Escort talk
larryfisherman
California
I've never dived in the escort thing, but just browsing some LA area escorts, there are some mouth watering girls, and a couple pornstars I've jacked off to pretty frequently lol. I'm thinking about trying it out at least once. A few questions though.
•There was a traveling escort on there that you book that requires for her first time customers that you prepay on PayPal (you can pay cash on subsequent meetings) before you meet her. Is that normal? Sounds kind of risky to me. You could prepay and she just not show up.
•If you meet a girl that doesn't look like her pics (she might be older and heavier in person) do you just turn around and leave without paying her? I would feel a little bad for setting up a meeting, showing up, and then walking right out, but then again she should show accurate pics.
Do any of you actually prefer escorts over strippers? If so, why?
•There was a traveling escort on there that you book that requires for her first time customers that you prepay on PayPal (you can pay cash on subsequent meetings) before you meet her. Is that normal? Sounds kind of risky to me. You could prepay and she just not show up.
•If you meet a girl that doesn't look like her pics (she might be older and heavier in person) do you just turn around and leave without paying her? I would feel a little bad for setting up a meeting, showing up, and then walking right out, but then again she should show accurate pics.
Do any of you actually prefer escorts over strippers? If so, why?
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2. An escort will not look as good as her pictures
Strippers are better than escorts.
What is really interesting is that many escorts began as strippers, so in many cases they are both a stripper and an escort.
Before you book with anyone, check their reviews on TER (or other dependable escort review sites). Don't book with anyone who doesn't have recent reviews.
I haven't done the escort thing in a long time, but I never had to deal with a girl being vastly different from her pics because I did my research first. If that ever did happen to me, I'd just walk away. I wouldn't feel remotely bad about it.
And then by the time you are alone with each other, you know each other very well.
Also, at a strip club it is See, Want, Get. You get to have her dressed and painted up as you first saw her. I would not waste that opportunity, and be their in a hallway waiting for a girl to open the door.
SJG
In my case I just had the fortune to experience the most amazing sexual encounter of my entire life with a blond girl from Eastern Europe, Better than any sexual experience with civilian or stripper or pornstar I have had, I might write an article with details, but in escense she is a sexully liberated human being that enjoyed the experience and made me enjoy the experience.
I wrote an article about how my friend found his ATF escort and decided to give it a try and see if I could find someone, and I am glad I did.
If you want to try, just prepare for the worst case and hope for the best possible outcome.
Find an independent.
Go to her place (in call), be ready to turn around and walk away if she is not of your liking or doesn't look like the pics (bait and switch).
Is better if her incall is in a high end neighborhood, less likely the police will mess with rich wealthy powerful influential celebrities, politician, business men etc. clients.
You have to look the part of a good customer, shower, shave, groom yourself, be well dressed, clean, clean, clean.
If you do run into the police, keep your mouth shut and ask to speak to your attorney, chances are you won't even get arrested or cited, walk away.
Once with her behave like a gentleman, and do your best to make her feel safe, desired and appreciated she will reward you accordingly if she is the one for you
I wish you and every one who goes the escort route the best.
I really don't think that even crosses her mind unless she thinks it determines if she will get repeat business.
If you first approached her at a strip club, it will be great. But if the introduction was made some other way, the first meeting is going to be a time of high stress.
You only have one first meeting with a girl. I would never want to waste that by having it brokered in some way other than f2f.
SJG
SJG
In fact, when they did strike, it never had anything to do with the ad. It was always just neighbors complaining, and so LE had to figure out a way to get in without an appointment. If all else failed, they just did a knock and talk and tried to scare the people away.
SJG
There are a lot of providers out there that will screen you like crazy. They will ask for references, which would be the name of another provider you have seen. Being that you don't have any references, you will be limited to providers who are newb friendly. There are some out there that will see you if you are just starting this hobby, and some will even state it in their ad. If they post an ad and they don't say either way if they are newb friendly or require references, there is a good chance they may still see you. That is how I saw my first provider.
