What's a PL to Do?
3LeggedMan
Chicago, IL
After about an hour, floor manager informs me "A" is in the building, so I'm content to keep waiting. After another half hour, "A" hits the floor, is met near the dressing room door by a freakin' whale, and walks right past me with whale in tow to a table in a remote corner of the club.
So now I know that I won't get dances with "A" unless I wait at least another hour or so, which I don't have time for this day.I scan the floor looking for "B", but the Hot MILF is nowhere to be found. Finally I surrender to the charms of Random Hottie "C", who's been after me all night. She's probably the best looking of the 3, but I have no clue what to expect in a LD. We get the dances, with lots of grinding and her playing with my nipples. When I go to touch hers, I'm met with a quick "Hands Off!" response. Overall a semi-satisfying LD, but way below what "A" or "B" would provide.
Now I'm filled with buyer's remorse, disgusted with my impatience. What would YOU have done? Choices are:
A - Save the money, come back another day and hope Club Fave "A" will be free
B - Wait around for Hot MILF "B" to reappear and dance with her
C - Take your chances with Random Hottie "C", hoping to find another good alternative
D - Other
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i must admit i had a ATF like your 'A' ... who actually told me if i had dances with someone else, she would still dance for me, but no longer DFK etc ... (even tho of course she will have been doing all sorts of tricks with her own whales) but am guessing if i was paying, she'd be doing what i want, coz it's the money always talks, hence you lost her to the bigger spending whale ? remember always, you got the money, they want it, so spend it and enjoy
Having been dissappointed like you several times, I have resorted to always taking dancer B while waiting for dancer A to show. Dancers are notorious for not respecting appointments. You don't think she would wait exclusively for you?
Slightly OT: On the first day of the month I got VIP with dancer (ATF candidate, has my #). Told her I could come back in on the 15th. She texted me every day she was working (10 times) before the 15th. Repeatly text her I would only come out that day. On the 14th I text to say ill be in the next day. She texts back that we is not working the 15th. What is unclear about my availability? I would have been sitting there all night waiting for her, if I did what you did.
Maybe she got a better offer for a private show? But respect my timetable or I'll spend my money on someone else.
"A" is extremely desirable, both in appearance and output. She was the top dancer at another club about 120 miles away from my regular club when she made the switch. I enjoyed frequent visits with her for the first couple of months, but recently she's become much more in demand at the new club. I expected this to happen and I don't begrudge her success.
"B" has danced at the club for almost 10 years. She's always been very nice to me, but I've always had someone else ahead of her on my wish list. Last Tuesday I would have done dances with her but she had some others going on at that moment. Had I had a bit more time, I'd have danced with her since "A" wasn't available.
"C" is downright beautiful. Her stage name is "Passion", and it seems to be the right name. She really caught me by surprise with the "Hands off" warning in the LD. Samurai, I only got 2 dances with her. Sometimes the 2nd dance with some girls is better than the 1st. In this case, no noticeable change. I stayed with her for the 2nd since there was nobody else I'd want besides A and B who weren't available in the time I had remaining.
So, these days, I would have probablly picked "C" assuming she got my flag up. See if I could expand my options. You couldn't have know you'd strike out in advance, so don't get hung up on it. Just don't waste money on "C" girl in future.
Unless the first dance is really bad and there is no connection, I'd try a second dance but if that one is bad, mark it up to a bad day and go home and save the $ for another tim
In regards to waiting for a favorite who goes with a whale, I had a similar experience where there was this one girl that I used to really chase, but she has two huge whales that spend loads of money on her, and while I drop some $, I'm clearly a "c" choice for her compared to those other two! She'll come to me if her other two aren't around, but she's very aware and will drop me in a heart beat if her whales show up....
I've actually gotten to the point, where I put her in reserve and if my other favorites are available, I'll turn her down and spend my money on one of the other two that I like as I don't want to miss out on the other two.
Life's too short to wait around on unpredictable dancers.
As to what I would have done or what you should have done, nobody really knows. What if you had passed on C and she was incredible, so much so that she'd make you forget A even existed?
OTOH, it appears from your story that you weren't sure that A was even going to be there when B first approached you. I think I would've definitely gone for B in that circumstance. You can always throw her off your lap in mid-dance if you spot A. ;-)
On the third hand, B might've turned out to be a dud. More often that not, I've found that reality rarely meets up to expectations, when expectations get very long.