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18 years ago
Bones I think I will take your plan of leaving the extra cash I don't plan to spend in the car. At least that way I won't have to pay the fee for using the ATM that I don't bank with.
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18 years ago
Huge: I didn't say every girl, just some of the girls that aren't looked at as being attractive. You can tell whether someone kind of likes you are not. There are alot of signs. For example, they make sure they speak to you every time they see you, smiling or laughing at something that you really didn't intend to be funny.
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18 years ago
Airdancing during a lapdance. Leaning her back up against your chest, then lifting her ass up above your lap and pretending to grind you but when she is only grinding air.
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18 years ago
Good responses from everyone but I have 1 more scenario. Let's say you tip both dancer A & dancer B. Dancer A comes around to your seat after she is offstage and says thankyou. She also asks for a dance. Dancer B tells you thanks while on stage but doesn't bother to come to your seat. Both are good looking but Dancer B is a little more your taste. So what do you do? Do you get a dance from either 1 or do you look for someone else?
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18 years ago
Thanks for the suggestions. I also forgot to mention while we were sitting at the table she answered her cell phone. When she got off she stated that she was talking to some guy that use to be a regular customer of hers at another club. Said she hadn't spoken to him in about a year. She stated that he had forgotten her number and had ran across it and was wondering who's number it was and decided to call. She didn't stay on the phone that long with him maybe a few minutes.
I thought to myself that I guess that will be me a year from now if I choose to take that path.
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17 years ago
jablake there is something wrong in your life if a dancer has to add "value" to your everday living. You are fallen to deep over this woman.
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18 years ago
FONDL: I don't normally go into stripclubs looking for sex, but the girls mentioned are caring on in a manner that a customer would think they would do something. Heck Jade approached me about the session.
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18 years ago
Dennyspade: I didn't say that I shared a smoke with them, heck I don't even like cigarettes. Why not share the specifics, the other guys on this board who have OTC sessions do it. U guess next time I will keep it to myself.
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18 years ago
Iggiveup: Maybe I should keep the names a secret However, it just seems like none of the girls or any other personell at the club visit's this site. The past 3 1'2years I have been going to this club I have only ran into 1dancer that actually reads websites on the internet about stripclubs and that was the pinksite not tuscl. So that's why I wasn't worried about mentioning names, but there is always room for error so I will leave their names out next time.
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20 years ago
Why can't your partner work????? This is a perfect example of why not to spend a large amount of money in the stripclubs.
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20 years ago
Shadowcat most of the clubs in this area don't have alot of good looking girls. On a given night there may be 2 or 3 that look nice while the other girls are just average and even when they look nice they don't always have a "warm" personality. So it would be harder for be to have alot of favorites at one club. It's probably better to have a fav at a number of clubs instead of one.
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20 years ago
On the average I spend about $60.00dollars. The most I have spent is about $100.00 and that was at a upscale club. I don't have the pleasure to spend a lot of money at a stripclub when I know I have to pay my own bills.
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20 years ago
I don't want the girls to be all over each other I want them to be all over me. I have been approached a few times into doing that but have declined. It may be fun but then it may be a let down. If it is a let down then you wil be saying "man I shoudn't have gotten that dance. I could have got me another dance from another girl in the club but I wasted it on a twosome. If I had money to waste(which I usually don't) I might give it a shot, but if I am on a set budget then I will leave it alone.
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20 years ago
First of all, maybe I should have clarified this but the girl wasn't hanging out with me. I had already gotten a few tabldance from her. Matter of fact after she got her shots, she got up and left the bar which tells me she doesn't have much class. If I really like the girl yeah I will buy her a drink but don't turn around right after you have finish the first one and ask for another drink again. I go strictly for the dances and she should be happy I got a dance for her and not try to pressure me into buying drinks. I also want to point out other little things that are annoying. This one place has one of those little prize machines like you see at the fair. You put your money in and try to guide the little handle so that you can pick up your prize such as a CD etc... Yeah it might not cost but a dollar to play the game but it is still a waste of money. I gave the girl a dollar and she didn't even win the prize, I thought later that I was a fool for giving away money so she could play that game. If you want to blow your moeny at the stripclub and not get anything in return like a dance then that is your perogative but I refused to be anybody's fool.
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20 years ago
H'mm I thought Joan Jett made that song?? I guess she did a remake.
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20 years ago
Superdude what does your class ring have to do with you having a good job??? There are plenty of people with college degrees but can't find work in their major so they are working at the Mall or Burgerking somewhere.
