New Zealand. Book is published in Australia. It's a British spelling: http://grammarist.com/spelling/learned-learnt/

Seconding ButterMan about good conversation. And she really listens to what I have to say.

I imagine everyone who follows this site will be thinking about you/pulling for you.

My long-term bartender and a long-term favorite, both now retired, each said it once or twice. We knew each other for close to a decade, so I took it as a genuine xpression of appreciation/affection, and perhaps even some admiration. In my xperience "civilian women" use it similarly to show that though they may not be "in love" with you, they are extremely fond of you.

For yours: ShadowKitty or Shadow's Kitty

She probably waited until 10 am Sunday morning bc she didn't want to disturb you while you were in church.

For many years, on February 14, I've said "Happy VD."

My late two cents: I had a horrible experience eight years ago tonite: discovered at the end of the night that lost my car keys in the club. My then-fave offered to drive me to my house (despite having a husband and kids to go home to) A few years later, when I was short on cash, another long-term fav told me I could pay her on my next visit. On another visit some time later she said that she had earned enough that night and I didn’t need to tip her.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JwYX52BP2Sk

Perhaps: Stunning

Anyone remember this? http://www.nbc.com/saturday-night-live/video/its-a-wonderful-life-lost-ending/n9521

My first-ever was at gas station. She was finishing at a nearby pump and smiled. Next was one with boyfriend at grocery store and not long after library. We both smiled and said Hi. I’ve run into several longtime favorites (one is leading candidate for my ATF) at our local park: Two of them acknowledged me, but otherwise didn’t communicate. They later told me that’s what they thought I’d want (not at all). Another one hugged me and then introduced me to her boyfriend! Prior to that I saw her at another club she was scouting. She invited me to sit down with her, her ex mother-in-law, and a male friend. Saw another one I didn’t know well, but she didn’t see me. I might have said Hi, but she was with who appeared to be her Mom. I had seen this same one in library on campus some years ago, but again she didn’t see me. I might have gone over and said Hi, but she was at a table library working on a group project (proof that some actually are in school!). Oh another one at park. She didn’t see me and she was with two guys. At our county fair, a short-term favorite caught eyes with me, mouthed “what are you doing here?” walked over to hug me and went on her way. At a big party event last St. Patrick’s Day night, I thought a woman was looking at me. But I couldn’t place her. She was with a guy, so I hesitated to approach her. Eventually, SHE DID! Gave me a big hug. Out of context I didn’t recognize her. We tried to talk but the music was too loud. I think that’s it. I look forward to more encounters. Addendum: A bit OT, but an interesting xperience/story. On way home from club I saw a familiar car pulled off the road. Was my then-fav and her then-gf. Turned out their car's fuel gauge was broken and they had run out of gas. I drove them to the gas station and back while they fought about the situation. Kind of cool to save a couple of "damsels in distress" who were also a couple.

The OP's subject evidently does exist. The first hit of my search: http://ptsshowclubdenver.com/

To add to Papi's comment above: To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose, the next best. More here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/evolution-the-self/201102/love-quotes-the-wisest-wittiest-and-most-cynical This happened so recently, you shouldn't expect to be over her. Does she do anything sensible with all of her $$$?

@Corvus- Almost exactly two years ago: http://www.cleveland.com/metro/index.ssf/2013/01/stripper_who_fell_from_balcony.html

@ATACdawg- HOPE she forgives my typo!

Again my "AFT" Marisa Tomei. And Ashley Judd.

If I were you, I'd give her another chance and see how it goes.

@LMN- This book has been highly recommended for decades: http://www.amazon.com/What-Color-Your-Parachute-2014/dp/1607743620 "In today's challenging job-market, the long-trusted guidance of What Color Is Your Parachute? is needed more than ever. Published in 22 languages and 26 countries, and with over 10 million copies sold, What Color is Your Parachute? has helped millions discover their unique gifts, skills, and interests and land a job--even in hard times." "This 2014 edition of “[one of] the 100 best and most influential [nonfiction books] written in English since 1923,” according to TIME.com, is refreshed with up-to-the-minute statistics, job-field analyses, and advice on social media and search tactics (including Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, Skype, Yelp, and YouTube). However, Parachute’s core message remains intact: WHAT, WHERE, and HOW." What do you most love to do? Where do you most love to do it? How do you find such a job and persuade those employers to hire you? ************************************************************************** I'm pulling for you.

@sclvr5005- Guess she's my 4th string fave.