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13 years ago
If like getting whipsawed with erratic behavior, lying, and unexplained absences, just hang out with a drug addict. It will change your life.
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13 years ago
RD is correct. When seeking OTC, and you've pretty much determined the girl has some interest, getting her to focus on the money available is the obvious next step (classic negotiating...if all that's left is the question of price, you are almost done).
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13 years ago
Well, I could tell you what the girls at Hiliter in Phoenix said about the gangsta wannabe's who flashed these out-sized rolls of small bills, but I don't want to seem cruel. The proof was that they would spend the middle rounds with the young bucks, vacuum away the cash, and return to the guys who had real money, but didn't flaunt it, toward the end of the evening. Girls like financial security, but they also like self confidence.
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13 years ago
Baddjack's review belongs in the hall of shame...very entertaining.
Blue Diamond, Phoenix, a few years ago before they changed management. On no single dimension was Blue Diamond the worst. Instead, it was the totality of the experience, which was drab, pathetic and soul destroying. All nude, music from a cheap boombox, no alcohol. No lap dances. Just a meager parade of neighborhood druggies on stage, with a few stingy guys offering $1 tips for close up views of pussy. I gave it a rating of 2. I'm saving a 1 for hell.
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13 years ago
Dang, how! That is excellent value. My best low cost visit: Vic's, Irvington, NJ. $5 cover, $5 beer. One girl, 6 or 8 songs (not counting), $40 to her. I left happy.
Of course, we could go crazy with stories about Tijuana.
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13 years ago
Now Art, we are both in the wilderness right now and there is no need to dwell on what we can't have.
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13 years ago
It was the best 30 minutes of my life. At least, that's what I was told.
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13 years ago
Well, that is just horrifying. When you sit in a strip club and look around at the other guys, chances are at least one of them has some very bad thoughts or intentions. Strip clubs aren't unique in that respect, but it is not a comforting conclusion.
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13 years ago
Well, if you're really 17, then my advice is to forget about strip clubs for a while. Save your money for better things. Focus on creating and sustaining friendly relationships with women. You will need that capability throughout life. Besides, you will eventually, if not already, get free sex.
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13 years ago
As a consultant, I am accustomed to using some bullshit "quadrant" to classify things. There is this quadrant that help understand your value to others. Two quadrants are of interest:
1) The Price of Admission
- your money (sufficient)
- your clothes and grooming (no negatives)
- your overt behavior (calm, friendly)
2) Value Adds
- your interaction (listening, responding, expressing, touching))
- your creativity (humor, original suggestions)
- your commitment (remember, return, reward)
For the price of admission, you will have decent experiences. When you add value to the relationship, it will get better. I firmly believe this, even in an environment with a high proportion of ROBs and psychos. Those environmental factors simply raise the level of difficulty, but they don't change the game.
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13 years ago
I like girls from America, China, Philippines, Thailand, Ghana, Eritrea, Ethiopia, Moldova, Jamaica, Germany, Macedonia, Argentina, Brazil, Indonesia, and Mexico. After next weekend, I'll update the list.
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13 years ago
Man, if you are a long time reader of this web site, than you should have a good idea of the range of experiences. So, I've got a suggestion. Forget about worrying, or speculating, or fantasizing, about a club visit, and just go to a damn club. It's very easy: go to the ATM, take out $200, go to the club, walk in and sit down, order a light beer; sip, sip. In the good clubs, the girls will take care of the rest. Or, you can be adventurous and tip a girl on stage $1. Jump in! The water's fine.
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13 years ago
Just be forewarned, the quality of the ladies at the brothels is not that great. Think 30-something, running toward chunky, as the average type. Most of the better looking girls are in Vegas doing Hotel in-calls.
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13 years ago
Go back into the club on the same night at about the same time and see if she is there.
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13 years ago
Free buffet lunches.
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13 years ago
I have a better idea if you want to actually act on your impulse. Go to Tijuana. For 1/10 the price, you will get 10 times the selection and the quality will be better. Brothels in Nevada have been on a steady decline, as sex for $$$ is readily available in Las Vegas, jut not legally.
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13 years ago
Man, I wish that question was even relevant to me these days. There are no strip clubs here. There are regular bars in the tourist hotels. The drink prices are outrageous, but there is a bar in the Grand Hyatt I frequent regularly for several reasons: 1) I can take only so much conversation with my dogs; 2) They have a really decent band that plays 6 nights a week; 3) the place is a watering hole for young guys from the ships that are patrolling for pirates, and they are fun to watch as they get totally plastered, and 4) there is a small collection of decent looking Chinese girls who camp out there and offer "massages". So all is not lost.
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13 years ago
I don't mind at all. But I am curious about what they get out of it. For the guys, it's obviously the intel, and then there is the strong vicarious thrill, and reliving your own memories. For the strippers, maybe a little intel. And then what...talking about work on your time off?
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13 years ago
The people who published this article are described here:
http://www.complexmedianetwork.com/
Basically, they publish stuff to attract page hits so they can sell advertising. Nothing wrong with the business, but it's only marginally about the quality of the content.
So all of us have contributed in our own small way by clicking on the link.
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13 years ago
Without TUSCL, I might have had a normal life. Thank you, Founder, for saving me from years of boredom.
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13 years ago
Are we talking lesbians or casual bisexuals. Because the clubs are full of casual bisexuals. In Phoenix, at the Hiliter, there were 2 petite blondes that always worked at the same time. Turned out they were also swingers, and that one of them had appeared in Playboy a few times. They were into themselves even more than they were into each other though.
Now a real lesbian couple working together in a strip club? I'm not wrapping my head around that one. Where is lopaw on this?
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13 years ago
All this defeatist talk about pussies. Why, that's like snatching defeat from the jaws of victory.
BTW, I took in a stray "cat" 6 years ago, and I hope she is never completely domesticated.
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13 years ago
Sign me up! Honestly, there's always the question, "Is she really enjoying herself or is she faking?" In this case, there is little room for doubt. For me, that would be exciting.
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13 years ago
Well, you do know something about her character, which is that she set a new course for her career and used her money wisely....and she has chutzpah. So write a brief recommendation about what you know, and don't write any bullshit. That way you can stop this argument between your big brain and your little brain.
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13 years ago
A couple of colds. But my theory is that going to strip clubs frequently exposes you to a lot of common cold viruses, and helps you develop defenses. So I heartily recommend strip club visits instead of Vitamin C mega doses.