Comments by easyed14

Everyone's forgetting the obvious reason, she got MARRIED!

My preference is an outie! I love playing with and sucking on those luscious lips. I also prefer a small, nicely trimmed landing strip over completely shaven. But, when it comes down to it, I'm not so shallow as to turn down either. Pretty much any pussy is good pussy as long as she has good hygiene. She must be able to pass the finger test!

In my experience, I've found the the older dancers usually offer more. Either more touching, OTC services, etc. It's usually because they find they need to in order to compete with the younger, hotter dancers and not because they are any more worldly than when they were younger. That's just my humble opinion.

I believe a CBJ is a Covered Blow Job (using a condom) and a CFS is Covered Full Service again with the use of a condom.

While I've dated several strippers, 1-3 dates, I've had relationships with three. They didn't work out. Two of them were very similar. They were both very high maintenance. They lived very expensive life styles expecting to go out for dinner every night then wanting to party afterwards. This is fun for a couple of weeks but after a while it's not only very expensive, but it takes a toll on your mind and body. Initially, the sex was awesome. Something about doing it with a sexy, beautiful woman that you know is coveted by other men. But eventually that feeling wore off and it was no different than sex with a non-stripper. Then with the third stripper it was totally different. She was just as beautiful as the other previous mentioned girls but she was older(26), a single mom and very responsible. She cooked, didn't like to party much, was very intelligent and she made me laugh. I ended up falling head over heels for her. But she wasn't ready to quit her job and I couldn't handle having the woman I cared for work as a stripper. I wouldn't care that she had been a stripper, she just couldn't strip and be with me. We have remained friends for over ten years now. She's still dancing. Bottom line, it can be fun if you keep yourself emotionally unavailable and are prepared to party most every night and spend a lot of money.

There are three SRC's in the immediate Los Angeles area. All of them are very nicely decorated and are amongst the plusher SC's. The one downtown offers high mileage and the girls rate in the 5-8 range. The two outside L.A. City limits offer very high mileage to extremely high mileage at the City of Industry club. The girls at these clubs vary between 5-9's. So I guess it really depends what you are looking for and also on the differing city ordinances.

My, Yoda you do get around don't you? Thanks for the tip. I'll have to check out the Oxnard club. It's a little over an hours drive for me, but it sounds like a may be worth checking out.

This was an interesting question so I decided to do a Zip Code Search on this web-site for my area in Southern California. I was amazed to discover that within a 25 mile radius of my zip code, there are 91 clubs listed! You would think there would be some point where there is market saturation? 90% of the clubs listed are nude. I understand it's easier to open a nude club since they don't allow alcohol and thus it's much easier to obtain all the necessary permits and licenses.

Alright, I looked through the list again and pretty much determined that at least half of the 91 clubs are within the 25 mile radius and all of the clubs fit within the 40-50 mile radius that FONDL suggested. All I can say is there must be an awful lot of us "crows" out there flying from club to club to support so many SC's. I guess I should count my blessings. I feel sorry for you guys out there that have only a couple of clubs from which to chose.

I've been to the Ectasy Club and the bed dances are a nice change. Depending on the dancer you get, the experience can much more simulate the actual sexual experience you would have on a date. I mean, how many of us have sex sitting on a chair or bench? Okay, well maybe once or twice but I would bet most of us have sex in a bed lying down, right? Unfortunately to get that kind of service you have to invest more than just one dance or what ever it is you call it because I don't think it qualifies as a dance. I don't go very often because it's a little too rich for my taste.

As far as laps go, I don't care if it's topless, nude or even bikini as long as there's high mileage (2-way contact). On stage, I prefer nude but topless is okay. In California you can't have nude and alcohol so I usually end up at topless bars and drink until I can't tell whether the girls on stage are topless or nude. lol

Shadowcat, I have to agree about the shaved kitty. It's alright to look at but I really don't like the feel of the stubble. Especially on my face! I prefer a nicely trimmed little bush much as you described. Sometimes that landing strip comes in handy in the dark. At least it's not like it used to be back in the 70's and early 80's . I don't know if you're old enough to remember but, back then, girls didn't much shave or even trim then. I remember my first girlfriend, as soon as I got her panties off and I looked down there and it looked like she had Don King in a scissor lock! I remember I didn't DATY much back then. Maybe that's why I developed my attraction to bubble butts?

I have to agree that a guy's personal hygiene can definitely improve his dance mileage. By the same token, I have on occasion gotten dances from some very attractive dancers that have had either bad breath or bad body odor. I don't care how hot she is, that kills the total dance experience for me and I always dismiss them after one dance.

casualguy- What's say you do the east coast sampling and I'll cover the west coast? I won't want to place too heavy a burden on you.

casualguy- What's say you do the east coast sampling and I'll cover the west coast? I won't want to place too heavy a burden on you.

FONDL. Did you mean to say if your objective is "sex" rather that "sexual?" Isn't sexual arousal/stimulation the entire purpose of strip clubs?

FONDL, not really knowing you, I can't speak for the uglier or bad breath part. lol But I think over time, lap dances have come to include a lot more grinding. And what better part of the anatomy is best suited for that than the butt. It works for me because as I've stated in the past, I'm definitely a buttman!

QuicksandMan, are you actually suggesting going to a SC in your silk PJ's ala Hugh Hefner? Attire is fairley casual out here in California but not that casual. I don't think you'd make it past the doorman in PJ's. On the subject of getting off during a lap dance, I don't think I've ever cum in my pants during a dance. Now, in clubs where they offer extra's that's a different story but in those cases, my Willie's been freed from the confines of my pants it's dancer beware regarding the mess. Am I in the minority? Are most of you guys able to get off in your pants during lap dances?

Careful FONDL! That last sentence of yours sounded an awful lot like RL! Could it be his influence is rubbing off on you? lol

I know whenever a dancer introduces herself as BJ, that I have to take her back for a VIP just to make sure.

I much prefer real to fake. It's extemely rare find a nicely done boob job that both looks good and feels good. I especially get turned on by a nice set of real breasts with large eraser type nipples. She can be almost totally flat chested but if the nipples are nice, I'm all over that!

A recent survey was conducted as to why men like blow jobs; > 10% like the feeling > 12% like the dominance, and > 78% like the fucking silence

Out here in So. California, the majority of SC's take a percentage of the lap dance dollar. I'd rather the dancer get it all but ultimately the only thing that concerns me is am I getting my moneys worth from the dancer and is the entire bar experience enjoyable? Those are the things that determine whether or not I'll support that particular club.

Here in So. California, the prices for lap dances in topless clubs is usually $10 which are in bikini with very little mileage although sometimes YMMV. The nude clubs usually offer topless lap dances of varying mileage from mid to high, for $30. Nude lap dances are usually $40 with most clubs requiring a minimum of 3 dances in private to semi-private booths. Mileage, depending on the clubs can be medium to ultra high with a menu of extra's offered at some clubs.

6"2", 230lbs, 50 years young latino, straight brown hair(just recently began to thin out on top), grey temples, goatee, and a rather handsome devil if I say so myself. lol Told I resemble Ricardo Montelban.