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6 years ago
Let me know when and where
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6 years ago
with ladies I see outside the club, I give more. our dates usually include dinner at a nice restaurant. (Not olive garden or red lobster. I have no idea how either stay open), a show, drinks and then the hotel. This time of year we will add a short shopping trip before the dinner. the ladies are split between buying nice lingerie not intended for work or a nice dress they can wear to dinner. perhaps not this night but a future date. I will still give them a gift I believe they will like and a card with a little extra in it.
I get some excellent gifts in return.
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6 years ago
I have nearly forty years of strip club tales. I will l need to change some details and my memory of drunken events decades ago is far from perfect. I welcome suggestions on what people want to read. I will accommodate if I can
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6 years ago
I agree with twentyfive for the lush bath bombs. The dancers love them for our hot tub dates. Depending on how well I know them I will add get a basket and add in a bottle of wine and attach a card. If giving cash, I put it in a card. Somehow that turns it from being a tip she earned to a gift. For many the card is not important but a few seem to appreciate the gesture.
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6 years ago
So many to pick from. Without including private parties here are a few that come to mind.
Club Celebration at the redwood in Neptune. Watching a dancer blow a bouncer on stage. it was a bikini bar but everywhere I looked I saw naked dancers. over there two dancers going down on each other. A dancer laying on the bar getting finger fucked by customers. I miss that place.
Strutters in Long Branch. The building was shared by a night club. College chicks kept coming in, getting up on stage or doing lap dances and then going back over to the night club side. They got a bit wilder as they got drunker. Some to ok to it like a fish to water and got wilder with each trip back. I never did find out if these women decided they needed money to party next door, did it on a lark or as part of some sorority thing.
Christmas in pumps. The afternoon was at a friends house near by. My roommate and I were too drunk to drive so we decided to sober up at the only place we knew was open. It was one of the most enjoyable and saddest events I've ever been too. A dancer gave each dancer and the bartender a Christmas card with a few foil packets of coke inside. Things really livened up after that. The few times I have gone on a holiday after that were just sad and depressing.
A bar in Newark known for being crazy. One minute a dancer is up on stage nude with her tongue up another dancer's ass and then you see them in a corner with a few other dancers knitting and sewing to make presents for a former dancer's baby shower. Guys would walk over to ask for private dances.
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6 years ago
they do come out of the woodwork this time of year. I had at least six offers to meet up on black Friday. I'm horny, I miss you. Let's get a drink. Asking me if I need a date to the usual charity functions this time of year. Several more women advising me of their club schedules.
There were more this year than in years past including some ladies I haven't heard from in years.
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6 years ago
"I can bear to look at a girl who is "at best a 5" but I want something much better in a stripper I'm banging."
According to your OP it should be "I banged" instead of "I'm banging" . She was a 7 when you banged her and a 7 is an above average looking woman. Why sully the memory of a good fuck by dwelling on what she looks like in the morning. If you did your job properly, she should look worn out and messy.
Dragon breath in the morning is what gets to me. I know I have it too. everyone does in the morning but it can be a mood killer.
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6 years ago
The dancers at the clubs I frequent use them between dances to get the customer's sweat and stink off them. A common complaint I the landscapers come reeking of a hard day's work and later the Indians come in smelling of curry and very different cultural habits regarding showering and deodorant. A few baby wipes and they are good to go.
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6 years ago
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ei8ht_BallStill don't know what I'm doing here . . .
NJballa is partially right about them loving the business. I think many of them hate the business. It is the only business that will tolerate their behaviors. Some of the drug and alcohol abuse is how they cope with being in a business they hate.
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6 years ago
I have the same experience as NJballa. It happens so often it isn't something I even think about.
Treat it as you would any other person you haven't seen in that long. She isn't your ex girlfriend or wife. Say hello, chat some, maybe get a dance for old time sake or leave that to memories.
If things ended poorly between you, say hello, wish her well and walk back to your seat. Most of people will take the hint. Running and hiding is unmanly. That isn't to say avoiding a nasty situation by walking away is wrong. But you can do it well or not.
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6 years ago
If she says anything, tell her the truth. You wanted variety.
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6 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
"It wouldn't surprise me if someone who isn't really a frequent club patron coined this term on here."
We cover this every few months. It was first used by a stripper in a usenet forum over twenry years ago. Perhaps founder can create a sticky from one of the previous discussions.
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6 years ago
The premier conflicts with football. I will have to watch it later. Tom Baker was the best Doctor
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6 years ago
occasionally there is a comment that a dancer I like is back. I like to check out once good clubs every so often to see if they have recovered. I'll skip it if a recent review indicates it still sucks.
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6 years ago
I would get to one club about 8 pm and get locked in at closing for the after parties and could not leave until 6 AM. Does that count?
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6 years ago
Most customers do not care about the glitz and flashy crap. The money spent on the new rooms would be better spent on paying the hottest dancers they can find. They wont have to pay the dancers in a dew months. The ckub will be packed Once guys know hot dancers and great dances are rhere.
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6 years ago
This is not the first time she or others have done this. I have made it clear i enjoy watching a woman.
Her shift did not end for a few hours so her coming to me wasnt an option. Now I'm waiting on her so we can grab breakfast. She gets to go home to sleep and i get to drink coffee all day.
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6 years ago
I see the problem. You are judging modern women by standards set down by bronze age goat herders or some other primitive society.
You make several assumptions. None of which are proven. For example, you assume we are here for a purpose. You assume the relationship is unhealthy. You mention love. I assume you mean agape. How is a p2p relationship with a stripper contrary to agape?
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6 years ago
The OP doesnt ask anything. It is a declaration damning all strippers. Follow up posts are no better. I could discuss several strippers i know that disprove your OP but i don't think you are here for discussion. I discussed some in previous posts.
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6 years ago
Find out where she lives and wait on her door step for her. With flowers. Naked.
How do you stand out for any woman? Strippers are women and the usual things work. Be nice, be interesting, be confident. Sneak in small bottles of their favorite booze.
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6 years ago
Viagra and Cialis are due to go generic within the next few months. The manufacturers are trying to get what they can while they have the market.
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6 years ago
On a serious note. If you are having this much trouble dealing with aging, you may need to find something to give you a more positive outlook. You are not old. You are a survivor. The things you worry about. Do you give a crap about them when you look at others? If you are like most guys, no, you dont. Others dont care when they look at you. We dont mock bald men. We mock the guy that does the shitty comb over.
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6 years ago
I discovered banging strippers less than half my age is a very good way to deal with growing old.
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6 years ago
Njballa
You probably know it as "The Den".