Talking to the manager
larryfisherman
California
There was this stripper I came across a couple weeks ago who completely rocked my world. For some reason I didn't ask for her number that nights. I've been to the club five different nights since then in search for her, but she wasn't there.
I messaged the club on their social media page asking if they knew what days she worked. Whoever's in charge of their social media replied that they don't have access to the girls schedules, but that I could try asking the manager, because the manager would have access to the schedule.
Two questions:
1. Do you think if I asked the manager that he or she would tell me? I don't want to come across to him her as too stalkerish.
2. Whenever you've talked to strip club managers about complaints, questions, etc have they been helpful?
I messaged the club on their social media page asking if they knew what days she worked. Whoever's in charge of their social media replied that they don't have access to the girls schedules, but that I could try asking the manager, because the manager would have access to the schedule.
Two questions:
1. Do you think if I asked the manager that he or she would tell me? I don't want to come across to him her as too stalkerish.
2. Whenever you've talked to strip club managers about complaints, questions, etc have they been helpful?
19 comments
I say go ahead and ask the manager. Usually no problem. Just don't ask any other dancers or female staff, because they will gossip.
And please, don't listen to any TUSCL creeps. Instead, start fucking this girl in your own bed.
Good Luck
SJG
I generally don't talk to managers or other customers unless they talk to me first. If I have questions about a club I'll ask dancers. Waitresses can be helpful, but only if I see they are aligned with the dancers I prefer. Bartenders are an option if the dancers aren't around. DJ's and bouncers are down the list because a lot of them are fucking/trying to fuck the dancers. But if any of the above takes the time to approach I'll respond in kind, because that just makes the visit go better.
Anyone you talk to in the club could have an agenda based on their relationship with the dancer. You may have to talk to multiple people to make sure you can verify information. Best thing to do is make sure you get information from the dancer. But we've all been there.
The DJ, bartender, waitress etc could tell me if she's working that day, but as far as the weekly schedule, the manager would have a better idea.
Best answer seems to be PrimO's- "When I worked at a club, we would always tell the PL that she was supposed to be coming in. They just want to get you in the door knowing you'll probably spend some money there regardless. They don't mind lying to you."
The manager (or probably anyone who picks up the phone, at the manager's direction) will tell you that sure enough, Tiffany will be there any time, come on down! Drink our make-up, watered-down alcohol, pay our cover charge, and await your future ex-ATF. Plenty to look at while Tiff makes her way to the club just to grind on YOU.