What do Dancers like about You?
jackslash
Detroit strip clubs
We've had a lot of discussions about what we like in dancers, and so I started wondering what dancers like about us. As for me, the two things dancers find most attractive are my rugged good looks and my charming personality. Okay, now I'll be serious. I think dancers like these things about me.
1. Well dressed. Women pay attention to clothing, and I try to dress well when I go to a club. I often wear a suit and tie, which gives the impression that I have money.
2. Polite. I was raised to be polite, especially to women, and I never say anything insulting or demeaning to dancers. They hear too many disrespectful comments.
3. Non-threatening. I'm a small, old dude, and the girls are willing to meet me OTC because they don't have any reason to be afraid of me. If I tried to get rough, they could probably kick the shit out of me.
4. More money than brains. Where attractive women are concerned, I have more money than brains. I don't try to get the cheapest price out of dancers. I buy them drinks and I pay what they want for lap dances or extras. However, if their prices are way out of line I'll choose someone else.
So, what do dancers like about you?
1. Well dressed. Women pay attention to clothing, and I try to dress well when I go to a club. I often wear a suit and tie, which gives the impression that I have money.
2. Polite. I was raised to be polite, especially to women, and I never say anything insulting or demeaning to dancers. They hear too many disrespectful comments.
3. Non-threatening. I'm a small, old dude, and the girls are willing to meet me OTC because they don't have any reason to be afraid of me. If I tried to get rough, they could probably kick the shit out of me.
4. More money than brains. Where attractive women are concerned, I have more money than brains. I don't try to get the cheapest price out of dancers. I buy them drinks and I pay what they want for lap dances or extras. However, if their prices are way out of line I'll choose someone else.
So, what do dancers like about you?
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That's a pretty good list. But I imagine dancers would rate your No. 4 as their No. 1, lol.
I would also add:
5. Sense of Humor. I usually get the girls laughing. Whether they're laughing with me or at me is something else.
A fav once told me, "I like that you're not dirty like some other guys."
These was while I was groping, er, caressing her ass and sucking on a nipple, lol.
I've gotten moderately sincere seeming compliments on all of the ones on your list, along with steve's addition.
2) Being midle aged and experienced, I know my way around a woman's body. To those who allow it, I get them off.
3) I do dicker on VIP prices, but I'm not one of those guys who try to buy pussy for an absurdly cheap price.
They also appreciate that I am not Dougster.
Having said that, more than once I have heard this quote from day shift dancers: "What flavor gum is that? You smell good, unlike most of the guys. They usually smell like BO and juicy fruit." <lol> Which I can see as that crowd is way different than the night shift, especially on weekends.
2. My wallet
3. My wallet.
4. I've been told I'm not" creepy" like some other customers, but only after they get an idea of whats in my wallet.
5. Did I mention money yet?
Or it could be my money...nah, it's got to be the other stuff. After all, what 20 year old girl DOESN'T want to fuck a 40 year old guy? ;)
Seriously though, I find that looking like you just came out of work from a high powered job is something akin to catnip for dancers. They may not really like you any more than they would otherwise, but they sure will come around more.
That is the most accurate answer for most dancers regarding most customers they "like." Exceptions make the rule.
2. I dont dress like a bum
3. I act like a gentleman
4. My decant looks
5. My flow of steady cash
6. My smile
Video???
Oh yeah.....and that whole "money" thing.
I am a goner in this miserable bush camp where I am spending the month of June with 33 other guys.
1) The Price of Admission
- your money (sufficient)
- your clothes and grooming (no negatives)
- your overt behavior (calm, friendly)
2) Value Adds
- your interaction (listening, responding, expressing, touching))
- your creativity (humor, original suggestions)
- your commitment (remember, return, reward)
For the price of admission, you will have decent experiences. When you add value to the relationship, it will get better. I firmly believe this, even in an environment with a high proportion of ROBs and psychos. Those environmental factors simply raise the level of difficulty, but they don't change the game.
Once they find out that I'm not an asshole, then they like to hang with me. If it's a slow night (little reason to work the room), hanging with me is often seen as a better option than wasting time in the dressing room. Or even if it's not *that* slow, they come back to me any time the well runs dry. Sitting at a corner table, a beautiful stripper on each side of me -- that's as close as this nerdy white boy is ever gonna get to being a playa. ;-)
And on the less aesthetic end, it quite often results in better mileage -- one tends to receive better (and more) what one doesn't try to take first.
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Remember, I know some at the club well and they have access!
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