Comments by chimark (page 2)

If he died from natural causes, does that mean, he was getting a lap dance from a girl who hadn't gotten a boob job?

if the girl just came off the stage and she tells me that she needs to freshen up... I figure about 3 songs... If it's really busy, I may add another song at most, but if after about 4 songs... it's time to look for someone else. She may find you later, but either she has someone already on the hook or someone grabs her before she gets back to you. Either way the time to have her have returned to you has maxed out by then...

not a bad idea. I'll be interested in the results. I tried to give at least a rating for everything from 1-10 as a forced ranking. Maybe, I shouldn't have done it, as I would not necessarily rank that girl a ONE if I saw her in a club. I think if you give too many 5 or 6's the score won't has as much of an effect, other then to continue to reinforce that there are a bunch of 5-7's out there!!!

I gotta say the only birthday wish on this list that means anything is the one from stiletto! 59 years old. That's still hot! That being said, I'll go ahead and throw the HB to you as well! hope its a good day!

Jackson... I lived in Baltimore for 7 years and still get there several times a year, and I personally found the block to be a bit overrated. That being said, it's something you have to check out. Nearly every club extras can be had if you choose the right girl. It's very old school and more of a sleezy experience with hawkers at the front door. If that's your thing, then you'll have a good time... it's wall to wall clubs.. larry flint is usually pretty solid night in and night out, you may want to start with that one...

3leggedman, lol... it actually wasn't in Chicago but your point is valid! It was in St. Louis a few weeks ago. I travel down that way about 8-10 times a year. Not enough to usually recognize/know the talent, but occasionally I may remember a few of the girls.

30 minutes just never seems to be enough, I've finally decided to do an hour and that way I don't have to worry about time constraints... there's usually a discount for an hour and if I pay by the 30 minutes I end up paying more.... the clubs that I go to for the most part includes free drinks, so after the "fun" is done, I will often do a shot or two with the girl if they're interested...

I wouldn't call myself a whale, but I would say I'm a nice swordfish. That being said, the club that I would go to on only an occasional basis wasn't enough for the girl that I liked to see there when she had her moby dick there. My story was like this, I come in, see one of my favs, we're getting comfy she's got her hand where I want it, out on the main floor, and I'm just about ready to move to a more private area, when she gets called from the DJ. She excuses herself, and about 10 minutes later the floor manager comes over and tells me that the girl I was with would likely be busy for a minimum of 3 hours... would I like a different girl??? I advised the manager that I would think about it, but decided to leave because the other girls just weren't working for me after I had my heart on that one. Hate to be outspent, but it happens...

@dandydan, I'm not sure Blackjacks is any more shady then any other clubs that do this business, the clubs is a small hole in the wall tho, I'll give you that. Years ago, there girls here were skanky, but in the last few years they've hired some hot girls. (including Tony's GF!, wonder what she's thinking now!)

this club is the closest one to my house, and probably the one I frequent more then any other, however, it may be time to start driving a bit further and going elsewhere...

nice survey.... more of these would be interesting!

started this hobby... back in the early 90's... at that time I would only go once or twice a year butit slowly increased over that decade. By the early 2000's I was probably going maybe 6-9 times a year. since around 2008 I moved it up to about once a month... and in the last year or so... I've been going 2-3 times a month........ if this keeps increasing... I may just need to get a bed and move in.... wait a minute that just may work for lots of reasons!!!

