Definition of Extras
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I've always thought of extras as something that is negotiated with the dancer for services above and beyond what they provide in a dance.
I also include services that require your dick and/or her pussy to be out in the open as extras. That would include BJs, fucking, DATY, and unencumbered HJs.
Under this criteria, I don't consider FIV, an inside the shorts HJ, or LDK to be extras.
I've said before that I don't do extras. I misspoke (or mistyped). What I meant is that I don't do VIP or negotiate for extras. There are rare occasions when I get lucky. I don't think there is anything wrong with them, my budget just doesn't allow it and I have set a line that I don't want to cross IRT some action.
Am I off base with what I consider extras and what are not.
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Since then, being allowed to touch T&A has been so common, I no longer classify it as an extra.
At other Atlanta clubs, an ITP HJ probably is an extra since you'd have to go to VIP to get it.
I've always thought of it with a more narrow definition ... if I cum because of direct skin-to-skin contact between my dick and her (hand/vag/mouth/foot/tits)(I'm not into foot jobs or russian, but those are both extras in my book), that's an extra. LDK, cumming through OTP stick shifting, DATY, FIV, none of those are extras. I would absolutely consider ITP HJ an extra, if by "ITP HJ" you mean your dick is still in your pants, she reaches her hand in and jerks you off in there. Def an extra in my book.
two five: coming at this from another perspective, under the theory that "a word's meaning is its use". You are in SF and you ask me to recommend an extras club. I recommend Condor Club. You go there, spend a bunch, and the most you get is FIV. You come back to me and say, "dude, WTF! That wasn't an extras club." I say, " Bro, I thought you said you got FIV? That's an extra! It's an extras club."
You:
- Agree, that by your own definition, FIV is an extras, and since FIV is readily available there, by definition that's an extras club.
- Tell me some choice metaphors about my matrimonial lineage and/or the spatial proximity of my cranium and rectum
Now sir you can remove your cranium from your lower intestines, and thank your mother for giving you the tools you need to enjoy your wonderful life. ; )
But afterwards, remember to take her home with you to continue, and do keep seeing her.
SJG
If you don't cum because you just couldn't get off that day, that's one thing. If she just takes your dick out, plays with it a bit, but cumming was never the intention -- that's barely different than a little stick shifting.
I'll go back to my standard I used with twenty-five:
If you asked your buddy to recommend a strip club that has extras, and he recommended a place and get FIV, or she plays with your dick a bit but doesn't let you cum -- do you basically think he's an idiot who did not understand the question, or do you think, "well sure, her playing with my dick for 20 seconds is an extra! Thanks bro!".
Most assuredly, 95% of the guys here would be saying the former... stick shifting and FIV can happen decently often at even no-extras clubs, the only exception being the clubs where the dancer is 3 feet away and a bouncer is making sure you don't touch. By the standards some guys in this thread are using, the strictly-no-extras light contact clubs I go to are extras clubs, because sometimes I can score some FIV, stickshifting happens, sometimes a girl will play with your dick a little. Those are not extras clubs, IMO, and it's not what PLs mean when they talk about extras