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20 years ago
I had one of my ATF tell me if you really want to know whether a dancer really likes you ask her to buy YOU a drink. If she says no or makes up some kind of excuse then you know she isn't being real. All I am asking is that dancers need to treat the customers like they are human beings not a ATM. I have really respected kind gestures from some dancers. It doesn't have to be any thing big. One dancer sitting with me was eating some hot wings and asked me did I want some I told her no, but thanks for offering me some. I had bought a shot for one dancer(whom I liked). I asked her out of curiosity how did it taste and she poured half of it in another shot glass so I could taste it. There was another incident where a dancer was eating some lifesaver candy she offered me some some of it. The point I am trying to make is these are instance where the dancer is treating you with respect and like a human being. This really wins points with me if a dancer treats me kindly and with respect. I will more than likely look for her again when I go back.
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20 years ago
Basically it all depends on what the DJ is playing. if it is a modern song 1990's till present it will probably be about 4minutes long although older songs from the 80's and 70's tend to be longer 5 or 6minutes long. Certain types of songs such as Techno seem to last longer than Rap, R&B or Rock songs. Heck you don't even no for sure when the Techno song ends, you think it is over then the music starts up again.
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20 years ago
Here is my list of qualities that I like in a dancer.
1.Personality- I love it when it seems that a dancer and I have a certain chemistry. When a dancer and I have alot of the same interest in things the conversation is more enjoyable.
2. Smell- I love a good smelling lady. For me that is a turn on. Bath & Body works best but a nice smelling perfume that isn't too overbearing will do as well.
3. Looks- It usually goes face, then legs, butt and finally breast. I don't want a women with no butt at all but she doesn't have to have a big Butt either. Nice Breast or like icing on the cake.
B.T.W. I love it when a dancer can makie her butt jump. That is definetly a turn on,but not every dancer can do it or has the "assets" to do it.
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20 years ago
Casual Guy I live in the South as well. I am not a alcoholic but it is a shame that alot of the dance clubs close earlier on Saturday nights because they can't sell liquor past 12:00AM. Most of the clubs close around 1:30 or 2:00 o'clock on Saturdays. I guess this is why they refer to the southern region as the Bible belt.
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20 years ago
Well superdude some of the dancers might care to a ceratain extent but most of them already have a boyfriend or fiance. I asked this question on another message board, one guy posted that "you" are about 10%friend and 90%percent customer to them. I believe those percentages are close to be accurate. I might be willing to say 20%friendship at the most. Customers just have to take it for what is is and that is entertainment& business first and foremost the friendship comes in second.
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20 years ago
Well, I don't really know about this subject. I think that I still could be really good friends with her but I don't know if I would waste my time trying to have a serious relationship with her. I will admit that I have met some stripppers who I thought were really nice and exhibited all the traits that I like( Nice Personality, Nice Looking & Nice Body) but just the fact that she was getting nude & giving lapdances to other guys would not sit right with me. I could be her "sex" partner if she was cool with that and maybe a real good friend, although if I started to have true feelings for her I would try to sway her from stripping although I know that she would have to make that judgement. I would be upset though if we had dated for 2 or 3months and she just decided to tell me then about her occupation. I have met a few strippers that I honestly thought the feelings mutual that she liked me and I liked her. I was getting ready to leave the club and had walked out to my car. The Girl and her friend were getting ready to leave and was talking to one of the guys that worked there. The one I like was on the passenger side of the car. I noticed that she was looking in my direction so I waved and told her goodbye. Later on I thought to myself maybe I should have went over there and asked her for her number but she was just there for the weekend she worked at a club 5hours away from that town. So it might have been just a waste of time anyways to persure it.
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20 years ago
Well I think I was about 23years old when I went to my first one. I had not too long come back home from the army. The strip club in town had only been open for a few years but I wasn't there when it first open. I had heard some guys at working talking about it and saying there were alot of girls from the college that were working down there so I decided to check it out. Well, it wasn't all that great the girls looked okay but they didn't serve any alcohol or give table or lapdances. Still it was kind of cool at first but it seemed to go down hill over the next few months. I decided that I would check out this other club about 80miles from where I stayed. I met this one Gorgeous dancer named Savannah. She was Hungarian about 5'5 looked to be around 125 to 130lbs leanly muscled with long dark curly hair. I ended up getting a lapdance from her the first night and afterwards I said I got to go back because she was tight. SHe quit probably a year or so afterwards and the club never really had another dancer as sexy as her but I have found other spots to go and visit.
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20 years ago
Dain what clubs are these that let you practice that? I know if I pulled my Jimmy out at one of the clubs I go to I would get kicked out and probably banned.
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20 years ago
Just about any place in Georgia outside of Atlanta. Oh yeah Columbus is messed up.