Comments by chimark (page 3)

like most of the comments so far, I stick with primarily one club in my home town, and leave the sampling to other clubs when I travel. Given the turnover of dancers even at the local club there is always new talent to sample, and favs to turn too if a new one doesn't grab my eye. For the most part the dancers know more "type" and when a new one comes along the ones that aren't my type tend to point me out to the newbie. I'm sure my favs, probably don't like it, but that's not really my problem... Also, I know which nites my favs work and if I want to see someone different I go to the club on a different nite.

I just wasted 2 minutes reading that???

@ bubbaloo... totally agree with you...

clubber.... sorry I wasn't clear... they do make money on dances, but the DJ is saying that they aren't paid any other way then from tips, ie they aren't paid by the hour.... I think it's rude to beg for a tip... I'll pay the piper and if the service is good then I'll tip over it, but hate it when someone says...that was 2 dances $20 a dance, so it's $40 plus tip... drives me absolutely crazy.... it seemed like it was a rarity that the dancer would ask for a tip until the last year or so...

I've had the best success at Shiek's the few times I've been to Minneapolis on business. Rick's has been hit and miss.

i tried it twice.... epic fail both times...if you like to watch a girl on girl it's pretty good, but if you want attention which is why I go to a club, it basically isn't worth it... my recommendation keep the money in your pocket or do seconds with just one...

i tried it twice.... epic fail both times...if you like to watch a girl on girl it's pretty good, but if you want attention which is why I go to a club, it basically isn't worth it... my recommendation keep the money in your pocket or do seconds with just one...

all kidding aside, this is kinda like the concept what happens in vegas stays in vegas, which is clearly not true as the credit card will come due! PS while I've never woke up with that large of a CC receipt in my pocket, there have been a few times when I looked at it the next morning after a nite at the SC and said... "holy shit, I seriously spent way too much"... like others after those trips..I've learned to leave the CC at home and bring cash, once the cash is done... it's time to go home...

I found it very funny, and while I didn't agree with all of them the one about the strippers going 2 sizes to large when doing breast implants, I tend to agree with as fairly accurate! the crying statistic I certainly don't have a clue if that happens or not, but I still laughed when I read it!

it's a strip club, as far as I'm concerned it's not a big deal, I pretty much think everyone there is scouting and thinking about the next girl, but I do agree with others don't just watch lap dances without doing some tipping of girls. I also think staring and watching without ever looking away is a bit over the top... That being said, I can't ever recall a time when someone watched continuously during any of my visits, so I wouldn't sweat it if I were you...

2001 is convenient to Mons as it's just across the street..but I've never had a great experience there. Personally I've always been partial to Scarlett's at ybor... have had good experiences every time i've gone there....if you want to have some alcohol tampa gold was pretty fun the handful of times i've been there and if you feel like having something more then water...

Christal, First off, you could move high up a list just by asking these questions. I don't have much more to add, but let me hilight that flirting is critical. Assuming your physical attributes are my type which I suspect is quite probable you should make eye contact with me, don't break the eye contact, let the guy do it. When I break eye contact continue to keep an eye on me and I look back at you, then you break the eye contact. Wait a few seconds and then come over to me. Ask if you can sit down and then sit close, flirt and touch like you mention in your original post, you do that and dances will follow. After the dance is over, ask me if I would like more company, if I do, and you're worried about making money, simply tell me that you're going to make the rounds or simply say I'm going to freshen up, after you do your thing then come back to talk to me in a few minutes assuming I'm not with another girl. I understand that if you get a dance set you may not make it back to me, and I may find a different girl, but if you see me still there and you're not with someone come back to me again... It's quite possible that I may specifically be waiting for you so come talk to me and flirt again and we'll see what happens next. If more dances are gonna happen, I will probably bring up VIP and I'll ask what you would do with me there. Be specific and keep your promise don't upsell and not follow through... I'll likely ask again once we start our vip, again don't say you'll do it if I buy more time... During the VIP If you're ok with something initiate the action. If you don't like me doing something, simply be polite and ask me to stop, I'll be polite with you, you just need to be polite with me. Pay attention to what sexual things I am doing to you, if I'm doing it to you, I likely want to be reciprocated and want you to do it back to me, if I'm responding to something don't stop!!! If I'm stroking your thigh, do it back to me, if I'm kissing your neck, do it back to me...and so on and so on.... I think that's enough for now... if I come to Atlanta I'll definitely come check you out!!!

