Talking to the manager

You are probably better off asking a bartender, waitress, other dancers, or even a dj.

Don't worry about it. You don't come across stalkerish at all.

Kinda stalkey

I'd ask another dancer or a waitress.

That's what I would think LDK, more potential money for the club.

It's in management's self interest to make you think she will be there, even more than she actually is. So keep that in mind.

My goodness Larry, you've found a girl dancing at a strip club who has a brain. No one here on TUSCL will believe you. They will say that you are making it all up and have never set foot in a strip club.

I say go ahead and ask the manager. Usually no problem. Just don't ask any other dancers or female staff, because they will gossip.

And please, don't listen to any TUSCL creeps. Instead, start fucking this girl in your own bed.

Good Luck SJG

1. Whenever you've talked to strip club managers about complaints, questions, etc have they been helpful?

I generally don't talk to managers or other customers unless they talk to me first. If I have questions about a club I'll ask dancers. Waitresses can be helpful, but only if I see they are aligned with the dancers I prefer. Bartenders are an option if the dancers aren't around. DJ's and bouncers are down the list because a lot of them are fucking/trying to fuck the dancers. But if any of the above takes the time to approach I'll respond in kind, because that just makes the visit go better.

Depends on the club and the managers but I think I would lean towards taking to the dj.

Anyone you talk to in the club could have an agenda based on their relationship with the dancer. You may have to talk to multiple people to make sure you can verify information. Best thing to do is make sure you get information from the dancer. But we've all been there.

The pee troll is the best resource for any SC info.

The girl may not even work there anymore. Move on. It's not meant to be.

@johndough I saw her a couple weeks ago and it wasn't my first time seeing her at the club. It was the first time I interacted and got dances with her though.

The DJ, bartender, waitress etc could tell me if she's working that day, but as far as the weekly schedule, the manager would have a better idea.

You can try asking the manager, but if they say they can't tell you, then I'd try the dj. They tend to know which girls work on their days, but not their entire schedule.

The waitresses often know more about the goings on of the club than the managers do.

If fixating on a girl you met once isn't stalkerish than I don't know what is.

Dude this is creepy as shit

^ Yes, my first comment was intended to be interpreted as 100% sarcasm.

When I worked at a club, we would always tell the PL that she was supposed to be coming in. They just want to get you in the door knowing you'll probably spend some money there regardless. They don't mind lying to you.

From LDK82- "I think the manager would have no problem with you asking. A customer interested in seeing a dancer is moneymaking potential to him."

Best answer seems to be PrimO's- "When I worked at a club, we would always tell the PL that she was supposed to be coming in. They just want to get you in the door knowing you'll probably spend some money there regardless. They don't mind lying to you."

The manager (or probably anyone who picks up the phone, at the manager's direction) will tell you that sure enough, Tiffany will be there any time, come on down! Drink our make-up, watered-down alcohol, pay our cover charge, and await your future ex-ATF. Plenty to look at while Tiff makes her way to the club just to grind on YOU.