the fantasy of the SC before going to the club

8/19/2011 3:04:42 PM

I'm probably in the minority here, but I still enjoy thinking about the fantasy of the strip club. Prior to going to a club especially if I'm planning on spending some time and cash and not there for a short period scouting for future experiences. When I'm planning something like that (which is the case for me this weekend) I think about it a fair amount of the day and think and hope for the best time ever.

Some of the things I think about is finding the perfect girl, having the perfect connection, the ATF that is willing to cut prices and negotiate on extras because she can tell she's going to still make some good money that night and is also in a good mood. Some of the other dancers being nice eye candy and appetizers before picking the one I planning on really zoning in on... Etc, etc.

Mind you this doesn't happen prior to every time I go to a strip club, and in fact it usually only happens about one in every 8-10 visits and on a few occasions I've had a blast when I only expected to be there maybe 30 minutes and keep the spending under $100.00.

On these times when I've been really looking forward to going, I've found that I've been disappointed rarely.. While I still am looking for that PERFECT experience I still get amped up on occasion just thinking about it...

Here's to another one of those times as I think about tomorrow night...

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pabloantonio

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13 years ago

Me too chimark. The anticipation of what could happen still makes me excited. The simple pleasure of being with an almost naked, beautiful dancer is one of life's joys that I can never get enough of.

What a pathetic loser I must be.

Moose42

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13 years ago

The fantasy of what will happen runs through my mind the day before and the day of the visit, especially if I plan on dropping some serious cash. Like you, I think of finding the perfect girl that knows how to have a good time and will be open to extras.

But I have learned to temper my expectations because I have learned what is and is not usually acceptable. If I know my ATF will be there then I know what extras to expect, but if she is not then I try to enter without expectations.

harrydave

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13 years ago

Moose42 hits on the right combination. Step 1 is visualization prior to the visit. This will activate hormones and brain chemicals, and instill a confident attitude that the girls will pick up on immediately. It's best to enter a club with a smile on your face and a slight swagger. But, once you hit the club, step number 2 is to get rid of the fantasies. You are now back to real life and you want to be open to what's happening at that place and time. You're like a baby now, just amazed by everything you see, hear and touch. The girls will like that too! And your fantasies won't be competing with your enjoyment.

gatorfan

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13 years ago

I thought the fantasy was the strip club

Alucard

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13 years ago

With my ATF there is a certainty about how the visit will unfold. I like that better than the possible great swings of emotion of real disappointment and/or adrenalin high. For me the decor & atmosphere of The Penthouse Club in Detroit, provides the Fantasy part of the equation for me. My ATF takes care of the payoff!

"The simple pleasure of being with an almost naked, beautiful dancer is one of life's joys that I can never get enough of" - I agree!

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shadowcat

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13 years ago

Aren't you supposed to warm up first? Like watching porn and jerking off? :)

harrydave

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13 years ago

There's Something About Mary....and Tiffany....and Crystal....and Brandi...

jackslash

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13 years ago

When I used to go to clubs infrequently, I would fantasize for days in advance about a planned visit. Thoughts of forbidden pleasures with unknown women. But then I became a regular. As a regular, you get better mileage but you also know what to expect from the club and the girls. You lose some of that thrill of anticipation.

chimark

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13 years ago

shadow... lol... I think that's a bit over the top!

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