What would you do?
Clackport
Washington
Monday, August 4, 2014 3:36 PM
I dated this one stripper for a year. She is beautiful, doesn't do drugs, doesn't do extras etc. I would say she's probably the highest earner at her club, she made a little over 125K last year. She has a loyal following of customers who will pay her just to talk to them. I never understood that, but she is drop dead gorgeous. At times when I look at her, I say "how did I get that?" I don't even think I'm in her league. To top it off she is a beautiful person on the inside, so I definitely got lucky.
I had a great time with her, but we weren't around each other as much as I would have liked. She danced 4 days a week, she bartended at another strip club 2 days of the week. Her only day off was Sunday. She was working the night shift, so she usually got to bed at 5 in the morning. 5 in the morning is usually when I woke up to go to work. The only possible times we would have a chance to spend with each other were like from 4 PM to 8PM. A little frustrating to say the least. During the last couple of months of our relationship I tried to get her to look in the future beyond stripping. I have some connections, so I was able to get her a full time job for 45K if she wanted it, but she turned it down. She said she wanted to live comfortably. The problem is she doesn't really have a plan beyond stripping, and she's 26 right now. All of this made the relationship sour down the end.
She ended up leaving me for one of the players on the local NBA team. For some people it would make them feel good that their ex girlfriend is dating a NBA player, but it just made me feel inadequate.
They were together for like 6 months, but today she calls me and tells they have broken up. She said she is so sorry for what she did to me, and she is begging me to take her back. She said she will take her future much more seriously, and that she will seriously consider taking that job that I had lined up for her. BTW she is still stripping.
I swore I was done dating strippers, but I'm pretty sure I will never date a girl as beautiful as her, plus she's a clean stripper, plus she's telling me she will take her future serious. On the other hand it will be very tough for someone who's making over 100K to go to a job paying 45K, plus she did leave me before, plus if she continues to strip there will still be the problem of not being able to see her a lot.
If you were in my position, would you take her back?
Thoughts?
(BTW I'm not trying to force her to stop stripping)
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