I never contacted a provider that had fewer than 5 pictures, and among those pictures, at least 3 needed to show their face. There are several that will not show their face in pictures, or will have their face blurred out. I can understand that some want to protect their privacy, but I personally prefer to know what they look like so I know if I am attracted to them. You are sure to find a couple that will have plenty of pictures and won't be shy about showing their face. When it comes to comparing pictures to what they look like in person, I've been fortunate enough to not run into a situation where they looked different than their pictures. I guess I am just a lucky bastard.
After finding what looks like "the one", the next thing you need to consider is what their price is. Some will post prices in their ads, and some will not. If their price is too high, you can always find one who looks just as good, but has a more reasonable rate. Some may actually charge you a higher rate than normal if it is your first time seeing them. If you go through with it and all goes well, you will get a much better rate the second time you schedule with them.
When it comes to reviews, be hesitant to contact those who have fewer than 10. To be safe, I would still be cautious if they have fewer than 20. It may be in your best interest to find one who is both a high-volume provider and also newb friendly. I have seen those types, so they are out there. When I say high-volume, I only mean they have a long list of clients that they schedule with and not necessarily that they have 10+ appoinments daily. Realistically, your average escort only schedules 2-3 appointments daily.
When it comes to doing research, I only consider TER to be a good secondary source of information. While TER has the best selection of provider profiles and reviews, there are no actual pictures or advertisements. A lot of profiles do have links to websites, but other than reading reviews about the provider, I really don't like the way that TER is set up.
I recommend a different type of website for your primary source for researching escorts. Back in the day, I used a site known as Naughty Reviews. Both providers and hobbyists used it. Providers would create profiles and post ads. Hobbyists would write reviews about the providers. There were also forums that both hobbyists and providers could post discussions on. As it is, the majority of the conversations on the forum were among hobbyists.
Naughty Reviews eventually went to shit and no one uses it anymore. Today, there is a similar website known as My Scarlet Book. I have browsed through ads on My Scarlet Book and found out two of the providers I have seen several years ago are still escorting. One of them happens to still have the same exact phone number as I still have it saved in my phone. It has made it very tempting for me to send her a text, even though I know she won't remember who I am after 3+ years.
I never used sites like Backpage or Craigs List.
When I want a sure thing, I see an escort.
When I want to hunt prey, I go to a club or AMP.
Here in LA it's like a candy store filled with all kinds of yummy possibilities!
1. Strip Clubs are fun but like said, "not always a sure thing"... even with knowing what to ask and how to negotiate. You can still get a ROB or less than satisfactory outcome. Not saying that couldn't happen with an Escort. But lets say I have never been out right disappointed with an escort. But I have with a stripper.
2. Plus depending on the time of day and what not.... Strippers could have a little B.O. from a long day of work. While most escorts are freshly showered.
3. With escorts they will let u know if you get 1 or 2 pops. So if you think about it you get more bang for your buck. When I have been with strippers and they want more $$$ for the second pop.
4. Lots of times the cost is more with strippers. What I am getting at is drinks, cover charges, valet, tips at the rail, etc. Where escorts are typically the price of is up front.
5. Look at the site P411.... if you are planning on doing the escort thing a lot more than just once. Lots providers are ok with you just having that account to make sure YOU are not LE. Plus I haven't heard yet of a escort with a P411 account being LE. So pretty safe for you.
6. I have never prepaid. I would choose a different one if they ask.
7. I have never walked away from an escort and they have never been a bait and switch type experience. So I have been lucky. But again I use TER, P411, and do my research like others have mentioned. Also if there is an agency that has a lot of girls reviewed and are positive reviews. I would go see one of their girls if they didn't have my 5 + review policy.
Now I like my time with strippers. But in my area... not so much ITC action other than hand stuff..... so that is why I lean towards escorts. But when I travel.... I do my research here as well to find an ITC action.
Good luck in what ever you do.