A few thoughts on this subject. I've told a few of my favs, that tonite I'm here to sample the field a little bit and told her that i'm ok if she's working the floor. I told her that if i'm not busy or she's not busy we may end up just spending time anyway. The girls typically are more appreciative of that then sitting with me and I'm either just in the mood to look and not partake much or didn't bring a load of cash to spend on her. The last thing a girl wants is to spend time with one of the regs and the regs didn't cash in to their expectation, especially if it's a busy night this can lead to other issues down the road... I've even had one of my favs come to me and let me know that a customer just came up to her blindly and asked to take her to the VIP and she's come up to me and asked me if it's a problem because she doesn't want me to get mad and in return she said that sh'es cool if I spend time with a different girl that night because she's busy.... (one of the times this happened she had a rotten experience from the VIP, and I reaped benefits from her later that same night that are still paying off!) Because of those discussions, she knows that I sometimes have a wandering eye (and wallet) and I tell her that early on and she's cool with it. Remember this isn't an exclusive arrangement, she's interested in your wallet and you're interested in her body.... if you don't spend $ on her, she won't stick around anyway....

slacks and button down shirt in the winter, shorts and a tshirt in the summertime. I've never had any problems getting dances in either time of the year

this club is not in a very safe area, if you want to do Indiana clubs that offer extras go to IS instead.

i have never asked a floor manager or a waitress who I should spend time with, On a few occasions I have asked a a waistress or a floor manager to invite a girl over that I chose, but I am the one who picks the girls based on my personal taste. IMO You're better off asking a customer who just came back from a dance then asking a floor manager.

somewhat surprised that Farrah hasn't made the list by now. I was more of a Jacylyn Smith fan but #1 on my list has to be: Kathy Ireland followed closely by Heather Locklear (46)

I did 6 over a 24 hour period in Vegas once, excluding Vegas, two numerous times, three occasionally and 4 a few times...

crazy story... $300 for a butt grab??? also, yet another example of a stripper being an employee and not an Independent contractor, since the dancer was fired for breaking a "club" rule.

3LM... first off, regarding get a dance from an "unknown", if she meets the "looks" criteria, then I would definitely get a dance from her, if you don't click with her move on and mark it up to a bad investment, if it's good you've got another girl in your list to count on in the future. Unless the first dance is really bad and there is no connection, I'd try a second dance but if that one is bad, mark it up to a bad day and go home and save the $ for another tim In regards to waiting for a favorite who goes with a whale, I had a similar experience where there was this one girl that I used to really chase, but she has two huge whales that spend loads of money on her, and while I drop some $, I'm clearly a "c" choice for her compared to those other two! She'll come to me if her other two aren't around, but she's very aware and will drop me in a heart beat if her whales show up.... I've actually gotten to the point, where I put her in reserve and if my other favorites are available, I'll turn her down and spend my money on one of the other two that I like as I don't want to miss out on the other two.

excellent points re wit, and eye contact, those are absolutely critical to me and I should have included those in my discussion. I know that a stripper is always looking for there next customer just like we're always looking for our next favorite, but the girl better look at me and make good eye contact, and a great sense of humor goes a long way. (is this kinda like a "the girl has a nice personality"??????) I still put looks first, if the girl doesn't pass the eye test then she I'm not even going to bother having a conversation with her.

interesting comment about types of drinks having a potential appeal. I typically drink beer at a club and not mixed drinks but one time I did order a captain and coke, when I was at a different club that I'd never frequented and girls stopped by and talked to me fairly regularly. I'll have to remember that in the future.

sorry mjx, I don't know how I missed that other thread... I was tired over the weekend and I'll use that as my excuse! I'm kinda rethinking buying a gift myself, or like someone said, may just give a gift card or an extra time in VIP... I need to give it some thought... and as for buying weed that's pretty funny!!!

i was at a club last nite, and the dancer told me that the club is requiring every evening shift to work on Black Wednesday. I have to many family responsibilities to go the club on Wednesday nite, but I will almost certainly go on Friday.

like most of the comments so far, I stick with primarily one club in my home town, and leave the sampling to other clubs when I travel. Given the turnover of dancers even at the local club there is always new talent to sample, and favs to turn too if a new one doesn't grab my eye. For the most part the dancers know more "type" and when a new one comes along the ones that aren't my type tend to point me out to the newbie. I'm sure my favs, probably don't like it, but that's not really my problem... Also, I know which nites my favs work and if I want to see someone different I go to the club on a different nite.