OT: Life Changes
Thursday, July 10, 2014 1:08 PM
Going through some major life changes and as I have come to rely on this board as a bit of a sounding board (while often times many of the responses are more satirical than supportive), I figured I would share and ask for some feedback.
The "grind" working in private equity just really wasn't/isn't for me. I found myself mostly depressed and waiting for the weekend. I just could not see that as a way to live my life. As I had explained before, I was not working to support myself, but rather to maintain the access to my trust accounts set up by my family as my father insisted I have gainful employment or I would be cut off.
I finally broke down the other week and told my father that I just really could not deal with it any more and needed to take some time off working but I was scared that I would be cut off, and I would have nothing to my name. While I had a very high paying job in the PE field, i spent most of it at nightclubs and strip clubs and on drugs, quite frankly. My father asked me to fly up to his place in Aspen where hes staying for the summer and we'd "discuss" it.
So, I spent the last few days chugging detox drinks preparing to arrive to Aspen to have my father say "pee in this cup" to determine my trust status (flashbacks to college and grad school years). Maybe I caught him in an especially good mood, but we actually spent the last 2 days in Aspen getting along and he genuinely understood my depression and frustration.
Finally, we agreed that I could take some time off working to re evaluate what it is I want to do with my life, and my trust funds would remain accessible.
I feel like this is both a blessing a curse. I am so happy and relieved that I can relax a bit and I feel the depression coming off my shoulders knowing I don't have to work for a little while. But my father was specific that by the end of the year, I should have a plan in place to pursue a career. Quite frankly, I have no idea what I wsnt to do. I've never found a job I enjoyed.
So, I guess I am a turning point in my life. I am very excited to be able to take a vacation of sorts for the next few months but am truly at a loss as to finding a "career."
Feedback always welcome.
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