@ Steve... lol... yes this does seem to be a trend (mine included!)

totally agree with others, never bother with 2 girls in a SC, costs way too much money and it's never as good as the idea. I've tried it three times, but I haven't done it in more then 10 years and would never bother to do it again. Whenever a girl tries to push it on me, I always discard it quickly.

shadow... lol... I think that's a bit over the top!

This actually reminded me of one my early club experiences about 20-25 years ago, when I was in a club near Lexington KY, that clubs mojo was that in addition to getting dances by song you could also pay for a girls time, she would then just give you dances and drink with you... similar to VIP rooms now but back then you didn't go into a private area... I got sucked (unfortunately no sucking happened that night!) into doing 2 hours with a girl for maybe $250... It really wasn't that great of a time but WTF I learned from it... I'm still a fan of the time purchase but now I do it via VIP room as opposed to dances... as far as VIP time the most I've ever done was 3 hours...... most of the people in here probably think that's insane and I'm definitely in the minority for posters in the discussion groups as I like the VIP experience on occasion. Most would say I should have just done the OTC experience but I just don't want to get into doing that stuff I don't need the drama... I want to leave the girl in club and keep it compartmentalized...

I'm not one to go looking for much more then a hand job, but about 4 or 5 years ago, I was in a club and I was getting a private dance (first dance ever with her), on the 2nd song she unzips, pulls a condom out of her c cup top (where she hid that I STILL don't know) rips it open slides it on and off we go during a few more songs for some unexpected sex...... I'd never had it in the club before and I'm thinking WTF!!! well I went with it and after we finished I paid for the songs we did. She said just tip me what you thought it was worth... No negotiation she said just do what I thought was owed. I thought hell I don't know what to do with this!!! I added a $50 on the top, thanked her and left. All the way home I was thinking was this a dream... I never got her name and came back about a week later and never saw her again... I sometimes still wonder if I didn't dream it!!!

every time I read this I think WOW... I'm glad I haven't been in a club when that happens! It seems like it's happening more and more often, has any of our regular posters ever been in a club when something like this happens???... Its starting to really make me a bit nervous...

I like the suggestion of splitting it as outlined by superdude. GSV, I tend to agree with you on my really successful SC nights I find that if I stick with one girl she does more as well over time. As I think about it, I think I'll go check out another club and do some sampling first for future favs...,and then hit my new ATF to finish off the night, also if she's not there I have a couple of other girls at that club who are very good substitutes... This is a definitely interesting discussion...

rhino has some nice girls during the day... it can tend to be a bit slower and I've actually had some nice times... but you'll likely still have to pay the cover... Olympic Garden's has been known to be good in the day. I actually have hit paydirt at treasures during the day... both of those clubs usually don't require day cover.

besides the obvious shorts... stick with clothing that's cotton based.. such as dockers... if i'm wearing jeans in a SC I'm not planning on getting many dances, on those occasions it's just chilling and having a few beers or spending time at the tip rail

I'm really not a fan of it... some clubs go so far as make the girl start out wearing an evening gown and then remove it on every dance on stage. I think it's alright if it's done at the beginning of a shift or ocassionally. That being said, when a girl wears it and it's not required I find myself very intrigued by what's beneath it and quickly want to tip the girl to get her to take it off!

3legged man... surprisingly it was at a Chicago club.. at Blackjacks in Elgin. although I must admit if I'd seen this from someone else who lives in the chicag area I wouldn't have thought this was possible either! vince yeah it was older clothing, and it's a pair of shorts I've worn to strip clubs for the past few years... actually this same pair of shorts had a stain from the girls outfit a few wears earlier when she was rubbing so hard on my crotch... I thought that was wild, but when my shorts ripped a small hole I definitely decided this took the cake...

when going to a club... I nearly always take the exact same amount of cash. Only if I'm in the mood to cut loose do I take more and I only take one credit card with me that has very low limits on it that I set personally before I have to "call" and I never bother doing that... this keeps me disciplined... those few times I have really cut loose is after I've gotten a bonus or I'm traveling somewhere else and more of a vacation then at my home club... I definitely think eye contact and smiling at a girl is the way to grab her eye with handing her the money and saying hello... they remember and come over to me most of the timte...