What's a PL to Do?

i would do just what you did. you never know when you might discover an untapped gold mine. i would answer differently if you werent short on time.

3 - Throw in some pouting and moping, and I would have done the same thing.

A. I won't wait and wait and wait.

I would have done the same. Never hurts to have too many favorites.

obviously you weren't totally content with C. I wouldve done A or B. I have waited for a girl for a good hour or so before. I don't feel bad about it. I, unlike many of the guys on here, understand this is a job for these girls and don't feel shafted if they are with another guy. jealousy isn't an issue for me in the least. If you feel that C wasn't good, then bring enough money for both A & B. take B up on her offer if A isnt available, and when A is available, you get more. Simple, isn't it?

Myself, I always get a few random LDs with new dancers. And save the VIP $ if I find a keeper or when the Fav shows up.

I also would have done the same as you. As long as you didn't get stupid and spend more than one dance on her, it's a cost of doing business. After all, there's no telling A and B will disappear entirely, so you'll want to know who to replace them with. Now you know who to avoid.

if your close enough with 'A' for the DFK etc, just get her number and tell when when your gonna be in so can come meet you eh? (get her OTC if poss ??) ... depends how good you are with her ?? if not try B next time ... then E F G ... TO Z !!

i must admit i had a ATF like your 'A' ... who actually told me if i had dances with someone else, she would still dance for me, but no longer DFK etc ... (even tho of course she will have been doing all sorts of tricks with her own whales) but am guessing if i was paying, she'd be doing what i want, coz it's the money always talks, hence you lost her to the bigger spending whale ? remember always, you got the money, they want it, so spend it and enjoy

.. so yeah i would have at least tried it out with C ... you had to man. A is always waiting for next time.

I would have done same as you except you made it sound like you got multiple dances. I would have given her a one song tryout. If she isn't up to the standard expected, you'll walk away relatively unscathed but info richer.

Other?

Having been dissappointed like you several times, I have resorted to always taking dancer B while waiting for dancer A to show. Dancers are notorious for not respecting appointments. You don't think she would wait exclusively for you?

Slightly OT: On the first day of the month I got VIP with dancer (ATF candidate, has my #). Told her I could come back in on the 15th. She texted me every day she was working (10 times) before the 15th. Repeatly text her I would only come out that day. On the 14th I text to say ill be in the next day. She texts back that we is not working the 15th. What is unclear about my availability? I would have been sitting there all night waiting for her, if I did what you did.

Maybe she got a better offer for a private show? But respect my timetable or I'll spend my money on someone else.

@HonestT: Dude, she did respect your availability. She told you she wasn't going to be there, in advance of the event. Given the utter chaos that many strippers seem to live in, it's unusual that you got that much notice. When you told her the first time, she might not have known if she'd be working the next day, much less two weeks away.

A little more info....

"A" is extremely desirable, both in appearance and output. She was the top dancer at another club about 120 miles away from my regular club when she made the switch. I enjoyed frequent visits with her for the first couple of months, but recently she's become much more in demand at the new club. I expected this to happen and I don't begrudge her success.

"B" has danced at the club for almost 10 years. She's always been very nice to me, but I've always had someone else ahead of her on my wish list. Last Tuesday I would have done dances with her but she had some others going on at that moment. Had I had a bit more time, I'd have danced with her since "A" wasn't available.

"C" is downright beautiful. Her stage name is "Passion", and it seems to be the right name. She really caught me by surprise with the "Hands off" warning in the LD. Samurai, I only got 2 dances with her. Sometimes the 2nd dance with some girls is better than the 1st. In this case, no noticeable change. I stayed with her for the 2nd since there was nobody else I'd want besides A and B who weren't available in the time I had remaining.

Bluemonday, I've tried to bring up OTC with "A", but that's just not one of her options. She gets rides to/from the club with her mother, so I can't see her asking mom to bring her to my hotel and wait in the car.

3LeggedMan, it could be worse, her mother could work at the club too. Yes, I know a stripper whose mother works where she dances.

Before I had my falling out with xATF, I would have totally picked "A" in this situation (or tried to keep waiting for her). Post-xATF status, I realize that's a dumb move becasue you're nothing more than a customer to her.

So, these days, I would have probablly picked "C" assuming she got my flag up. See if I could expand my options. You couldn't have know you'd strike out in advance, so don't get hung up on it. Just don't waste money on "C" girl in future.

canny... would that be at the lakeside lounge???

hey 3 leg, there's no PL's in my book, keep going mate and let us know how you get on next time... at least you only spent 2 on someone no good and yeah that long enough for sure right, maybe save up and be the WHALE man !!

I would have done the same thing. However, I would not have taken the second dance after the first "lame" one. My experience has been that if the first dance is no good, there is no need to proceed with more . If the first dance is good, then the second has a good chance of getting better. Kind of like tipping at the stage, the first dance gives her a chance to convince you to proceed further.

3LM... first off, regarding get a dance from an "unknown", if she meets the "looks" criteria, then I would definitely get a dance from her, if you don't click with her move on and mark it up to a bad investment, if it's good you've got another girl in your list to count on in the future.

Unless the first dance is really bad and there is no connection, I'd try a second dance but if that one is bad, mark it up to a bad day and go home and save the $ for another tim

In regards to waiting for a favorite who goes with a whale, I had a similar experience where there was this one girl that I used to really chase, but she has two huge whales that spend loads of money on her, and while I drop some $, I'm clearly a "c" choice for her compared to those other two! She'll come to me if her other two aren't around, but she's very aware and will drop me in a heart beat if her whales show up....

I've actually gotten to the point, where I put her in reserve and if my other favorites are available, I'll turn her down and spend my money on one of the other two that I like as I don't want to miss out on the other two.

@mjx01 no, it isn't.

Depends on the club. At some, the manager or barmaid would cut her loose from the whale for me. At others, stay a bit then leave.

As Forrest Gump says, strip clubs are like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get.

I'd do "C". I've done "B" and been burned that they have not come back out or been occupied for a long time. It keeps options open and gives you info for future trips.

Definitely "A". Life's too short to wait around on unpredictable dancers.

I would have done the same thing.Wait? Hope? Please.Most (not all) of these chicks would step over their dead mother to chase a buck.They're living hand-to-mouth and planning/keeping appointments is not part of their world.

3LM, nothing you said says "PL". Yeah, you had a crappy experience, but it's as much luck of the draw as anything.

As to what I would have done or what you should have done, nobody really knows. What if you had passed on C and she was incredible, so much so that she'd make you forget A even existed?

OTOH, it appears from your story that you weren't sure that A was even going to be there when B first approached you. I think I would've definitely gone for B in that circumstance. You can always throw her off your lap in mid-dance if you spot A. ;-)

On the third hand, B might've turned out to be a dud. More often that not, I've found that reality rarely meets up to expectations, when expectations get very long.