Comments by lopaw (page 23)

For a while there I would have also said that I was SCing too much, but lately I have been distracted by other tawdry & seedy endeavors. But if I had to pick one thing to improve it would probably be that altho I am better at approaching some dancers rather than waiting for them to walk by, I need to do it more often.

Plenty of those type of dancers here in LA. I have approached a few here & there and usually wound up with shitty dances, do I rarely approach them now. But if one does ever come to me I'll give her a whirl.

Most educated women today are neither marriage nor baby focused, choosing to either delay marriage & kids or choosing not to do either. It's environmental as much (and probably more) than biological IMO. I personally have never had any desire at all for either marriage or babies, thought I did wind up getting married,lol. No kids, tho. It's just not in my DNA.

There's a lot to be said about older dancers. They have more experience and tend to be more customer service oriented.

Watching nun porn is a bad habit to get into. sorry...couldn't resist ;)

Yes, sometimes as a courtesy if I'm not sure of her boundaries. It is usually met with a "thank you for asking" and then access is granted.

Solo 99% of the time.

As a woman I can get away with pointing out this issue a bit easier than guys can, and have had to a few times in the club. It's never an easy thing to do, but like bad breath & BO, some people just can't smell it on themselves. Tactful & delicate is the way to go. Props to you HG for mentioning it or else she probably would never have known. Now at least she can address it.

Freakin' gorgeous.

Go get your lap on ;)

lol sharkhunter - you're overthinking the invisibility thing too much. Just go with it!

Too bad you aren't in LA. I am a female clubber with extensive experience and plenty of reviews. Hit me up if you ever relocate :)

The waitresses often know more about the goings on of the club than the managers do.

To become invisible. With that super power I don't think any others are needed.

One of my most favorite memories is of me and 2 hotties at Olympic Gardens in LV about 5 years ago. In the middle of the day I take the 2 dancers to the not-so-private VIP area where we all strip down to our birthday suits in a booth and create a daisy train of DATY. Although the area was fairly empty, it was not private at all and very visible to anyone walking by. I remember being on my back with a pussy on my face and another face on my pussy when the waitress came by, stopped dead in her tracks, screamed "oh my God!" and ran off somewhere. Nobody else came by after that, and we finished up and went our separate ways. Good times, good times.

@jas - yeah the days of true amateur nights in LA are long gone. I remember they used to have them on Monday nights at Bare Elegance and on Wednesdays at the Jet Strip. For a long time it did attract amateurs to come and compete for prize money and it was fun. But gradually the contests were taken over by dancers from other clubs using the amateur night to check out the club as a possible new place to work. Eventually the clubs just stopped doing them.

Depends on where you go. Where I club I usually wind up topless and sometimes naked in VIP with a dancer. Customers of either gender are not allowed to strip on stage, tho.

I get asked that kind of thing alot, probably out of the girl's genuine curiosity of what happens between me and dancers. Even if my previous dances were tame, I'll tell her that we both were naked and 69ing. Sometimes that scares the shit out of a timid dancer, and sometimes I get to experience it, lol.

To me extras are any exchange of body fluids, including saliva, from the neck down.

Btw - if you are serious about seeing a provider stick with a site like TER.

I like them both equally. When I want a sure thing, I see an escort. When I want to hunt prey, I go to a club or AMP. Here in LA it's like a candy store filled with all kinds of yummy possibilities!

It's happened a few times. Usually lasts anywhere from a few months to a little over a year. The beauty of it is that when it eventually ends it's drama-free and we both go our own way.

There aren't any stripclubs between Venice & LAX. The closest one other than Bare Elegance is a bit further down the street and it's called Jet Strip. Similar to Bare in dancer quality but a much smaller club and very LM these days. It's also a nude club like the Bare.

Synn has their "Stripped Thurdays" and the place gets packed with dancers & PL's grabbing those special $75 VIP's. The down side is that there is always a wait for a VIP since the place gets so busy.

This GIRLZ prefers to have the dancer licking MY pussy.