Some nights nobody is feeling it . . .

ei8ht_Ball
Still don't know what I'm doing here . . .
Last night I got a very mediocre dance from a super cute girl who previously gave it a lot more effort. She might have just been tired. I'm not a regular there. But when we were done she offered me her number. I explained that she'd already given it to me once before but I didn't still have it.

She was like, "Oh, did I block you for texting me too much?"

And I said, "No, actually you were the one texting me. But instead of coming into the club like you wanted I asked if we could meet at a hotel. You politely declined and I didn't bother you anymore after that."

She smirked and said, "That sounds about right."

So I responded with, "I'll be at the bar if you want to stop by and give me your number again." That was the last I saw of her.

She was a lot more fun the handful of times I got dances from her before. But for what it's worth, she'll still pass out her number even when she doesn't feel like trying (well, kind of). And I have to admit, her lack of enthusiasm and passive-politeness about being asked to a hotel kind of makes me want to take this one on as a challenge.

For those of you who like to focus just on an object of desire instead of playing the field, how much time and money would you put into getting some OTC before calling it quits and moving on to a different girl?

5 comments

  • PutaTester
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    6 years ago
    As much time as you have, but no money. If you like buying dances from her in the club with no real expectations of OTC, buy dances and keep OTC open. However, if you are buying dances just to try to get OTC, you are wasting your time.

    I understand the challenge aspect, but you could also be putting barriers in front of yourself when a more likely OTC prospect is available.
  • NJBalla
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    6 years ago
    Sounds like she has a strong case of flakiness which is common among dancers. This is why they love that kind of work. They make thier own hours, dont really need to cultivate regulars, and can disappear for months at a time.
  • Cashman1234
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    6 years ago
    I think your discussion received excellent insight from both tahoecruz and NJBalla.

    Dancers are known for making quick and poorly thought out decisions. Generally, if you don’t get the green light when asking initially about otc, it’s not going to happen.

    The dancer you mentioned is looking to drum up itc business. She’s giving her number out to customers, so she can text them to come see her when she’s working. This can be a boost to a pl’s ego, as he got a strippers phone number - woo hoo! But it’s a business thing - not a hook up. I’m guessing she ends up blocking lots of guys, because they keep pushing to get more than she’s offering.
  • georgmicrodong
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    6 years ago
    In this particular instance, I wouldn’t spend one more millisecond, much less any money, on trying to get her OTC. “Lack of enthusiasm” is not the thing I’m looking for when trying to get take out.

    I’ll spend some time, but not a lot of money, if I get a straight “no” from her instead of the wishy-washy “maybe, after I get to know you” type of thing.

    If her dances are worth it, I’ll buy them. If not, I won’t.
  • K
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    6 years ago
    NJballa is partially right about them loving the business. I think many of them hate the business. It is the only business that will tolerate their behaviors. Some of the drug and alcohol abuse is how they cope with being in a business they hate.
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