MistressDEvil

Hi. Female here. Always wanted to go to a men's club. I've been ready to apply dancing a few times--the now-ex fiance said no way in hell. Chuckles. I want to watch, basically. I'm not lesbian, and the man I'm currently with works as a bouncer in a club. I think the female body is an artform. I have several reasons for wanting to attend. First, I my man as aroused as anything. Whether that's a movie, my own talents, or having a stripper give him a lapdance in front of me, I know he'll be rock-hard and raring. Second, I think there are things that all females can pick up from watching. Subtle moves that will make a man be happier with the relationship. Third, like I said, I do wish I was dancing. Since I had my son, a bit of exercise and toning is needed but by going, I can see what the dancers do and what rules they abide by. So I'm strange. Maybe. I'm just normal, I thought. D.

What about perfumed shampoos? Are they capable of transferring odor to the men you dance for, or are they ok? I'm asking as a possible-future dancer. I prefer myself fragrances dealing in Vanilla. I know that this scent is a variable one with men I've met (some can't stand it, and I understand that--a few others go nuts with it), and I have found Suave shampoo that leaves a clean, vanilla scent to my hair. I add a hint of vanilla extract, or Bath and Body spray, and I am out the door. Would this be overwhelming, or ok? Thanks guys. D

Clean and Sober, I apologize; I mispelt the word, but here's the link to prove it does exist: http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=rubenesque I'm what is considered in today's trend a BBW. I belong to the Y, try to not eat badly, and such, but I have had a kid. That has made things so difficult in getting back in shape. Oh, on a note for being lazy from the other board--I'm a graduate student with a degree in Computer Science and working on my LAED/MAED. I don't want to dance because of the $, but it is more than McD's; I want to dance because I have always wanted to dance. :) D.

Thanks Tom. Actually, the handle is my "alias" only to hide the me behind the female. :) An ex was into the BSDM scene, and I adopted the name as sort of revenge. I am Dee, though. Mistress is simply the long version for "Miss". Mistress

How does a female go about getting started in a clue? I don't mind going and watching, but I'm not sure I could do a private dance/lap dance. That just feels weird. Is there a way to get over the weird? Or is that just a personal thing? (I have no problem watching someone else get a lapdance, btw...)